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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't go to events, and I have no issue making connections.
There are of course groups of people who get to know each other and are more comfortable on each others company than less well known people but that's pretty natural in all parts of life.
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
I've never attended social events organised by select individuals, have never met the vast majority of people who comment on the forums, would never want to meet quite a few of them, don't blow smoke up anyones arse and just paddle my own canoe and it has never been difficult to meet one to one and make connections.
It's only cliquey if you make it that way and are bothered by what others are doing. |
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People are drawn to positivity and humour on the forums, in the same way that they are in real life which is why such people tend to draw positive attention.
There are others who have met each other at socials etc and will be naturally drawn to chatting with each other on the forums as well.
However, some like to twist it into something that it is not, complain about it on here and do themselves no favours for the aforementioned reasons.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of single guys here never attend events and they are regularly meeting. They have good profiles and pictures etc They are putting the effort in and reaping the Fab rewards. Meanwhile the will fill in later guys with one dick picture are bemoaning the cliques because that's surely the only reason they aren't knee deep in fanny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
I thinking your theory is flawed my friend, I think it's not that you are being ostracised for not attending their events, but I believe this is a social lifestyle as much as it is a sexual one, if your not willing to make an effort to mix, mingle, socialise with other people in the lifestyle at events, parties or socials, I think swinging may not be for you.
I know all sorts of people use fab differently, but if you are, and I am not say that you specifically are, but if you are just looking for one on one meets with singles, then maybe, just maybe,,, there is other sites that would suit your search criteria better. Just my thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think fab is very like the iceberg analogy.
90% stays under the surface. Very definitely the majority never post on the forums or go anywhere near them. I didn't until last summer.
The events/parties/forumites might seem to be prolific and hold sway but most are only legends in their own small circles and it's all a very superficial 10% of fab.
It can of course help having a verification but they don't matter to many.
Making connections takes a certain social finesse online.
Is it harder to get noticed in the sea of online profiles than in person? Not sure. It's certainly 2 dimensional.
Definitely easier to get rejected and to reject.
Efforts made don't get rewarded with sex or social meets in equal measure.
It definitely takes a very resilient and patient mindset to stay the course.
And it pays to remember, there's no guarantee on here any more than if you parked yourself down your local and hung a sign around your neck.
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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You get out of Fab the effort you put in.
Whether you attend events or not there are plenty of single guys who do really well on here. They have great pics, good bios and engage with everyone (I mean good conversation whether in a message or on Forums).
Regards cliques it may appear there are but lots of the same people attend the same events regularly and people become friends. I have a lovely core good of friends and as with my Vanilla friends I look forward to seeing them at events.
I love our little community and it's good to keep it a positive and fun one
 
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I’ve seen riffs on this thread 100 times over
It’s always easier to blame cliques and other factors for a lack of success.
Fab isn’t as easy as people believe when they join, it’s time consuming and a lot of legwork but worth it when it pays off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are people on here that do know one another but that’s from going too events and the like you must remember they didn’t choose this lifestyle yesterday
Personally when I’m acting the goul on here people will tell me but I wouldn’t want it any other way
Stick with it hopefully there’s someone out there for you if not then it’s the same on any site keep trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You right, in fact today one couple blocked me today because i have no car... Hilarious place fabswingers.."
What part of that indicates a clique though? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"You right, in fact today one couple blocked me today because i have no car... Hilarious place fabswingers.."
But you can be blocked for any reason so dont let it get to you
Can you see why people might think you have a car reading your profile |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I didnt put nothing in my profile that can suggest something like this"
You're looking for a meet with a couple .....anything ...anywhere is what you have written so they probably assumed you had a car |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie"
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums. |
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
The reason many people (incl myself) recommend events.. is that it makes meeting people so much easier. You can chat with loads of people over the course of an evening and (if you have any game) hopefully line up some people to meet more intimately later on. You could spend months having coffee meets and not meet as many people as 1 night at an event. You also get to filter out those you aren't physically attracted to. Its got nothing to do with who is organising the event. Events are a leg-up in the swinging world.
