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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do people need a few drinks before they meet or do they need to be dr*nk even?
I had a social on Saturday morning in a hotel with a lady and she was hammered dr*nk, it was on short notice and unplanned but hey at least I got a free breakfast out of it,
Do you ever encounter people intoxicated at meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think if I turned up for a breakfast social and the other person was d*unk, I'd make my excuses and leave.
I rarely drink, only when I'm out out and even then not much, and I prefer Fab meets to be sober |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love a good drink but I'd rather go through the drinks with someone rather than turn up d*unk or for them to, although i can understand that a stiff drink can calm your nerves , but so can a deep breath. |
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I’ve gone to parties and driven even though I’d probably have preferred a few drinks.
Some People get hammered at socials for some reason
It’s been YEARS since a I had d*unk sex tbh….. few glasses of wine sex more recently  |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"If someone was d*unk when I met them for a social I would leave. "
Definitely this, I find it abit disrespectful tbh. Different if I have arranged to be the taxi driver for the night, I'd expect them to be a little worse for wear... But a social I'd definitely hit the exit door. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
I dont mind a drink to calm the nerves and act as an opener to be sure we are all on the same page. Consent is paramount and contiunal reassessment while playing is most important
I prefer long play sessions so can u imagine the hang over kicking in mid ride hell no thanks |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either "
Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after
Thats presuming u didnt  did u |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either
Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after
Thats presuming u didnt did u "
She bought me a breakfast she was feeling merry |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either
Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after
Thats presuming u didnt did u
She bought me a breakfast she was feeling merry "
So as a gentle man u enjoyed breakfast and a slurred convo and went on your way nothing wrong with that mate |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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There are so many reasons to stay sober especially if it’s more than a 1 on 1. Communicating coherently , working out boundaries , negotiating hotel rules , having safe sex , not leaving the room in a state , maintaining an erection ….
The list goes on and on |
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On a meet we both like to take our time and have a drink or two with the person we are meeting. I don't NEED a drink, and wouldn't get d*unk, but enjoy a couple of drinks as part of an evening. Someone who is very d*unk is very unattractive and raises consent issues. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't drink alcohol but if another person did that's completely up to themselves but if l thought they were intoxicated at a meet then it's a total no no from me , I'll just shoot the breeze and head off into the sunset so to speak. |
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If someone turned up dr*nk or got pissed while we were meeting I would walk away completely.
Regardless of how it's going to affect the quality of the sex there's also the issue of consent to consider.
Even if it's just a social I'd still walk away if they need that crutch just to chat. |
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Met a FWB  who was very dr%nk when I arrived at hers. There was no way I was going to make a move (she could barely walk), so tucked her into bed and went home. Anyway, she apologised the next day that her friends had given her extra drinks just after we'd texted to organised the meet that night.
So, 1 or 2 drinks fine but there is a low limit when it comes to sex as well as first dates  |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"I dont mind a drink to calm the nerves and act as an opener to be sure we are all on the same page. Consent is paramount and contiunal reassessment while playing is most important
I prefer long play sessions so can u imagine the hang over kicking in mid ride hell no thanks "
A CJ have you not heard of the old crushing an Aspirin and sprinkling it on your helmet, then offering it to the lady to cure her headache? 
I jest ladies  |
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