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Bar meet . Accept, Decline, Excuse
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This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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I've done it before as in sat down / being invited with the couple to join at their had a chit chat was no problem. Don't think it was what I thought at time it was but hey non the less was good owl night chatting away so noting gained noting lost. I'd do it again no problem. I Probably wouldn't accept it if I'm with friends though |
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In my mind:
Go over and assert your dominance, maybe even try it on with the husband to show your confidence
In reality:
Say yeah I'll be over in a few then quietly sneak to the bathroom and slip out through the window |
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"In my mind:
Go over and assert your dominance, maybe even try it on with the husband to show your confidence
In reality:
Say yeah I'll be over in a few then quietly sneak to the bathroom and slip out through the window "
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"In my mind:
Go over and assert your dominance, maybe even try it on with the husband to show your confidence
In reality:
Say yeah I'll be over in a few then quietly sneak to the bathroom and slip out through the window "
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A few years ago we were on holiday in Portugal and hubby was taking pics of me on the beach in one of my string bikinis. About 10 minutes into shooting this Adonis walks out of the water and stands close to where I am writhing around on the stand. Looking over.
We get chatting and invite him to join us on our towel. Long story short but it turns out he is a stripper in the local club. So we go that night. He gets me up on stage and I end up with my legs around his head as he holds me upside down on stage.
We ended up back at our hotel where him and hubby made sure I was a very happy girl.
I guess the moral of the story in relation to the original post is Nothing ventured nothing gained |
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"I would treat it like a fab message.
No problem saying hello and chatting but I'm not getting naked with anyone on a first meet regardless of who, what, where and why. "
Is there something wrong with you!
IMO the majority off men would be balls deep if there was an attraction and quite a few even if they didn't fancy her.
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"I would treat it like a fab message.
No problem saying hello and chatting but I'm not getting naked with anyone on a first meet regardless of who, what, where and why.
Is there something wrong with you!
IMO the majority off men would be balls deep if there was an attraction and quite a few even if they didn't fancy her.
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That's why I'm not the majority of men. |
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
Join nothing ventured nothing gained
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"In my mind:
Go over and assert your dominance, maybe even try it on with the husband to show your confidence
In reality:
Say yeah I'll be over in a few then quietly sneak to the bathroom and slip out through the window "
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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If I'm out with my non fab friends- I always decline all advances from all randomers.
I rarely see my vanilla friends as is so prefer ending the night with the same company it started with.
If I'd be out with fab friends - Dirk would be out too, if both of us liked what we see - both of us would potentially joined the couple.
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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That is a scenario I want for real.. |
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"I think we'd be suprised by how many single guys not in the lifestyle would refuse the invite because the husband is sat at the table. "
Ya.. I'd bet... but if they could shake their Catholic Irish mentality, he'd be there in a shot. |
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"I think we'd be suprised by how many single guys not in the lifestyle would refuse the invite because the husband is sat at the table.
Ya.. I'd bet... but if they could shake their Catholic Irish mentality, he'd be there in a shot. "
Or....they just aren't interested in being the 3rd person in a couples experience.
I'm amazed at the amount of people linking this to inhibitions or lack of confidence. |
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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On my own, I’d join
With my mates - decline |
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
On my own, I’d join
With my mates - decline"
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Ive been in this scenario once in Belfast in the Crown Bar with a visiting American couple.... Then back to their hotel for endless fun. The other with a couple whom i had suspicions with and who were in a hotel in London I had been drinking in. Both were amazinf nights and i loved it |
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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If lm on my own ,no and if lm with friends it's a no , who da fuck knows who they are or what they do , they could be a modern day Bonnie & Clyde for all you know..you could go to a room with them and never be seen again. |
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By *rish5Man
over a year ago
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We were out in a bar one night and we both agreed to pick a guy out and make his night,partner was very skimply dressed and chatted to a guy beside us ,heavy flirting with him,he kept asking me was it ok so I asked him to walk her to our car to get a jacket, while they were down the street at car she allowed him to finger her, they came back to the bar and he was blown away by our antics.... |
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"We were out in a bar one night and we both agreed to pick a guy out and make his night,partner was very skimply dressed and chatted to a guy beside us ,heavy flirting with him,he kept asking me was it ok so I asked him to walk her to our car to get a jacket, while they were down the street at car she allowed him to finger her, they came back to the bar and he was blown away by our antics...."
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By *he MickMan
over a year ago
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"This is 1 for all you guys lol
Curious to see what replies we get.
Your out in a bar on your own or with mates there is a lady ordering at the bar she strikes up a conversation or you start. Your both getting on well she says she is going back to her seat she invites you to come with her but you notice where her seat is there is a guy sitting she tells you it's her husband but it's fine.
Do you go and join them?
Decline her invite?
Make an Excuse?
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If I was on my own I'd sit with them .
If I was with friends I'd politely decline |
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This happened to me once in a class in Tokyo, but unfortunately she only speaks Japanese and I speak Italian or French????????. After several translations with google translate, they decided to go to their home where you can understand the continuation yourself. It was strange at first but the smile on a woman's face tells you that she is happy no matter what language she speaks. And the answer to the question, yes, I would accompany her to the table, curious as to how the situation might turn out |
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I would absolutely love this in a role reversal, I'm sitting at the table ,hubby is at the bar ,chatting with a girl with a naughty little look in her eye ,he invites her back to the table and we start building the sexual tension from there, |
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Yeah it happened to me in carlow a few years ago and i went back to the table and we had a great chat about life when the hubby asked me did i fancy his blonde dds wife and i said yes,he wasnt drinking and asked did i want to go for a drive,he drove around carlow while we had awesome fun in the back,3 happy people going back to the pub and acted as if nothing happened. |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I probe a little and suggest her husband doesn't want me interrupting their night out, see what she says and if it's a positive or seductive response, I'd definitely join them for a drink and a chat. |
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