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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
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So as before some very kind verified fabbers have helped out by meeting unverified fabbers to help them on their fab journey.
Remember it's only a social over tea/coffee etc
Post where you are and maybe someone will help you out.
Also make sure you have a profile pic as no one will normally meet blank profiles...make some effort lads  |
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Wednesday in Limerick or Cork any other day this week.
I know the feeling.
I was that unverified frustrated fabber until my Fab angel came from heaven to help me.
Happy to meet either guys or gal. |
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over a year ago
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"Unverfied social 26th April Dublin come join us for laughs and banters pm for details "
This is a golden ticket for anyone looking to break onto the scene |
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"We can help out.. Limerick city or charliville daytime coffe, bank holiday weekend "
I'll be in Limerick over the bank holiday weekend and would be more than happy to buy a coffee and cake for someone to get verified. If you have the time, I'd be grateful
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now?  |
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now? "
Wheres halfway between Galway and Waterford? |
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now? "
Same here hun 5 for tonight all cancelled there loss. |
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now? "
And that's the reason I wouldn't even bother meeting at socials and parties is the key! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now?
And that's the reason I wouldn't even bother meeting at socials and parties is the key!"
Most socials exclude newbies...I was doing it for them purely to give them a start, not for a potential play meet  |
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now?
And that's the reason I wouldn't even bother meeting at socials and parties is the key!
Most socials exclude newbies...I was doing it for them purely to give them a start, not for a potential play meet "
And thats the good thing about it.lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now? "
I'll be your back-up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would definitely like to meet someone for a tea or coffee belfast area. Hadn't used Bristol account for a long time and probably doesn't look good with no verifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would definitely like to meet someone for a tea or coffee belfast area. Hadn't used Bristol account for a long time and probably doesn't look good with no verifications "
This account not Bristol account ???? shouldn't try to reply while working |
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"Would definitely like to meet someone for a tea or coffee belfast area. Hadn't used Bristol account for a long time and probably doesn't look good with no verifications
This account not Bristol account ???? shouldn't try to reply while working "
Bristol is a fair distance from Belfast lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would definitely like to meet someone for a tea or coffee belfast area. Hadn't used Bristol account for a long time and probably doesn't look good with no verifications
This account not Bristol account ???? shouldn't try to reply while working
Bristol is a fair distance from Belfast lol"
Yeah it is lol. I dint eve have another account . I have dj'd there a few times tho. Great place plenty of fun to be had |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unverfied social 26th April Dublin come join us for laughs and banters pm for details "
If ur in or near Dublin then the unverified social is the way to go & u won't meet a nicer host than Xena |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely coming across as illiterate tho looking at my messages
Could be a lot worse you should see some of the messages we get, dictionary, map and compass to try working them out "
I'm sure, it's bad considering most are probably on there moving phones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Limerick and surrounds get in touch, changed my job so I'm free some days during the week
Diceys it is then haha "
You got me! I lived in Dublin for years, diceys on a Tuesday was like mass |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Limerick and surrounds get in touch, changed my job so I'm free some days during the week
Diceys it is then haha
You got me! I lived in Dublin for years, diceys on a Tuesday was like mass "
I was busting me hole laughing when I seen it on the thread with the johnnies |
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"And there you have it, last minute drop out 15 minutes before scheduled coffee with a newbie
Waste of makeup and a rearranged work schedule
Do we need to start making backup plans for coffee meets now? "
We offered so many people to meet us for a coffee or a drink to get them verified and 99% of them always dropped out so we stopped offering...  |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair "
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy "
think alot seem to think that they will get their bones jumped and that's it. It seems people just direct you to just what to do anything with anyone. I get inundated with men messaging because I have bi curious doent mean I'm just gonna just go meet them. Its crazy |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy "
I verified a guy in Cork last year. Met him for a coffee, explained how fab works, told him not to be pushy just go with the flow and not to expect too much too soon. He has attended several socials and going by his veris,he is enjoying fab.
I think a lot of new guys are afraid to meet another fella to get that first veri. |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy
I verified a guy in Cork last year. Met him for a coffee, explained how fab works, told him not to be pushy just go with the flow and not to expect too much too soon. He has attended several socials and going by his veris,he is enjoying fab.
I think a lot of new guys are afraid to meet another fella to get that first veri."
Thats one thing I've always known is to not be pushy and don't message again if they don't reply. It's literally that simple |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy
I verified a guy in Cork last year. Met him for a coffee, explained how fab works, told him not to be pushy just go with the flow and not to expect too much too soon. He has attended several socials and going by his veris,he is enjoying fab.
I think a lot of new guys are afraid to meet another fella to get that first veri."
Oh yes, A LOT of people do look at veris and see that you've met a man and assume you're gay... sad really |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy
I verified a guy in Cork last year. Met him for a coffee, explained how fab works, told him not to be pushy just go with the flow and not to expect too much too soon. He has attended several socials and going by his veris,he is enjoying fab.
I think a lot of new guys are afraid to meet another fella to get that first veri.
Oh yes, A LOT of people do look at veris and see that you've met a man and assume you're gay... sad really "
These are the sort that fab don't really need tbh. So many come on here thinking they are going to be flat out bedding women once they have a cock pic and a veri. |
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"Thats a shame. Seems like there is a lot of time wasters on here to be fair
If I were a man and it didn't take me hours to get ready - shower, hair, make up, picking outfits etc. (Just because I'm not planning to have sex with someone doesn't mean I don't like to look presentable) - and all I had to do was jump in a shower after work and pull on a clean t-shirt - I wouldn't really care, but when you do all of those things above and someone can't be arsed to show up for a quick chat... you do start questioning if they are actually interested in a lifestyle or just some fantasy
I verified a guy in Cork last year. Met him for a coffee, explained how fab works, told him not to be pushy just go with the flow and not to expect too much too soon. He has attended several socials and going by his veris,he is enjoying fab.
I think a lot of new guys are afraid to meet another fella to get that first veri.
Oh yes, A LOT of people do look at veris and see that you've met a man and assume you're gay... sad really
These are the sort that fab don't really need tbh. So many come on here thinking they are going to be flat out bedding women once they have a cock pic and a veri."
100%! |
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Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that |
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"Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that "
Similar experience here
2x 'I'm too nervous to meet in public' last minute drop outs after I was already at the agreed meeting place (which was completely deserted as I picked somewhere quiet) |
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"Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that
Similar experience here
2x 'I'm too nervous to meet in public' last minute drop outs after I was already at the agreed meeting place (which was completely deserted as I picked somewhere quiet)"
And guarantee same be back whinging noone will meet to verify them. |
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"Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that
Similar experience here
2x 'I'm too nervous to meet in public' last minute drop outs after I was already at the agreed meeting place (which was completely deserted as I picked somewhere quiet)
And guarantee same be back whinging noone will meet to verify them. "
100% they'll be saying that again. I might even be doing it meself again  . I'll try not to, at the same time. |
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"Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that
Similar experience here
2x 'I'm too nervous to meet in public' last minute drop outs after I was already at the agreed meeting place (which was completely deserted as I picked somewhere quiet)"
Heya. I'm in Galway and would love to get a social veri from one of the good members of this community.
No fear of me chickening out. What's so scary about a coffee? |
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"Well we've offered three coffees, one showed up, one clearly married and hiding and the other was called into work. Offer for coffee show is still open for next week in kildare but doubt we'd bother after that
Similar experience here
2x 'I'm too nervous to meet in public' last minute drop outs after I was already at the agreed meeting place (which was completely deserted as I picked somewhere quiet)"
I'll make it third time lucky so |
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