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Do mature women really like us young guys?
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I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young? |
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The problem with questions like this is that it's really tricky to answer without sounding flippant.
Some will, others won't but it's a bit like asking "do any women like beards?".
If you're struggling to meet people who do, it might just be that it's the usual fab ratios of men to women/couples looking for them issue. Add in to that you're looking for a specific dynamic and the odds get even longer.
Good luck in your search.
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
It's not a myth.. its just a minority thing |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
I've my profile set at a age limit,I've kids in late 20s and late teens, it would be to weird to meet anyone in their age group, sorry  |
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I've always preferred mature men, over 40 years old. I find mature people, in general, confident without being cocky, seductive without being pushy, and more attentive when it comes to a woman's sexual needs. However, I had the urge to step into a cougar's shoes recently, without any success tho... I'm sure there's lovely young guys out there, but yeah... I suppose nothing excites my mind more than the confidence and the power of seduction of a 'silver fox' 
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"I've always preferred mature men, over 40 years old. I find mature people, in general, confident without being cocky, seductive without being pushy, and more attentive when it comes to a woman's sexual needs. However, I had the urge to step into a cougar's shoes recently, without any success tho... I'm sure there's lovely young guys out there, but yeah... I suppose nothing excites my mind more than the confidence and the power of seduction of a 'silver fox'
Anna x "
Very interesting! If you ever think about stepping into those shoes again. Keep me in mind  x |
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"Younger lads are a guilty pleasure of mine that I like to indulge in every so often 
Me too 
Sharing is caring Lolls, don't keep them all to yourself "
Well you know Geordie where to find me to indulge!  |
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"Younger lads are a guilty pleasure of mine that I like to indulge in every so often
Me too
Sharing is caring Lolls, don't keep them all to yourself "
Pity there isn’t more mature women into younger guys in Galway seems to be very scarce this side of the country  |
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We tend to go only for lads that are younger than Scarlett. Wasn’t the case when we started out but get morphed that way.
She tends to play with select lads 5-10 years younger, but the gap has been as much as 15 years.
Really depends on the guy and his attitude |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
I’m very much into younger guys but they have to have a level of maturity and be my type - it’s not enough just to be younger. The cougar thing doesn’t really suit me because I feel that’s a particular type of older woman. I see myself more as a milf  |
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Maturity comes with experience and it makes us better and bolder.
Youth may be impetuous but you can't put an old head on young shoulders.
If you're looking to play in a smoldering way, to sample the best, go older.
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"We tend to go only for lads that are younger than Scarlett. Wasn’t the case when we started out but get morphed that way.
She tends to play with select lads 5-10 years younger, but the gap has been as much as 15 years.
Really depends on the guy and his attitude "
Completely! I am too young to message you unfortunately |
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It's all about the person but there has to be a level of maturity which tends to come with life experience. The question of does she like younger men is... It depends.
Others might be different but if your first message to us contains nothing of your personality and just talks about you being young or well endowed then you are unlikely to get a positive response |
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It very much depends on the individual, at this stage the vast majority of men here are younger than me and under 30 really doesn't appeal, we have children in their 20s. |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
Yeah, I find they are interested in us although riding is frowned upon in many nursing homes |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
How long is a piece of string?
Preferences as always is what decides things. I've met two women in the past, not on here, that swore they wouldn't date a younger man only the same age or older but changed their mind because of the craic, how they were feeling for those few months etc. |
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By *sopon86Man
over a year ago
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It all depends on the personality.me personaly i would rather older as i find them sexier but as said.it depends on a lot of factors theres women on this in there 50s 60s that would chew you up and spit you out and theres women in there 20s that just want to lay there like a bag of spuds.so in a nut shell judge it on a person by person basis. |
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This is anecdotal. But I come find guys my own age and younger a little lacking?. Yeah grand if all you want is a quick ground and pound. But with older guys. You get that and more. And what's great is. Older tend to delay their own satisfaction until I get mime. Yes. Yes please. My owner is my first with a considerable age gap. I don't think I can go back lol |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
lot don't shag anyone around there kids age they do know that doesn't mean there shagging there kids lol
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By *utchlady67Woman
over a year ago
Kinnitty in county Offaly |
To add to the conversation and a different perspective I must say that there is definitely a rising trend for younger guy to look for a more mature and older woman. And not because they are attracted to them or like them. They want the older generation because they don’t want the hassle of the high maintenance younger generation and prefer the more experienced and patience that the more mature lady bring to the table.
Now before you all start biting my head off and leave nasty comments I am only giving a different perspective. And personal I don’t like to have that niggling thought in the back of my mind that this young person is only out to have a brag about the old woman he scored with because she should be honoured to have a young guy like him be interested in her.
