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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would like to a few opinions.This happened quite awhile ago. Right talking to someone for ages really got on well good personailty and had a great connection whilst talking on here until he sent a pic. Now I know some may think I'm shallow but I felt so disappointed when I seen his pic as I knew there was no physical attraction so tbh I had to say I didn't fancy him and preferred to stay friends. I felt and still do feel crap about it but needless to say neither he nor I have remained in much contact as he has left the site after finding love on another site. So my question is would it of been better to meet as we had chatted for so long or was it better being honest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would like to a few opinions.This happened quite awhile ago. Right talking to someone for ages really got on well good personailty and had a great connection whilst talking on here until he sent a pic. Now I know some may think I'm shallow but I felt so disappointed when I seen his pic as I knew there was no physical attraction so tbh I had to say I didn't fancy him and preferred to stay friends. I felt and still do feel crap about it but needless to say neither he nor I have remained in much contact as he has left the site after finding love on another site. So my question is would it of been better to meet as we had chatted for so long or was it better being honest? "
 that's a ladies choice x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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True but I felt bad as I deliberately wouldn't set out to hurt anyones feelings as I dnt think I'm anything special myself just my mental pic or him was totally diff from pic. Lesson learnt I'd say lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would rather someone be honesty with you and let you move on to greener pastures our meet you even though they aren't really interested. I'd prefer honesty.
Treat other people as you would like to be treated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh def honesty.. No point in wasting both of your time leading him along and playing with him for the sake of not hurting his feelings. He would know you were into him when things started to get underway I think. So better off. And he might never have found love on the other site either!! Everything happens for a reason so don't feel bad about it. I always try get a face pic very early on just to rule that out.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Would like to a few opinions.This happened quite awhile ago. Right talking to someone for ages really got on well good personailty and had a great connection whilst talking on here until he sent a pic. Now I know some may think I'm shallow but I felt so disappointed when I seen his pic as I knew there was no physical attraction so tbh I had to say I didn't fancy him and preferred to stay friends. I felt and still do feel crap about it but needless to say neither he nor I have remained in much contact as he has left the site after finding love on another site. So my question is would it of been better to meet as we had chatted for so long or was it better being honest? "
U did right as when it gets to a meet males are usualy thinking with the small head even if he's being told there no chance the fact U agreed to meet shows a glimmer of hope even if U have being friends a while in the knowledge there's no chance he's usualy but not always living in hope he may charm U knickers off just a thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i agree best to be honest if the physical attraction was,nt there from the pic there would have been no point in meeting you did right and u,ll feel better in time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i agree best to be honest if the physical attraction was,nt there from the pic there would have been no point in meeting you did right and u,ll feel better in time "
Yup, can't expect to hit it off with everyone. And as this is only a swinging site, it's best for us lads to ot dwell on it. |
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