Also attending something in real life means that you are willing and able to get off your ass and do something in real life, so just turning up says something. So does not turning up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are new to the forums but i think perhaps that some folks have expectations that will rarely if ever fulfilled on here and then blame cliques or the fact they never went to some event, Perhaps if those expectations were left behind and folks genuinely just had the craic on here they would find fun along the way as a pleasant surprise rather than chasing non stop and constantly being disappointed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there a clique? Is there a unicorn? Is there anyone up for the ride?
Everyone's experience and journey on here is different, some attend socials, some don't, some meet some don't.
I'm on off here over the last 4 + years and I have a group of friends, some are friends outside of fab and some are just fab friends, majority of my nights out are with my fab friends, I don't consider it cliquey I've found my tribe simple as.
I've never attended any of the clubs and I dont get treated differently because of it, I'm not a party goer, and I'm not treated differently. I'm probably the least swinging person going on here, its mid march I've had sex once this year again noone has ostracised me for this.
Treat fab and use fab how you want and let people jog on if they have judged you because you don't or do something they do.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is there a clique? Is there a unicorn? Is there anyone up for the ride?
Everyone's experience and journey on here is different, some attend socials, some don't, some meet some don't.
I'm on off here over the last 4 + years and I have a group of friends, some are friends outside of fab and some are just fab friends, majority of my nights out are with my fab friends, I don't consider it cliquey I've found my tribe simple as.
I've never attended any of the clubs and I dont get treated differently because of it, I'm not a party goer, and I'm not treated differently. I'm probably the least swinging person going on here, its mid march I've had sex once this year again noone has ostracised me for this.
Treat fab and use fab how you want and let people jog on if they have judged you because you don't or do something they do.
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. Brilliant response well done ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums. "
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums "
In a nutshell ... just read this thread everybody writing the same stuff be social blah blah nonsense how can you be social when no body will give you the time of day |
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
defo some cliques but think that's natural if they been getting know each other at socials etc
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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
In a nutshell ... just read this thread everybody writing the same stuff be social blah blah nonsense how can you be social when no body will give you the time of day "
that blah blah nonsense is called advice. You can take heed of it or not, that's your choice. But throwing a strop is not going to get you anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums "
You say your only interested in one to one meets, also tbh the first line of your "headline" would turn me off straight away, your 28 a lot on here have kids that age and won't meet someone that young.
I'm hosting a Social next week, tickets are 10 euro, it's a strictly social eventbonly why don't you give it a try. There is a lovely group going  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
In a nutshell ... just read this thread everybody writing the same stuff be social blah blah nonsense how can you be social when no body will give you the time of day "
But someone not giving you the time of day and fab being dominated by cliques are two different things |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
Consider yourself corrected |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I've only been to a handful of events they have been interesting and some better craic than others. I only know a handful of people who use the forums outside of the forums despite the fact I've used them for quite a while.
I don't do Kik groups anymore and I don't chat to loads either I never have as my life outside of here take precedence.
And yes it can appear cliquey on here at times. And yes it is hard to get any way known on here and sometimes newbies are treated like crap when they post, other times it's deserved when they come in all guns blazing attacking everyone. But we were all newbies at times and you just keep posting is what I found when I joined and people will get to know you.
Go to mng if you want to see what they are like but I've quite often spoken to people who have gone and they found them to be hard and not as friendly as people make them out to be. And yes I've experienced that at one myself as well. It can be very hard to approach a table full of people if you don't know anyone.
Fab is what you make it though. And yes you will get people who will bitch about others in the background but despite their belief that they have power on here the simple truth is no they don't .People can bitch and people can listen but there will be plenty who make up their own minds and ignore those who constantly are stirring shite.
