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Have you a fab crush??
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
An exceptionally long time ago, I recall (much to my embarrassment) that I had a 'crush' on a girl which was not reciprocated.
That ended my flirtation with infatuation, and from my experience since then sexual relations with any woman has been essentially a 'business' transaction.
Swinging has since been a natural progression along that continuum: relations with no strings attached and without any intense emotional involvement or 'feelings' on either side.
Crushes connote immaturity and a naive idealistic and unrealistic view of sexual relations.
A cynic is a person who knows the value of nothing and the cost of everything |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Not a crush as such because Id be like a giddy bloody schoolboy if we ever get a chance to have a coffee....however I'm not what they're looking for so it would never go any further anyway
Chat to some of them in private messages but I'm feckin useless I've never sent them a friend request as it would only be to see their pics and dont want to get blocked 
So anyway .....yes .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An exceptionally long time ago, I recall (much to my embarrassment) that I had a 'crush' on a girl which was not reciprocated.
That ended my flirtation with infatuation, and from my experience since then sexual relations with any woman has been essentially a 'business' transaction.
Swinging has since been a natural progression along that continuum: relations with no strings attached and without any intense emotional involvement or 'feelings' on either side.
Crushes connote immaturity and a naive idealistic and unrealistic view of sexual relations.
A cynic is a person who knows the value of nothing and the cost of everything"
Great attitude crushes connote immaturity ffs
I'm naive I have crushes on guys that I'm realistic about that will never be anything more than I fancy the pants of him |
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Well yes. A few.
I also dream that I'm the fanny wetting material of a few ladies dreams and that they're just too shy to tell me... C'mon ladies, let's be havin' yiz.
I was going to say "spit it out" but was afraid it might be misinterpreted  |
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"I have a few alright, I’d say some of them know but others don’t…I think 
I do know. Just in case you weren't sure  
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There's a couple here I'd love to have a bit of alone time with but don't think they're interested but I've never made my interests known to them.
There's also 2 others but I doubt they know I'm interested. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"I have a few alright, I’d say some of them know but others don’t…I think
I do know. Just in case you weren't sure
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"I have a few alright, I’d say some of them know but others don’t…I think
I do know. Just in case you weren't sure
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"I have a few alright, I’d say some of them know but others don’t…I think
I do know. Just in case you weren't sure
Yet another instance where I desperately need gifs!
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I have one or two on my hotlist!
Some I'm afraid to message being shy and not knowing what to say
Other unfortunately I'm just outside of their age preference!!
But I'll always reply to a message if I'm lucky enough to get one from ladles or couples  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I have one or two on my hotlist!
Some I'm afraid to message being shy and not knowing what to say
Other unfortunately I'm just outside of their age preference!!
But I'll always reply to a message if I'm lucky enough to get one from ladles or couples "
You shy........that made me LOL |
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"I have one or two on my hotlist!
Some I'm afraid to message being shy and not knowing what to say
Other unfortunately I'm just outside of their age preference!!
But I'll always reply to a message if I'm lucky enough to get one from ladles or couples
You shy........that made me LOL "
I am you know  |
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"So as title says ....have you a fab crush? And have or would you tell them?
Me....i have 2 ladies that am totally crush on "
Yes and managed to get him Saturday night…then got cold feet when he said meet him outside in 5 mins,so settled for a few kisses…some guys are so good looking they (inadvertently) make us even more insecure than we’d normally be!!!!im raging,will probably never get another chance!!!?? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I would definitely say I have one or two and they wouldn't know because I don't message first,sheer fear puts a stop to that happening "
Fear of ???
You only live once go ahead wink at them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one or two on my hotlist!
Some I'm afraid to message being shy and not knowing what to say
Other unfortunately I'm just outside of their age preference!!
But I'll always reply to a message if I'm lucky enough to get one from ladles or couples
You shy........that made me LOL
I am you know "
So did I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So as title says ....have you a fab crush? And have or would you tell them?
Me....i have 2 ladies that am totally crush on
Yes and managed to get him Saturday night…then got cold feet when he said meet him outside in 5 mins,so settled for a few kisses…some guys are so good looking they (inadvertently) make us even more insecure than we’d normally be!!!!im raging,will probably never get another chance!!!??"
Oh lucky you |
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"So as title says ....have you a fab crush? And have or would you tell them?
Me....i have 2 ladies that am totally crush on
Yes and managed to get him Saturday night…then got cold feet when he said meet him outside in 5 mins,so settled for a few kisses…some guys are so good looking they (inadvertently) make us even more insecure than we’d normally be!!!!im raging,will probably never get another chance!!!??
Oh lucky you "
But he was so fucking hot and I ruined it  |
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"So as title says ....have you a fab crush? And have or would you tell them?
Me....i have 2 ladies that am totally crush on
Yes and managed to get him Saturday night…then got cold feet when he said meet him outside in 5 mins,so settled for a few kisses…some guys are so good looking they (inadvertently) make us even more insecure than we’d normally be!!!!im raging,will probably never get another chance!!!??
Oh lucky you
But he was so fucking hot and I ruined it "
Ah look he'd probably have been a crap shag anyway
It could happen yet by the way. Message him and arrange something would be my advice |
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No Crushes
Have a (list)few I'd like to play with. Messaged a few, no reply or were deleted. So I'm keeping it to meself anymore. As I'm not great at messaging, to imply it.
They'll have to make the first move, be that by message or at a social in the future.
(Going to shoot the foot off meself)Even if someone told me, they had a crush on me, I wouldn't believe them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the best approach with crushes is never to meet them
Two reasons why I disagree with that; YOLO and FOMO
Never suffered from the latter "
It's bitter disappointment would hold me back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So as title says ....have you a fab crush? And have or would you tell them?
Me....i have 2 ladies that am totally crush on
Yes and managed to get him Saturday night…then got cold feet when he said meet him outside in 5 mins,so settled for a few kisses…some guys are so good looking they (inadvertently) make us even more insecure than we’d normally be!!!!im raging,will probably never get another chance!!!??"
Dive right in ..as the song says " get in kid before it's too late ...you may never get another chance "..but you will get another chance ..you will |
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"Is anyone's crush replied to this thread,
One who knows
Two works in progress
One absolutely definitely totally a no-hoper.
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Update.
Make that now two who know.
Four works in progress.
One no-hoper....but never say never
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