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Life gets in the way sometimes
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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
somewhere |
Sometimes life gets in the way and schedules don't align to allow for a meet
Are you the type to have a meet within a week or two of the first contact.
What's the longest time you've ever had to wait between initial contact to a play meet ....Id imagine Covid caused a few problems |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
Five weeks would have been somewhat the longest in a while back in January but he was well worth the wait, more recently by the time we meet up it will be 7 weeks but that's more to do with his work and distance but we're going to make a weekend out of it so it will be absolutely worth the wait  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw a status this morning
" if we haven't organised a meet within 5 messages ...its never going to happen...move on "
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Well I bet it wasn’t a man that wrote it |
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I like to have a social pretty quickly with someone but if we are taking it further then it can take a bit longer to organise. Life does get in the way and in most cases rightly so. If people don't understand that then I move on |
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"I like to have a social pretty quickly with someone but if we are taking it further then it can take a bit longer to organise. Life does get in the way and in most cases rightly so. If people don't understand that then I move on"
I agree with this 100%
Life especially with a young family and with ageing parents not to mention work and general life stresses can and does get in the way.
TBH if the person doesn't think we are worth their patience, time and effort then that's a good thing because they normally let that be known fairy quickly and they are exactly the type of people we don't want to meet.
Understanding is very sexy |
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Could be weeks, could be months.
All depends on how the conversation goes.
In saying that, I haven't met anyone new in 3 years so there haven't been any conversations like that.
This is a hobby not a lifestyle so real life will always take priority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to have a social pretty quickly with someone but if we are taking it further then it can take a bit longer to organise. Life does get in the way and in most cases rightly so. If people don't understand that then I move on
I agree with this 100%
Life especially with a young family and with ageing parents not to mention work and general life stresses can and does get in the way.
TBH if the person doesn't think we are worth their patience, time and effort then that's a good thing because they normally let that be known fairy quickly and they are exactly the type of people we don't want to meet.
Understanding is very sexy"
I wouldn't say sexy exactly, but it speaks to a bit of maturity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing "
Dunno how long I've got left so no point dilly dallying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Dunno how long I've got left so no point dilly dallying "
That too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye...."
Sour?  |
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Dunno how long I've got left so no point dilly dallying "
Haha get it done and dusted just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Dunno how long I've got left so no point dilly dallying
Haha get it done and dusted just in case"
On the gravestone "should have had that last coffee meet" |
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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
somewhere |
"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour? "
Since it's your favorite county Id go with Corked |
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour? "
Pmsl I think my palette is more refined than yours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour?
Since it's your favorite county Id go with Corked "
Read that as Corklad first, said well if must ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour?
Pmsl I think my palette is more refined than yours "
Wine is overrated in my book - a bit like fab stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour?
Pmsl I think my palette is more refined than yours
Wine is overrated in my book - a bit like fab stunning "
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"If it takes to long I lose interest and move on
Yep, attention span of a goldfish here
Really that surprise me....
It's an age thing
Ah fine wine pops into my head when I think of ye....
Sour?
Pmsl I think my palette is more refined than yours
Wine is overrated in my book - a bit like fab stunning "
Ah a bit like fab stunning your just not picking the right ones.... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It's usually a couple of weeks of chatting before I would meet someone for a social first. I met quickly off here once and it was the worst and scariest meet I've ever had on here so I'll never again meet quickly off here. If someone doesn't want to take the time to chat first it's fine they can move onto someone else.
To meet someone again for sex after a social it's usually just a few days if we could arrange a time and place to suit us both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been fucked after back op and to be honest had no intrest in the hole fab thing ,But back to work now and mad for action,just hard to get back in the saddle again. |
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Usually within a month of 1st contact depending on my work schedule but longest so far has been 3 and a half years from 1st contact, met in a chat group, kept teasing each other about meeting, covid happened then life got in the way, but met him last week and wasnt disappointed |
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By *og-Man OP Man
over a year ago
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"Usually within a month of 1st contact depending on my work schedule but longest so far has been 3 and a half years from 1st contact, met in a chat group, kept teasing each other about meeting, covid happened then life got in the way, but met him last week and wasnt disappointed "
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For us we like to try do a social as soon as possible and then aim for play within 4 weeks. This year has been hectic with college, work and family along with other things so it means that there is unfortunately a gap of time, but we find most we meet are happy to wait
Dee |
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By *ollypop9Woman
over a year ago
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It's very hit and miss with my personal life schedule.
But I always make that known when I start chatting and we agree we'd like to meet for a cuppa.
Another thing is, that after being stood up one to many times, I'm no longer travelling miles for a cuppa.
I combine it with when I'm in that area or travelling through that area for other business anyway. That way its never a wasted journey.
And taking all that into consideration, it could well be that I'm seeing a guy who I'm only chatting with a week, before the guy whom I've been chatting with for 3 weeks. Just pot luck really.
But like I said, I explain that early on, so the guy can take it or leave it. |
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At certain times of the year work life always gets in the way of thing's for me anyways. So it could be week's or month's before I'm able to meet someone. I imply that in my bio.
Can't answer the lenght of time it took to meet someone off here, just yet, anyways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Longest, currently 3 months, shortest 20 minutes.
Getting time that suits us is a nightmare, probably why we enjoy being spontaneous when we have the time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few weeks chatting is normal before a social meet for me. Though there are a few guys I have been chatting to for months but between distance and availabity for us both, a meet is difficult to arrange. Hopefully a few will happen.
The longest I have chatted to a guy has been 6 or 7 years on and off. A social meet happened and 3 years later a hotel meet was eventually arranged which was probably one of the most disappointing meets I have had. So what you think you want is not always what you really need!
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