Fab is what you make of it and yes it's tougher for guys on here. But at the same time plenty of men have success on here without going to mngs or using the forums. |
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
In a nutshell ... just read this thread everybody writing the same stuff be social blah blah nonsense how can you be social when no body will give you the time of day "
Common social skills apply
You wouldn’t throw a strop like this if you were talking to people in a pub so don’t do it here and why would anyone give you the time of day if this is how you get on
You’ve been given the same advice by multiple people and you’re ignoring it and calling it nonsense, what more can people do for you |
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
You say your only interested in one to one meets, also tbh the first line of your "headline" would turn me off straight away, your 28 a lot on here have kids that age and won't meet someone that young.
I'm hosting a Social next week, tickets are 10 euro, it's a strictly social eventbonly why don't you give it a try. There is a lovely group going "
tbf can be quite daunting meeting load randomers you never met before who are all clicky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
You say your only interested in one to one meets, also tbh the first line of your "headline" would turn me off straight away, your 28 a lot on here have kids that age and won't meet someone that young.
I'm hosting a Social next week, tickets are 10 euro, it's a strictly social eventbonly why don't you give it a try. There is a lovely group going tbf can be quite daunting meeting load randomers you never met before who are all clicky. "
The very first social I attended I knew noone. I will definitely be making sure that for anyone attending my social as a first timer will be looked after. As I've said there's a lovely group going and everyone had to start somewhere. It's mot like your expected to get your dick out to enter the social |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
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"It's not like your expected to get your dick out to enter the social
And this folks is where I went wrong 
I wouldn't be surprised with ya "
Here get out you or you'll start getting me an unwanted bad rep... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not like your expected to get your dick out to enter the social
And this folks is where I went wrong "
This is where the socials went wrong... you get that little fella all the way out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do get the intimidation factor on the forums.
And I try to give new people the same level of interaction I'd give a regular user.
I fail at it sometimes.
I definitely see newer posters getting a hard time for something a regular poster wouldn't.
To a degree that's natural as you get to know the tone someone posts in and might recognise sarcasm etc... that could be taken as a literal post by a newbie
I think, maybe, the clique seems real to people who are not daily forum users, who don't/can't attend socials/clubs to get to know the usual forum users or have tried the forums and gave it up as a lost cause.
Their odd comments on the forums are 99% of the time ignored and the post generally becomes a conversation between a few of the people who know each other via the socials.
Yes some do get a hard times for their comments which is sometimes fair, sometimes not.
So as said before, a majority of the fab population in Ireland (North & South) do not use the forums.
This 100%. Ive been here a long time at this stage, i used to be a regular forum contributor, but tbh I dont bother most of the time anymore. I hate it when you see a newbie trying to join in and they get mocked immediately for something. The first bit of advise i used to give anyone was to get chatting on the forums
In a nutshell ... just read this thread everybody writing the same stuff be social blah blah nonsense how can you be social when no body will give you the time of day
Common social skills apply
You wouldn’t throw a strop like this if you were talking to people in a pub so don’t do it here and why would anyone give you the time of day if this is how you get on
You’ve been given the same advice by multiple people and you’re ignoring it and calling it nonsense, what more can people do for you"
Jay I’ll go directly to you in future seen as your the fab spokesperson here... you must be the captain of your GAA team as well are you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
Look op I’ll have a word with the clique they love me they sent us on all expenses paid holiday in P.D.I with tickets too clubs there,they even offered to mind the kids while we were away
So look leave it with me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory
Look op I’ll have a word with the clique they love me they sent us on all expenses paid holiday in P.D.I with tickets too clubs there,they even offered to mind the kids while we were away
So look leave it with me "
That was nice of them but you’d think they’d have paid for the kids to have a holiday too miserable shites |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
Your profile contains a list medical grade photos of your dick, zero sense of humour, zero positivity. Maybe it’s not about parties… 10 more years and you will understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory
Look op I’ll have a word with the clique they love me they sent us on all expenses paid holiday in P.D.I with tickets too clubs there,they even offered to mind the kids while we were away
