Yes to first question but if they were together a long time, a couple just together a few months forget about it! Not into couples who just join up to meet on here either!
And to answer your second question, maybe but not by much more!
Saturday night without sex
Ah no I guess get a babysitter, out for a meal and drinks with good friends and get a free lift home,if we are talking ideal
I offer a _antra massage to the woman of the couple, once a month, your partner can watch, and join in at the end, if YOU wish, for a 4 handed massage.