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Here and dating apps
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"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting!" Yes ... in what way do you anticipate this being interesting  | |||
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"I think you know what I mean!" I'd imagine lots of people
I'm getting the sence you think it should be one or the other ? | |||
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"There's a lot of users here and on the apps. Plenty use the same face pics here and there. " They do indeed. Not sure if it's naive or brave or what | |||
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and I haven't been arsed to dig out my logins to get back in to kill them off. Height of laziness.
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"I'm not on any other apps so if anyone sees "me" on any other apps can you please tell "me" that he's a very naughty boy and that he'll never live up to the legend? Thanks " | |||
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We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!! | |||
"Neither of us had ever used a dating app/site. A year ago, on a night away, we joined a "dating app" for the craic. We hadn't a clue how it worked! We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!! "We would probably end up in the same situation,but we never had a reason to try one,only found fab after a night away and a conversation that we had with each other and here we are L | |||
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"Neither of us had ever used a dating app/site. A year ago, on a night away, we joined a "dating app" for the craic. We hadn't a clue how it worked! We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!! "I invited someone from here to join me for a for a few days in Italy, while I was away with work. I used my profile on a popular dating app, we added some new pics of us, and mentioned, in the bio, that we looking for another guy or possibly more to join us, I got banned, rather quickly too. | |||
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"Jesus POF was pretty awful "It still is! | |||
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"What other ones r good ? " I’d imagine I found them using this website that begins with a g and ends in oogle Can’t be promoting the competition on here  | |||
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But on fet I much more just catching up with friends and keep eye on events. | |||
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But on fet I much more just catching up with friends and keep eye on events."I don't like the user experience on that site. It's very clunky. The people on it were weird af also. Definite stranger danger vibes. I barely used it before I landed on fab like a sex junkie finding their stash, and that's all she wrote.... | |||
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"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting!" this is like dating app going by some females profiles lol | |||
"I did use other apps before and a pretty decent success rate. You just have to be careful of bunny boilers and husband hunters and make sure you're meeting someone that's looking for the same thing as yourself. Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums. That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future. "I don't think it is all that fair to suggest that those looking for relationships on dating apps are "husband hunters". They are on dating apps, at the end of the day. You are free to use them as you so please, as long as you make the other person aware. Just because they may be looking for something more long-term, it doesn't mean they will settle for any so called husband. As to the use of the bunny boiler term, I know its origins, but I still feel it is misused 80% of the time and usually by men. Women regularly get labelled "crazy" by men and, more often than not, they are being gaslit. However, I don't know you, so I am just going to hope that you have come across an inordinate amount of so called bunny boilers and husband hunters in your time... | |||
"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting! this is like dating app going by some females profiles lol " And? Is this something which bothers you? I believe each person is free to choose on here, so you can always just avoid any profile you consider incompatible with yours. | |||
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"I'm on tinder too, I get as many interesting chats and eventual meets off there as I do here" :-true dat | |||
"I did use other apps before and a pretty decent success rate. You just have to be careful of bunny boilers and husband hunters and make sure you're meeting someone that's looking for the same thing as yourself. Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums. That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.
I don't think it is all that fair to suggest that those looking for relationships on dating apps are "husband hunters". They are on dating apps, at the end of the day. You are free to use them as you so please, as long as you make the other person aware. Just because they may be looking for something more long-term, it doesn't mean they will settle for any so called husband. As to the use of the bunny boiler term, I know its origins, but I still feel it is misused 80% of the time and usually by men. Women regularly get labelled "crazy" by men and, more often than not, they are being gaslit. However, I don't know you, so I am just going to hope that you have come across an inordinate amount of so called bunny boilers and husband hunters in your time... "That's a pretty hefty response to what I wrote as my experience on dating apps. And as their title suggests, I was on them to date. And just to clarify, I've ALWAYS made it clear what I was looking for but there are women on there that will tell you they're looking for the same but it doesn't take long for them to prove differently .And I'm sure the same applies to men on the apps. And I wasn't saying that anyone looking for a relationship is a husband hunter or anything else. They are the ones that have the decency to be honest about what they want and I respect that. I don't know what kind of number is classed as inordinate but for the most part I have met them through dating apps. Hence I now stick to fab where at least I know here is a non committal site. After all that I would like to apologize to you that you read my post wrong and hope you now understand what I meant | |||
"I did use other apps before and a pretty decent success rate. You just have to be careful of bunny boilers and husband hunters and make sure you're meeting someone that's looking for the same thing as yourself. Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums. That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.
I don't think it is all that fair to suggest that those looking for relationships on dating apps are "husband hunters". They are on dating apps, at the end of the day. You are free to use them as you so please, as long as you make the other person aware. Just because they may be looking for something more long-term, it doesn't mean they will settle for any so called husband. As to the use of the bunny boiler term, I know its origins, but I still feel it is misused 80% of the time and usually by men. Women regularly get labelled "crazy" by men and, more often than not, they are being gaslit. However, I don't know you, so I am just going to hope that you have come across an inordinate amount of so called bunny boilers and husband hunters in your time...
That's a pretty hefty response to what I wrote as my experience on dating apps. And as their title suggests, I was on them to date.
And just to clarify, I've ALWAYS made it clear what I was looking for but there are women on there that will tell you they're looking for the same but it doesn't take long for them to prove differently .And I'm sure the same applies to men on the apps.
And I wasn't saying that anyone looking for a relationship is a husband hunter or anything else. They are the ones that have the decency to be honest about what they want and I respect that. I don't know what kind of number is classed as inordinate but for the most part I have met them through dating apps. Hence I now stick to fab where at least I know here is a non committal site.
After all that I would like to apologize to you that you read my post wrong and hope you now understand what I meant "Yes, I suppose it is. I was struck by the use of both of those terms, hence the reply.
I am not a man, so my experience of the apps/other will obviously vary to yours. I accept the points you have made and I understand better, so thank you.
I still feel that women are too easily labelled as some form of crazy, whereas this doesn't seem to happen to men as much. Maybe your experience is different? My own opinion is informed by my own experience, in particular what I have witnessed. So many male seeking female profiles state that they want absolutely "no drama", as though drama is exclusive to women. Invariably, it often means that they want NSA sex, free of any responsibility towards the other person, which is fine, if it suits the other person. Drama is not a person having boundaries and requirements around how that encounter is fulfilled.
Anyway, those are just my thoughts. All the best with the dating/other! | |||
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"I agree with you about the crazy label but I'm sure there are as many if not more men that are crazy too. There's evidence in the forums on here for example. People are different and individual in many ways and a bit of the right kind of crazy can be fun too. Lol." Yes, but I don't believe that men get gaslit as regularly, and described as crazy for expressing what they want, as often as women do... I highly doubt that bunny boiling falls under the category of the right kind of crazy, either.
Other than that, agree that everybody has a bit of crazy in them. | |||
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