So look leave it with me
That was nice of them but you’d think they’d have paid for the kids to have a holiday too miserable shites "
They were in all fairness trying too give us a much needed break |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its definitely not clicky, only recently at a secret social we were talking about the ones we would and wouldn't meet or invite to a future social "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory
Look op I’ll have a word with the clique they love me they sent us on all expenses paid holiday in P.D.I with tickets too clubs there,they even offered to mind the kids while we were away
So look leave it with me
That was nice of them but you’d think they’d have paid for the kids to have a holiday too miserable shites
They were in all fairness trying too give us a much needed break "
Nothing the kids club couldn’t fix just saying... now I’m questioning if the clique is really all that good :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory
Your profile contains a list medical grade photos of your dick, zero sense of humour, zero positivity. Maybe it’s not about parties… 10 more years and you will understand. "
Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
Citywest |
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off "
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body… "
Yeah maybe... maybe a few photos of me picking monster munch out of my belly button too could help the cause  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know what I find very clicky ?? …. When I snap my fingers ..it’s very clicky indeed ! Lol
I giggled at this more than I should have "
Course you did a female wrote it |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
Citywest |
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body…
Yeah maybe... maybe a few photos of me picking monster munch out of my belly button too could help the cause "
Nah… that would be quite Troll thing to do… wait….  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body…
Yeah maybe... maybe a few photos of me picking monster munch out of my belly button too could help the cause
Nah… that would be quite Troll thing to do… wait…. "
Ouch not my feelings sofa guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great news op the high priest has just txt and said too book your local town hall for your inauguration
The robe is being sent via courier and you should have it by Monday
He also informed me that you have too bring the McDonald’s curry sauce for the chips
And he said will you make sure that Margaret knows we have the hall booked till 11
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body…
Yeah maybe... maybe a few photos of me picking monster munch out of my belly button too could help the cause
Nah… that would be quite Troll thing to do… wait…. "
It's really only fair to point out that I'm pretty sure you trolled him by breaking forum rules and giving him unsolicited profile critique.
Your critique was a tad hypocritical btw, perhaps take your own advice.
No need to engineer a forum pile on.
Pretty sure this is exactly what earlier posters were referring to when they said new forumites get a hard time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jeez looks like someone had a personality transplant, all smiles and jokes all of a sudden"
My point proven good lad jay .making assumptions is bad for you. Thank you for helping me complete my experiment !
Back to training for the puc fadah you go
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe if I start getting photos taken of me while I sleep naked on my sofa it might begin to take off
Maybe that would show people that you are indeed a person. Not a cock attached to the rest of the body…
Yeah maybe... maybe a few photos of me picking monster munch out of my belly button too could help the cause
Nah… that would be quite Troll thing to do… wait….
It's really only fair to point out that I'm pretty sure you trolled him by breaking forum rules and giving him unsolicited profile critique.
Your critique was a tad hypocritical btw, perhaps take your own advice.
No need to engineer a forum pile on.
Pretty sure this is exactly what earlier posters were referring to when they said new forumites get a hard time.
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Oh you mean the same person who trolled me for my choice of photos ?
I’ll be sure to have pissed stained jocks on for my next one I post.. sit down
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Op nice to see you did listen and changed your profile in fairness
Anyone that goes to socials regularly had to start somewhere
I also knew no one when I went to my first so try and get out there
No one faces them alone as you get chatting on another app first |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes... I did actually mean the other one and not yourself OP
No need for any of this."
Deepest apologies to you my dear I completely misread your post ... hope you accept my apology just so hard to tell the nice from indecent here as you can see for yourself.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op nice to see you did listen and changed your profile in fairness
Anyone that goes to socials regularly had to start somewhere
I also knew no one when I went to my first so try and get out there
No one faces them alone as you get chatting on another app first "
Thanks for the advice my friend..
