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Do you have to go to socials to have meets
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It depends on what you mean by socials if you mean mngs or group socials then no you don't have to attend them in order to get meets off here.
If you mean one on one socials them yes maybe you are lessening your chances. I know I won't take things farther without having a social first with someone. It's just a chat and a coffee I don't see why it would be an issue for your job being seen having that with someone.
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No you don't have to... but it's way easier to get that first verification from an unverifieds group meet. It's also way easier to meet a bunch of people fast at events also.
Lots don't go that route so it's very possible anyway. You just need to have a bit more game to get someone into a 1on1 with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some do ..others don't ..go to socials..both sex's..if there's a connection or interest then l would say no ..some will say yes the social way is the way to go .. safety and numbers etc but the important thing is do not feel anyway under pressure to attend or not attend ...most important. |
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Going to organised socials might just boost your chances as you meet lots of people at once above all for a single man.
But with patience and your A game it’s well possible to get meets without. We know a few single males who don’t do socials and get on fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never attended socials and have never met anyone from the forums.
For me, it's all via messaging. A social meet is essential though to see if any sexual chemistry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have never attended socials and have never met anyone from the forums.
For me, it's all via messaging. A social meet is essential though to see if any sexual chemistry.
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
"I have never attended socials and have never met anyone from the forums.
For me, it's all via messaging. A social meet is essential though to see if any sexual chemistry.
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Yep, I've not been to a social event either but have done a few meets. I have got to know some from the forum craic and wome through direct messaging  |
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No you don't have to attend anything that you don't want to, however the way we see things is that if you don't want to be seen in public with us having a cuppa then there is zero chance of you getting into any kind of naughty fun meetings with us and also the social is a great way of finding out if there is any sparks because if there's no sparks then it would be a rather damp boring meet lol you can't complain much though as you have a really recent verification from 2 weeks ago so it's entirely up to you what you choose but remember everyone has there own choices as well |
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