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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
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"Tonight we talked to friends about fab and we got mixed reactions about it so where do we go from here? "
Dump the ones who didn't react positively!
I'm joking 
Nothing is for everyone, other than oxygen, water and food. The rest is personal choice and it's each to their own.
Consider why you raised the subject and what did you expect and why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure it should make any difference to the path you take.
It doesn't involve or affect them directly so their reactions aren't relevant beyond perhaps re-evaluating what you share with them regarding swinging |
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"Tonight we talked to friends about fab and we got mixed reactions about it so where do we go from here? "
We don't hide our hobby from people, but we don't make a habit of telling everyone straight away.
Our family and close friends react with a total lack of surprise. They know us after all.
Others are interested and ask loads of questions.
Others think we want to have sex with anyone and everyone and either get incredibly flirty, or go quiet as they think we are looking to fuck them.
Few have actually thought we were doing something wrong, but i guess that's because we generally don't be around normie-norm people. |
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Only one of my friends know I’m on here after we chatted one night about it he’s since joined with his wife but don’t think we would meet as it might make things awkward but have told him his wife looks amazing and he said the same about mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet the other husbands will be ‘accidentally’ banging in to Mrs a lot more now. Guarantee they all fancy true chances now. And their wives will be super wary about it "
Although this kind of assumes all men are just gagging for the opportunity to cheat on their wives and the wives are neurotic and insecure.
Perhaps though you may need to clarify that you're not interested in swinging outside of the community of people who do likewise and that your revelation wasn't intended as you making a move on them |
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"I'm not sure it should make any difference to the path you take.
It doesn't involve or affect them directly so their reactions aren't relevant beyond perhaps re-evaluating what you share with them regarding swinging"
Absolutely agree x |
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"I wouldn't be too bothered to be honest what they think, it's your life. You don't need anyones approval, keep doing what your doing  "
fully second that
OP, being open for extramarital experiences in mutual consent is a thing between you and your spouse, it isn’t a community project . So as longest you too are good the explore the opinion of anyone else’s shouldn’t bother you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tonight we talked to friends about fab and we got mixed reactions about it so where do we go from here? "
Each to their own etc but there's no way I'd talk to them about Fab ,its not their business. |
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"How was the reactions from them as couples and as indivuals, were they shocked,interested,judgmental
This could make for an interesting evening "
A bit of everything felt judged but they were interested. |
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