Not actually looking for an invite to a party per say it’s more general connections without having to go to a swingers party.. my idea is to get a couple of meets either with individuals/couples to begin with and see where the road takes me further down the line in regards to parties events etc. that is all I was trying to say but if you see with your own eyes a lot of Charlie big potatoes here like to row in with in needed/wanted information |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
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Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Good grief. I hope somebody borrows a thread from the lounge soon so that we can all move on."
Yeah your right a simple theory I had turned into a bullshit palooza of know all’s |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All turned a bit too friendly here... someone come along and be a bollix "
Facts ... the funny thing is everyone threw their twopence in here thinking I was just another one of those weird pages that all the fabbers would just dive on and troll once it was given back everyone’s all singing coombyah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez looks like someone had a personality transplant, all smiles and jokes all of a sudden
Only for lent Jay
Wtf is lent?"
Ja know when your man went walk about in the dessert |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Op nice to see you did listen and changed your profile in fairness
Anyone that goes to socials regularly had to start somewhere
I also knew no one when I went to my first so try and get out there
No one faces them alone as you get chatting on another app first "
Not all socials have Kik groups and not everyone is invited to join the groups as well. So yes there are people who have to go it alone and that can be very tough for someone who doesn't know anyone to attend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest "
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
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over a year ago
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"Jeez looks like someone had a personality transplant, all smiles and jokes all of a sudden
Only for lent Jay
Wtf is lent?
Ja know when your man went walk about in the dessert "
Yeah.... for a while
The whole '40 days' thing was just local slang meaning 'for a while'
Could've been he went for a long stroll to walk off a big lunch and now religious folk have to do without for 40 actual calendar days |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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The clique thread is one which recurs frequently in the forum; instigated by members who, dissatisfied by the infrequency of the replies or meets, vent about the existence of a clique or cliques in fab.
Success, however defined, is the result of many factors:attractive profile and participation on the forum; the filters and expressed preferences are important.
Cliques exist within all human organisations and those on the outside often deeply resent those on the inside track whose have more contacts friends and receive more invitations.
The key is attractiveness to as many members as possible, and minimisation of filters & restrictions.
Finally, if you remain on the outside of a clique, then start your own SIG: special interest group or esoteric clique that does satisfy your sexual needs.
You won't feel excluded and you can just disregard the other clique whom you previously criticised.
I don't know if a clique exists within Fab, and I don't care because I have always been a lone wolf who does his own thing.
Cliques interest me from a social psychology point, not from a desire to be an affiliated member.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Where was your words 60 posts ago before I had to enter The Who had the biggest fab dick contest.
I would love for you to be my fab mentor Here I don’t think I could go any way wrong then
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Where was your words 60 posts ago before I had to enter The Who had the biggest fab dick contest.
I would love for you to be my fab mentor Here I don’t think I could go any way wrong then
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
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°°°
That is very lovely to say.
Just keep it honest and even tempered no matter the wind-up and you'll do well.
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"Jeez looks like someone had a personality transplant, all smiles and jokes all of a sudden
Only for lent Jay
Wtf is lent?
Ja know when your man went walk about in the dessert
Yeah.... for a while
The whole '40 days' thing was just local slang meaning 'for a while'
Could've been he went for a long stroll to walk off a big lunch and now religious folk have to do without for 40 actual calendar days "
To be fair our lord had a rocking beach bod when he came back, the tan not soo much… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Where was your words 60 posts ago before I had to enter The Who had the biggest fab dick contest.
I would love for you to be my fab mentor Here I don’t think I could go any way wrong then
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
°°°
That is very lovely to say.
Just keep it honest and even tempered no matter the wind-up and you'll do well.
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I need to meet more women like this |
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over a year ago
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"Jeez looks like someone had a personality transplant, all smiles and jokes all of a sudden
Only for lent Jay
Wtf is lent?