I know that not all you young man are like this and I should not tar them all with the same brush. But this is actually one of my experiences and it left a bad taste in my mouth so that’s why I have the age limit on my profile. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"To add to the conversation and a different perspective I must say that there is definitely a rising trend for younger guy to look for a more mature and older woman. And not because they are attracted to them or like them. They want the older generation because they don’t want the hassle of the high maintenance younger generation and prefer the more experienced and patience that the more mature lady bring to the table.
Now before you all start biting my head off and leave nasty comments I am only giving a different perspective. And personal I don’t like to have that niggling thought in the back of my mind that this young person is only out to have a brag about the old woman he scored with because she should be honoured to have a young guy like him be interested in her.
I know that not all you young man are like this and I should not tar them all with the same brush. But this is actually one of my experiences and it left a bad taste in my mouth so that’s why I have the age limit on my profile. "
Excellent response and explanation. Lord only knows what the young folks are taking that left the bad taste in your mouth 
I just and a great profile too  |
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For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts |
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"For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts "
This |
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"For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts "
I'm not sure that promiscuity was ever rare in the young, they just didn't call it "swinging". |
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Some young guys want to be 'taught a thing or two' by older women. I have zero interest in helping someone out in that way.
I also have zero interest in young guys who think they know it all because they watch porn. Mind you, that wouldn't be confined to the younger guys either!
On saying all of that, it's all down to the individual, how mature and sound he is |
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"To add to the conversation and a different perspective I must say that there is definitely a rising trend for younger guy to look for a more mature and older woman. And not because they are attracted to them or like them. They want the older generation because they don’t want the hassle of the high maintenance younger generation and prefer the more experienced and patience that the more mature lady bring to the table.
Now before you all start biting my head off and leave nasty comments I am only giving a different perspective. And personal I don’t like to have that niggling thought in the back of my mind that this young person is only out to have a brag about the old woman he scored with because she should be honoured to have a young guy like him be interested in her.
I know that not all you young man are like this and I should not tar them all with the same brush. But this is actually one of my experiences and it left a bad taste in my mouth so that’s why I have the age limit on my profile. "
Young women don’t have sex anymore that’s why  |
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"For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts
I'm not sure that promiscuity was ever rare in the young, they just didn't call it "swinging"."
Yeah but recently I saw a profile of an early twenties couple wanting to meet others to "spice things up". For me that desire came after much longer, if you need to meet others to spice things up in the first year or two, for me that raises a few questions about longevity. Maybe it's more they aren't cut out for monogamy though |
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"For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts
I'm not sure that promiscuity was ever rare in the young, they just didn't call it "swinging".
Yeah but recently I saw a profile of an early twenties couple wanting to meet others to "spice things up". For me that desire came after much longer, if you need to meet others to spice things up in the first year or two, for me that raises a few questions about longevity. Maybe it's more they aren't cut out for monogamy though"
Or maybe it's that the current generation is far more used to open discussion about sex? |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"For me I don’t meet younger men or women, as I have children in their 20s so I see that age bracket as off putting. Also I prefer people closer to my age as were more on the same level. I’m actually shocked to see some here as young as 18.
For me swinging was something I grew with as I got older and explored more as I matured. It’s wonderful that so many are exploring younger but it makes me wonder what will be left for them as they grow older. Just my thoughts
I'm not sure that promiscuity was ever rare in the young, they just didn't call it "swinging".
Yeah but recently I saw a profile of an early twenties couple wanting to meet others to "spice things up". For me that desire came after much longer, if you need to meet others to spice things up in the first year or two, for me that raises a few questions about longevity. Maybe it's more they aren't cut out for monogamy though
Or maybe it's that the current generation is far more used to open discussion about sex?"
I definitely think so. They are educated without the hangups, often subtle, that my generation were. My young kids don't see the colour of a person's skin being a defining indicator, not whether they hang around with mostly boys/girls.
Things have definitely changed and I would have to say that I approve |
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over a year ago
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"I absolutely love meeting older women. Just more chilled out and relaxing to be honest! Sex is better when you introduce maturity  "
This can be true so if that’s the case for most people why would you want to drop the maturity level for the older women. At the same time it’s only sex and everyone has such different attractions to people so I guess that’s the beauty of life |
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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago
around and about ,as travel. |
"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
Do the mature woman like us mature men too? |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?
Do the mature woman like us mature men too?"
I like mature men and mature women however I am quite immature myself |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
I find young lads attractive but I just don't have the patience
And they are sometimes pretty bad at pleasing a lady and finding the clitoris |
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It's all about maturity I've learnt.
We prefer the meet guys older than our children, but we've found at recent parties, the younger guys have ticked quite a few boxes.
