Do people have a pre determined amount of verifications they would like to see before messaging someone back or agreeing to meet some.
Would be great if there was a filter for this. The amount of messages I get where the profile has 1 verification and they are on the site 12 months.
Is this common? |
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Ah life is tough on fab ... no meets without vers ... no meets without enough vers ... no meets without enought vers from a certain type ... no meets unless you go to socials .. most meets at socials are social meets ... jeasus hard for a person to just get a ride eh  |
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"Shocking altogether.
I say banish them from the site completely
This is a great idea.
You dk realize you'd be banished.. not enought reputable vers !!!! Tut tut tut  
But more than you. "
Check again beautiful |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes the veri trail is more sus than the lack of veris.
But I get why some people rely on them and they are a somewhat useful tool.
If they were required after a certain period of time to keep an account active I could understand that.
I've also found getting meets without verifications isn't as hard as some make out. |
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"Shocking altogether.
I say banish them from the site completely
This is a great idea. "
??? Why its completely different for a woman or lady
Men are outnumbered here by 500/1 or even 1000/1
It's hard to get a reply let alone a verification so give some of these guys a chance they might pleasantly surprise you |
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"Shocking altogether.
I say banish them from the site completely
This is a great idea.
You dk realize you'd be banished.. not enought reputable vers !!!! Tut tut tut
But more than you. "
Sorry I recant ... 
Your still beautiful though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shocking altogether.
I say banish them from the site completely
This is a great idea.
??? Why its completely different for a woman or lady
Men are outnumbered here by 500/1 or even 1000/1
It's hard to get a reply let alone a verification so give some of these guys a chance they might pleasantly surprise you "
It's never been easier to get a veri. The amount of socials that run events for unverified users is more than ever.
If socials aren't your thing then plenty forumite have offered coffee meets in the past.
There is a chat room on the site where you can easily pick up at least a cam veri |
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"Ah life is tough on fab ... no meets without vers ... no meets without enough vers ... no meets without enought vers from a certain type ... no meets unless you go to socials .. most meets at socials are social meets ... jeasus hard for a person to just get a ride eh "
I know...shocking stuff 
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"Ah life is tough on fab ... no meets without vers ... no meets without enough vers ... no meets without enought vers from a certain type ... no meets unless you go to socials .. most meets at socials are social meets ... jeasus hard for a person to just get a ride eh
I know...shocking stuff
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I know like .... ffs put out already  |
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"Mine are all hidden so as far as you know i might only have 1 or 501 some people don't need to show off who they been with.... "
I keep mine hidden too. It's a personal choice. I think that they're a double edged sword... A green tick is a handy thing to have. Sadly, many of the meets I've had are with members who've left the site. |
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I prefer people to have a similar number to my own because that usually means we are on a similar journey but content is always more important than numbers and who they are from more important than content. |
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"Ah life is tough on fab ... no meets without vers ... no meets without enough vers ... no meets without enought vers from a certain type ... no meets unless you go to socials .. most meets at socials are social meets ... jeasus hard for a person to just get a ride eh
I know...shocking stuff
I know like .... ffs put out already "
poor you.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met plenty of unverified people here over the years. But I'm judging them on their good communication skills and making efforts to meet for social etc. Plenty of well verified accounts are flaky af here so I'm all for giving newbies a chance. |
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I'm at 7 and counting. A mix of coffee, social and play meets, after a very slow start.
If it wasn't for my Fab Angel who did a first coffee meet veri for me I would be long gone off the site.
The "help a fabber" veri thread is really important.
I am happy to meet anyone in the Cork/Kerry/Limerick area if it helps
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications. "
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?"
Its up to everyone to use Fab whatever way they want to |
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?
Its up to everyone to use Fab whatever way they want to "
As long as they accept the fact they're hypocrites |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?
Its up to everyone to use Fab whatever way they want to
As long as they accept the fact they're hypocrites "
Do as I say and not as I do
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?
Its up to everyone to use Fab whatever way they want to
As long as they accept the fact they're hypocrites
Do as I say and not as I do
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"One rule for me and fuck the rest of them" - Someone, 2023 |
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?"
If you actually look at her profile she's got more than two verifys.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes people can act as stupidly and rudely as they want
They can and do in fairness....they just might not get any meets out of it "
I beg to differ I still get meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset "
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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"Would not open a message from people who are not verified and would not even reply to those with one or two verifications.
But you only have two verifications ? So one rule for you and another for someone else?"
She has six verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass"
Surely we could steal something from the lounge that would get people laughing |
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass"
Don't forget the bush threads. |
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass
Don't forget the bush threads."
it’s a personal choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't win with them can't win without them
I've been accused of been a slapper because of the number I have, a fantasist and time waster cause none are play veris.
I'm wary meeting a guy without veris but I'll give someone a chance if the chat is going well.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can't win with them can't win without them
I've been accused of been a slapper because of the number I have, a fantasist and time waster cause none are play veris.
I'm wary meeting a guy without veris but I'll give someone a chance if the chat is going well.
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Bit of a catch 22... Failing that... Anyone in Cork wanna verify me? |
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass
Surely we could steal something from the lounge that would get people laughing "
Seems stealing from the lounge is not to be joked about... |
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"So what I’m getting from most of the posts is it’s a personal choice
Why didn’t someone just say this at the outset
Because that's the answer to 97.34% of threads and we would have nothing to waffle about apart from suck fuck kiss pass"
I think you might be out by a decimal point |
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By *atriceWoman
over a year ago
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It is a hard world out there on fab for men as I do look at veris I like putting up verifications it shows what kinda person you are what you like by them and makes me feel good about myself with their kind words but need to clear a few as they from same people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes veris have many uses, today was a new low for me.
Not everyone and everything is what it seems on here just like anywhere.
It's all the fab game.
Very 'survival of the fittest'.
It's a pit of vipers with a few good souls sprinkled about to redeem it. |
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This is kinda why we get stuck with only 1 verification like myself cos most women won't talk to new people. I'm on the site over a year met one and maybe chatted to 5 women privately.No matter what I try no one replies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A meet will all depends on how I interact with a guy, not on what others thought of him.
I do look at verifications when a man messages me. And yes, who he has met and the number of play verifications do matter. A very detailed, badly written verification is an immediate turnoff as is anyone who has done the rounds of the site. Or met those who have.
Not judging anyone just my preference.
So yes, I would tend to meet guys with no or few verifs. But only after we chatted a while.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP what is your obsession with verifications? This aint the first time i’ve seen you bitching and moaning about them in threads on here. Fucking boring as hell.
Ben ... are you ok ? "
He is bored.
If only there was some way he could avoid threads he didn't like |
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