Ja know when your man went walk about in the dessert
Yeah.... for a while
The whole '40 days' thing was just local slang meaning 'for a while'
Could've been he went for a long stroll to walk off a big lunch and now religious folk have to do without for 40 actual calendar days
To be fair our lord had a rocking beach bod when he came back, the tan not soo much…"
Long hair, 6 pack and a tan mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Where was your words 60 posts ago before I had to enter The Who had the biggest fab dick contest.
I would love for you to be my fab mentor Here I don’t think I could go any way wrong then
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
°°°
That is very lovely to say.
Just keep it honest and even tempered no matter the wind-up and you'll do well.
I need to meet more women like this "
Keep her lit op and I hope well I kinda know I didn’t upset you in anyway coz it’s not a thing I’ve ever set out too do too anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No apology necessary.
Once a pile on gets going things can be easily misread.
I appreciate that you did though.
Where was your words 60 posts ago before I had to enter The Who had the biggest fab dick contest.
I would love for you to be my fab mentor Here I don’t think I could go any way wrong then
Was a please ground swallow me up moment to be honest
Honesty and the ability to police yourself and own it shows character.
Let that be your selling point to take away from this thread.
Lots who watch the forums will see you did.
Where are all the ladies who like a guy who can own it so well? They can hit up the DMs
°°°
That is very lovely to say.
Just keep it honest and even tempered no matter the wind-up and you'll do well.
I need to meet more women like this
Keep her lit op and I hope well I kinda know I didn’t upset you in anyway coz it’s not a thing I’ve ever set out too do too anyone "
Like a Christmas tree my friend no offense taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?"
Your robe is on the way |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?"
Ffs I never knew there was money to be made in starting a clique
That's why they're so bloody secretive 
Coining it in on the Q T |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way "
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold? |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?"
You can have a throne me lady |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Put the toys back in the pram OP and you'll probably improve your chances.
Just when I thought the dumbo convention was over "
Ah don't wrap it up just yet, you've done a great job headlining it for the last 7 hours. |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You can have a throne me lady "
I'm sensing a dirty punchline here.... or hoping.... not sure which
Is there a naked erect man posing as the throne?
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over a year ago
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"Put the toys back in the pram OP and you'll probably improve your chances.
Just when I thought the dumbo convention was over
Ah don't wrap it up just yet, you've done a great job headlining it for the last 7 hours. "
We didn’t have time for an anti climax |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?"
You have to pass an initiation ceremony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You have to pass an initiation ceremony "
This is getting more and more like a filthy dream I had once |
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"This thread seems to be hanging around longer than Enoch. Lol.. take off your yellow jocks let's see you hanging "
No can do. I would be afraid my nuts would bang together and make a clicking noise. |
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over a year ago
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"Put the toys back in the pram OP and you'll probably improve your chances.
Just when I thought the dumbo convention was over
Ah don't wrap it up just yet, you've done a great job headlining it for the last 7 hours.
We didn’t have time for an anti climax "
Climax who said that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Put the toys back in the pram OP and you'll probably improve your chances.
Just when I thought the dumbo convention was over
Ah don't wrap it up just yet, you've done a great job headlining it for the last 7 hours.
We didn’t have time for an anti climax
Climax who said that "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You can have a throne me lady
I'm sensing a dirty punchline here.... or hoping.... not sure which
Is there a naked erect man posing as the throne?
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Mmm no sorry wake up me lady it’s fab it does that sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread seems to be hanging around longer than Enoch. Lol.. take off your yellow jocks let's see you hanging
No can do. I would be afraid my nuts would bang together and make a clicking noise."
Your dead right,don't wake up the neighbours |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You can have a throne me lady
I'm sensing a dirty punchline here.... or hoping.... not sure which
Is there a naked erect man posing as the throne?
Mmm no sorry wake up me lady it’s fab it does that sometimes "
Damnit I was close too |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You can have a throne me lady
I'm sensing a dirty punchline here.... or hoping.... not sure which
Is there a naked erect man posing as the throne?
