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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s only happened to us once recently,
Like most couples, we have no single male on our profile. Thought we will meet single meals of our choosing. we recently had a single male contact us. We had had a pretty busy fab weekend, but he was looking to have a social meet., he was very polite and followed any guidelines we had on our profile. after a few messages over a number of days fanny decided we would meet him for a coffee. we made arrangements to meet at a central point in a public place. we left on time to arrive at the meet, but we are held up by a couple of minutes so we decided to let him know which is when we find that he had blocked us. don’t understand why someone would go to all that effort just to block someone! |
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By *ad444Man
over a year ago
dromore |
Yeah sounds like he bottled it. Was afraid to meet. It got too real for him. I've been ghosted by people. Usually after driving a fair distance. Ita very frustrating. Worst one was I got ghosted for a meet. And I'd met them before! Again after driving to Belfast. Allot of keyboard swingers that dont follow through. |
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Unfortunately it's not only single males that do it or the unverified for that fact either usually it's just someone trying to get there jollies by wasting people's times sometimes where they can see the action |
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By *en474Man
over a year ago
antrim |
I was chatting with a couple on here, and even chatted on the phone with them,we arranged a meet, I had there address, ect, when I got there, an old guy of about 90 ans,and didn’t know the people I was meeting, I tried to call them,but number was unattainable, and they had gone off here, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably had no intention of meeting in the first place, was only leading you on, move on to the next 1 and have no expectations next time "
I don’t think he had any intention on meeting in the first place, but like others said it just gives single guys about name. But we want to put out bad as we get loads of people messaging on a daily basis and we already had two previous meets over the weekend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had my first one yesterday.
Wasn't that put out as I was already dolled up in town anyway but she's been blocked either way.
I don't do second chances."
To true straight to the block button
Then it just makes it harder for any other single male who contacts us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He probably had no intention of meeting in the first place, was only leading you on, move on to the next 1 and have no expectations next time
I don’t think he had any intention on meeting in the first place, but like others said it just gives single guys about name. But we want to put out bad as we get loads of people messaging on a daily basis and we already had two previous meets over the weekend."
Why go to the bother of arranging something like that and not follow through,, strange |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He probably had no intention of meeting in the first place, was only leading you on, move on to the next 1 and have no expectations next time
I don’t think he had any intention on meeting in the first place, but like others said it just gives single guys about name. But we want to put out bad as we get loads of people messaging on a daily basis and we already had two previous meets over the weekend.
Why go to the bother of arranging something like that and not follow through,, strange "
Well, we have had a problem recently with a stalker. someone who tried to make an approach at an m and g. He then contacted us a little while later being quite pushy. When he was turned down he did not rage it too well. We then started getting regular messages from new accounts which we always suspected was him.  |
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Some people are so odd. And so rude. I know things can crop up, even last minute, but it’s basic good manners to let someone know you can’t make it and not waste their time. Blocking them, instead of having the manners to contact them, is the act of a total ignoramus. |
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Maybe he changed his mind, maybe something you said put him off, maybe he's just an arsehole. I think most people have been messed around at some stage on here but I don't agree with tarnishing all men the same. We've had females and couples mess around every bit as much on our couples profile. |
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"Maybe he changed his mind, maybe something you said put him off, maybe he's just an arsehole. I think most people have been messed around at some stage on here but I don't agree with tarnishing all men the same. We've had females and couples mess around every bit as much on our couples profile."
Thanks Foxy. I'd say guys experience this more than any other group on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he changed his mind, maybe something you said put him off, maybe he's just an arsehole. I think most people have been messed around at some stage on here but I don't agree with tarnishing all men the same. We've had females and couples mess around every bit as much on our couples profile."
I think you had Daniel on the head with just an asshole. he had called about an hour before the meeting to confirm that everything is still okay and it was only that we were running about five minutes late and so we decided to contact them as you do out of politeness. To let him know that we are still there but going to be late that’s when we found out that blocked us and shut the account down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he changed his mind, maybe something you said put him off, maybe he's just an arsehole. I think most people have been messed around at some stage on here but I don't agree with tarnishing all men the same. We've had females and couples mess around every bit as much on our couples profile.
Thanks Foxy. I'd say guys experience this more than any other group on fab."
We don’t meet single guys often and we like to pick them ourselves.
But then we the type of people who if we say something we stick to it. So if we say we’re going to meet that’s what we do. It was a first for us as we said just don’t understand why !
Obviously just a sad person! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would anyone want to no show yous they definitely fkd up who would be that silly to miss out on you both "
Thanks for that beard
But then you already had the pleasure of meeting us, so you would say that  |
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What kind of a dickhead does that ..he get a invite to meet you and does not show . It's the likes of him that gives the rest of us guys a bad name . If I get an invite I always show . I did get made a fool of bye a young lady a few years Ago gave me the run around . It's horrible so I'm appoligising for him |
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Did he realise he was meeting the two of you. Maybe as you was a few mins late he might of thought they not showing up either.
That's giving him the benefit of the doubt
He either got cold feet and done the cowards way and not having to say why he can't or won't meet
Or he got sone sort of kick of stringing you along knowing he was wasn't gonna show and blocked you before the meet takes place . |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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We’ve had a few no shows for first meet… we like to believe they just wimp out when it comes to the crunch rather than anything sinister. Happens less now as we’re more selective re: experience / verifications.
Our worst experience recently was when a single male we had met twice, arranged for a meet at his place and stood us up i.e. he wasn’t home TWICE - all apologetic after first time, rearranged and gutless ghosting after second no show. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"What kind of a dickhead does that ..he get a invite to meet you and does not show . It's the likes of him that gives the rest of us guys a bad name . If I get an invite I always show . I did get made a fool of bye a young lady a few years Ago gave me the run around . It's horrible so I'm appoligising for him "
Nobody gives me a good or a bad name except me...and why would you apologise on behalf of someone else that you don't even know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did he realise he was meeting the two of you. Maybe as you was a few mins late he might of thought they not showing up either.
That's giving him the benefit of the doubt
He either got cold feet and done the cowards way and not having to say why he can't or won't meet
Or he got sone sort of kick of stringing you along knowing he was wasn't gonna show and blocked you before the meet takes place ."
Like we said don’t think he ever intended to meet. We had been having a problem with a stalker who was using a number of profiles to contact us at the time. So it was fanny that had been chatting to him but dick thought something was right. We weren’t really put out by it. It just begs the question what would they get out of it other than boosting there sad lives |
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He's a TOOL, he's loss BIG time. What's the point of doing shit like that to people.
It's cause of people like him,fecks it up for the rest of us single guy's. That's mainly why so many single guy's aren't meet verified, after months on here & other people wouldn't meet them/us.
Really glad that ye've meet up with other's sence.  |
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