It's also for me personally, in the mindset of being older, that younger guys have no interest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with the post about maturity... for me some of the reasons I love fun specifically with younger guys is the energy...enthusiasm...stamina... spontaneity...complete nsa.. to name a few
And when you hit the jackpot with the right younger guy or HYLF as I like to call them.. then the build up...the sex and the occasional repeat meets where the naughtiness just builds...for me is what I am here for and have met a few gems in my time here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really have to say I notice this too! I’m either restricted from talking or pushed or for too young?
I honestly do prefer someone older, especially someone who’s professional elegant & well kept. It’s screams sexual power, especially Women in professional roles or those who like to be discreet WEAK for them!
I think socials will be my way to go…but it’s good point for sure |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides "
Oh well they in that case
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I can vouch for my last few partners they have all been either 5-10 years older than me lol.
Just it’s a kink and turn on for some others is a turn off just depends on the person really. I normally prefer older woman as younger ones are kind of head melts some not all lol |
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By *yans345Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/Donegal |
"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
I've been on fab and another site adult friend finder for about 5 years and only had 1 meet with a woman, I work alot and don't have a lot of time to be messaging people, but I never receive a random message from any woman interested in me, the 1 I met was a 42 year old when I was 22 and it was the best sexual encounter of my life, also at a wedding six months ago I had a 37 year old brought back to my room by the end of the night, I was 26. Its just your luck really not every older lady is interested in men maybe younger than they're own children |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
It's each to their own here , some do ..some don't ..some older , mature women love to be fucked by younger guys , others have age limits, it's all down to how attractive or attractiveness they feel to a person or for a person, there are of course younger guys that will fuck an older woman but don't want to be seen with her .. they're out there too. |
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To us it depends on the person 26 is Carol's youngest to now but he was a good laugh on meeting him at ours,some are some are not thinking age will get you a fuck means sweet fa if you can't communicate |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
For the ladies who play with younger guys. Do you find that there cocks are harder than older men. Not that I would know but a lady friend did mention this to me. This is why it's her preference although nothing younger than 22. She's 38. I haven't slept with anyone younger so wouldn't know. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!"
You got mail |
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!
You got mail "
Where is mine? Nice new photo, I wouldn't mind being behind you |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!
You got mail
Where is mine? Nice new photo, I wouldn't mind being behind you "
For what? |
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!
You got mail
Where is mine? Nice new photo, I wouldn't mind being behind you
For what? "
Well apparently doggy is the one position you wouldn't give up |
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!
You got mail
Where is mine? Nice new photo, I wouldn't mind being behind you
For what? "
Well apparently doggy is the one position you wouldn't give up |
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"For the ladies who play with younger guys. Do you find that there cocks are harder than older men. Not that I would know but a lady friend did mention this to me. This is why it's her preference although nothing younger than 22. She's 38. I haven't slept with anyone younger so wouldn't know. "
Of course a younger guy has advantages as regards his weapon in that regard as your friend is qualified to talk on such matters as obviously she has experienced both and that is why she prefers younger cocks. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to date or looking for a relationship younger lads like that, they enjoy the company and fun without the commitment so it's a win win on both sides
I like the sound of it!
You got mail
Where is mine? Nice new photo, I wouldn't mind being behind you
For what?
Well apparently doggy is the one position you wouldn't give up "
You know me so well |
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"I’ve been wondering this for a while. I tend to have quite the thing for ladies much older than me… as I do all women I find attractive. But I find not many older ladies are interested in young men like myself. Is the “cougar” statement a myth or am I just too young?"
I rose do enjoy younger but the biggest problem is their prone to letting me down which turns me off |
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"I always went for older guys but I've being more open to younger guys lately. Fab seems to have alot of younger guys looking for older women"
It does seem to be a common trend, especially with good connection and chatter |
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By *riel13Woman 37 weeks ago
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else "
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations!  |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations! "
Why would I lower my expectations?? That’s why people fall short of what they want ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations! "
It has nothing todo with my expectations or the amount of time I’ve been here .. if you can’t see that people seek attention more than anything else I give up |
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations!
It has nothing todo with my expectations or the amount of time I’ve been here .. if you can’t see that people seek attention more than anything else I give up "
Do you mean women on fab are here to seek attention or women in general are seeking attention? |
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations!
It has nothing todo with my expectations or the amount of time I’ve been here .. if you can’t see that people seek attention more than anything else I give up
Do you mean women on fab are here to seek attention or women in general are seeking attention?"
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There are a few on here who crossed my path and have certainly caught my attention....... |
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"Think majority of women on this are just looking for attention more than anything else
Because you have been on here for a tiny amount of time and none of them have taken the time to meet you?? Lower your expectations!
It has nothing todo with my expectations or the amount of time I’ve been here .. if you can’t see that people seek attention more than anything else I give up "
Course people seek attention! Why are you surprised?
How's fab going for ya hun |
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