Mmm no sorry wake up me lady it’s fab it does that sometimes
Damnit I was close too"
Era fuck it let’s get it too 175 yer all a load of bollocks well except the very wise females on here sell them piss stained yellow fuck’n y-fronts ya cork langer |
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over a year ago
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"There is something to be said for keeping your interactions in here to a very limited number of people actually.
Any clique hiring?
Your robe is on the way
Is there a neck chain like the mayors and lodges have?
Can I choose silver or gold?
You can have a throne me lady
I'm sensing a dirty punchline here.... or hoping.... not sure which
Is there a naked erect man posing as the throne?
Mmm no sorry wake up me lady it’s fab it does that sometimes
Damnit I was close too
Era fuck it let’s get it too 175 yer all a load of bollocks well except the very wise females on here sell them piss stained yellow fuck’n y-fronts ya cork langer "
That’s meant to the person formerly known as your man |
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over a year ago
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"Its definitely not clicky, only recently at a secret social we were talking about the ones we would and wouldn't meet or invite to a future social
This comment didn't get the kudos it deserved
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Haha |
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over a year ago
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"Its definitely not clicky, only recently at a secret social we were talking about the ones we would and wouldn't meet or invite to a future social
This comment didn't get the kudos it deserved
Haha "
Robe sent |
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over a year ago
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"Its definitely not clicky, only recently at a secret social we were talking about the ones we would and wouldn't meet or invite to a future social
This comment didn't get the kudos it deserved
Haha
Robe sent "
Any one else come on lads it getting late we can personalize them if ye want for e.g
I’m a Virgil especially for the Scouse
Arse I’ll take it for the gunners
And so on |
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over a year ago
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly "
Ah Jesus not again for fuck sake go to sleep and start again tomorrow please I’m stressed out of me head for the last seven or eight hours
I haven’t much left to try and keep people off ya |
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly
Ah Jesus not again for fuck sake go to sleep and start again tomorrow please I’m stressed out of me head for the last seven or eight hours
I haven’t much left to try and keep people off ya "
Just giving my opinion based on my experience on here |
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over a year ago
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly
Ah Jesus not again for fuck sake go to sleep and start again tomorrow please I’m stressed out of me head for the last seven or eight hours
I haven’t much left to try and keep people off ya
Just giving my opinion based on my experience on here"
And your entitled too it but it’s been a very stressful day so it’s up too you but we are off to bed |
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly
Ah Jesus not again for fuck sake go to sleep and start again tomorrow please I’m stressed out of me head for the last seven or eight hours
I haven’t much left to try and keep people off ya
Just giving my opinion based on my experience on here
And your entitled too it but it’s been a very stressful day so it’s up too you but we are off to bed "
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly
Ah Jesus not again for fuck sake go to sleep and start again tomorrow please I’m stressed out of me head for the last seven or eight hours
I haven’t much left to try and keep people off ya
Just giving my opinion based on my experience on here
And your entitled too it but it’s been a very stressful day so it’s up too you but we are off to bed ooooook"
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"Yeah I think fab is full of cliques and not new user friendly "
Maybe but it's also has a few guys who blame everyone but themselves, thsn throw their toys out of their prams and get nasty |
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"Correct me if I am wrong but does other folk here believe the same if you don’t attend events organized on here by a select few individuals you essentially don’t have a chance of connecting with anyone??? Just a theory "
Fab is certainly clicky but only really seen on the forums . It has been for years and years . Its a case that people like you to gently blend into the opinions and narratives already expressed by the "regulars". You can also see from the very many posts That there is a huge area of fab that has nothing to do with social parties. The forums can be difficult because as long as I am coming on and off fab there are small groups that tend to feel like they control the narrative. You also have people who are very opinionative you have people who are on here for different agendas altogether You also have people who are very opinionative you have people who are on here for different agendas altogether That don't have anything to do with meeting. You also have very honest straight talking folk who don't really pick sides or clicks and do their own thing. 5 is no different than the real world except for it is magnified if you spend time in the forms. I believe this is because the people who use fab without the need for all the social meets and parties also don't usually venture onto the forums very often. This means what you encounter on the forums is a small group of similarly minded people. There are some fabulous people on fab . My advice would be always be yourself because it's the only thing that's sustainable and if people find that you Bend and mold then you're only going to attract similar people.
