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What could you never accept in a romantic partner?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
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cheating on me would be a big one for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lack of integrity.
It informs a lot of other things.... honesty, fidelity, loyalty, respect, accountability. They all have personal integrity as their foundation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying
I hate being lied too and then finding out. The feeling is awful.
Id rather be told, no matter how painful the truth is. "
Exactly, give me all the details, all the nasty, all the hurtful and leave nothing out.
Then I can deal and know there's nothing worse lurking to take me out at the knees.
Being betrayed / stabbed in the back is much harder to come back from. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
I have no preconditions at all as regards a partner; what I will not accept from myself is intolerance selfishness and any form of dysfunctionality.
I do not judge others, but I used to treat myself harshly; but no longer. |
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The problem is, in a romantic relationship, im usually quite blind to red flags, and accept things which i shouldnt(if i hadnt been overcome with the insanity of romance)
Im attracted to beauty, and held by intelligence. If these qualities dont exist, i wont be attracted to the woman at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aligned Values.
Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff.
Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner 
Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP. "
What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff... |
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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago
Cork/Dublin |
"Aligned Values.
Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff.
Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner
Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP.
What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff..."
The bikes are under lock and key as is Hobbes. The strapon is replaceable, Lovehoney is but a cart basket away.. But if they knicked my Stretch Arm Strong than that's a red line. Place pissed off emoji here. |
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By *dfabMan
over a year ago
Dunboyne |
"Never initiating sex
Being a poor communicator around emotions
Frumpiness
A bad d*unk
Drug use
A lack of curiosity in other cultures and travel
Someone who’s very neurotic "
Understand a lot of what you mean, except the drugs/drink elements, that's where my marriage is  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Realistically, at my stage in life, the options for and the chances of getting a 'romantic partner' are extremely small, and from long experience of many different varieties of so-called 'relationships', the safest option is NSA liaisons that accommodate both party's sexual needs.
The only things you should try to change or try to amend slightly are faults that you perceive in your own behaviour.
Never try to change a bad trait that you perceive in anyone else; people are what they are and you have to put up with the whole package, warts and all.
If you cannot tolerate a trait, simply walk away.
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"A lack of integrity.
It informs a lot of other things.... honesty, fidelity, loyalty, respect, accountability. They all have personal integrity as their foundation."
On a serious note... This 100 per cent  |
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By *ezoMan
over a year ago
The Kingdom |
A person who acts like they are better than anyone else.
That only their opinion matter, that they need to be the only one heard and that they need to be treated better than everyone else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aligned Values.
Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff.
Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner
Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP.
What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff...
The bikes are under lock and key as is Hobbes. The strapon is replaceable, Lovehoney is but a cart basket away.. But if they knicked my Stretch Arm Strong than that's a red line. Place pissed off emoji here."
What if Stretch came willingly 
Would you follow? Hunt him down with your particular set of skills? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
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The vaccinated! |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
The vaccinated! "
Just kidding lol |
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats "
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" "
Ah sure look...
Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts"
Ah sure look...
Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind "
Cats are evil though....
I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts"
Ah sure look...
Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind
Cats are evil though....
I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial"
Mine are sweethearts! Well, mostly. Maybe 70% of the time. Kinda... |
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts"
Ah sure look...
Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind "
Here kitty kitty... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
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Bad breath
Could cope with all that |
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship."
A little story...
When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship.
Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again.
A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware).
Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship.
A little story...
When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship.
Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again.
A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware).
Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage "
I see you're also keeping himself on his toes by calling him your current husband  |
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship.
A little story...
When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship.
Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again.
A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware).
Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage
I see you're also keeping himself on his toes by calling him your current husband "
Yes he is often reminded of it |
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship.
A little story...
When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship.
Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again.
A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware).
Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage "
Is the ex still single? Asking for a friend |
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship.
A little story...
When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship.
Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again.
A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware).
Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage
Is the ex still single? Asking for a friend "
My superior matchmaking skills tell me you shouldn't go there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who blames ex partners for everything that went wrong, doesn't speak of an ability to take responsibility for their own actions "
Ok fine... I'll just blame you instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who blames ex partners for everything that went wrong, doesn't speak of an ability to take responsibility for their own actions
Ok fine... I'll just blame you instead"
Seems fair |
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"Someone who digs down into the margarine instead of taking it off the top! "
Who in the name of good fuck uses margarine, these days.
Hey mutha, have you any lard for me bread! Nah sun, only beef drippin. |
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know.
Hahahahaha
The vaccinated!
Just kidding lol"
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats
Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts"
Ah sure look...
Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind
Cats are evil though....
I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial
Mine are sweethearts! Well, mostly. Maybe 70% of the time. Kinda..."
I'm convinced |
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"Lying
I hate being lied too and then finding out. The feeling is awful.
Id rather be told, no matter how painful the truth is.
Exactly, give me all the details, all the nasty, all the hurtful and leave nothing out.
Then I can deal and know there's nothing worse lurking to take me out at the knees.
Being betrayed / stabbed in the back is much harder to come back from."
Exactly this! |
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