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Humans are tribal creatures . Yes, when not being part of a group any group appears as a clique and certainly there are groups which are somewhat more difficult to get in, but isn’t that a normal thing ? You can find this at all levels of life . The sports club one supports , the mates you meet in the local , the people you hang out with from work etc . If you take the effort to build bridges of trust you will get entry to the group , takes only one group member to reach out to and it may trigger an avalanche of new friends |
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"I do find the forums clicky.
Threads opened as homages to other forum members etc is just a bit ewwww.
Doesn't happen to often on the Irish forums "
Yeah to be fair I haven't seen one of those here in ages. |
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Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ? |
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"Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ? "
Very nice |
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"Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ? "
Oh My .. Yummy  |
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Some people will only talk to others on here that they know , their time is taken up with those that they already know and they won't give up that time to chat to Radom stranger's on the internet , some people will find that cliquey but to those involved it's not cliquey to them , the main thing is, wether here or in real life , never let the fun be taken out of it for you ,if you feel you have to change or be a different person just to please others well then it's game over for you , if people reply or chat ..great ..if they don't ..hey what about it ... they're simply not interested, don't worry one bit about it , have a great time regardless. |
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"Some people will only talk to others on here that they know , their time is taken up with those that they already know and they won't give up that time to chat to Radom stranger's on the internet , some people will find that cliquey but to those involved it's not cliquey to them , the main thing is, wether here or in real life , never let the fun be taken out of it for you ,if you feel you have to change or be a different person just to please others well then it's game over for you , if people reply or chat ..great ..if they don't ..hey what about it ... they're simply not interested, don't worry one bit about it , have a great time regardless. "
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"Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ? "
That's how we get ya... lured in and before you know it you're dressed in green, drinking pints of Guinness and playing the fiddle in an irish band/bar.... sure look at poor Ed Sheeran. He's the one that got away but he's been great for business tbf
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Quick folks we've fresh blood.... someone shut the door before he gets away |
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"Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ?
That's how we get ya... lured in and before you know it you're dressed in green, drinking pints of Guinness and playing the fiddle in an irish band/bar.... sure look at poor Ed Sheeran. He's the one that got away but he's been great for business tbf
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Quick folks we've fresh blood.... someone shut the door before he gets away "
Its shut and bolted , tied with some baleing twine |
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"Oops sorry . I didn’t realise this was an ‘Ireland’ thread.
But whilst I am here I will ask if anyone likes my choice of green to make St Patrick’s day ?
That's how we get ya... lured in and before you know it you're dressed in green, drinking pints of Guinness and playing the fiddle in an irish band/bar.... sure look at poor Ed Sheeran. He's the one that got away but he's been great for business tbf
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Quick folks we've fresh blood.... someone shut the door before he gets away "
The way the UK economy is going after Brexit there will be many more of them jumping across the Irish Sea.
As if we didn't have enough male competition on here.
Quick someone, shut the door before we are overrun by Walker's Crisp munchers... |
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So I read the first half of the comments then decided to skip the rest … anyway, the problem isn’t about attending socials, unfortunately it’s about the amount of gents on the site! There is so much, dare I say “competition” with 47 men to 2 couples and 1 lady (worked out via the near me app) the odds r not on ur favour.
That said if u r lucky enough to attend a social, ( I say luck as many organisers want verified gents and limit their numbers) go! For the experience if nothing else. You’ll get verified and meet some fab people. As others have said, this isn’t all about sex. It’s a lifestyle choice and a social lets u chat openly to others about that. It also takes off the pressure and expectation of meeting someone on a 1:2:1 basis. It’s a a lot easier to walk away at a social than feel obliged if u arrange a meet and they aren’t all they seem in person. |
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