It would be more about the opportunity to mingle and find someone we like at a party or event instead of meeting a guy, who may not show up or we may not get on with etc.
At least at a party or event, we can just go and chat to someone else and meet them alone at another time if everyone gets on well together. |
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"Do any men have any experience of meeting couples? Seems to be getting more difficult with most meets happening at parties and events. "
Let's of people couples ladies me included are only really meeting at socials and parties. Reason's include crazy hotel prices for meets the sheer amount of events on just about every weekend and the general flakiness of "some" (not all) guys here. I was just getting pissed off with meets flaking last minute with weak ass excuses because Granny died or they were off golfing next morning and didn't want to be too sleepy. I would encourage single guys to attend socials it's a great way to meet and talk to lots of different people and spark interest for future meets. |
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"Do any men have any experience of meeting couples? Seems to be getting more difficult with most meets happening at parties and events.
Let's of people couples ladies me included are only really meeting at socials and parties. Reason's include crazy hotel prices for meets the sheer amount of events on just about every weekend and the general flakiness of "some" (not all) guys here. I was just getting pissed off with meets flaking last minute with weak ass excuses because Granny died or they were off golfing next morning and didn't want to be too sleepy. I would encourage single guys to attend socials it's a great way to meet and talk to lots of different people and spark interest for future meets. "
Some of the many reasons above...I would also add that many couples like to have a social only, first, before organising pkay meets. This can be very time consuming especially with work, family etc. So social events are a great way to meet numerous people in one evening, while having a good time.
You're not relying on anybody to show up, or they you! |
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Twice we put the effort into finding the right guy for a mfm, chatted, vetted and all 3 of us clicked through messaging and even established boundaries.
Before we could even progress to a social both guys shit the bed and ruined it for themselves by wanting to play with me without himself present, after previously assuring us they were comfortable playing with a couple, being naked around another guy and sharing me at the same time as himself.
Made the decision after this that we would only invite in single guys we meet at party's and events. Saves going through all that shite again. Both guys did us a favour in the long run. |
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"Thank you for the insights and the honesty. Looks like events are the way to go. "
If you follow the verify rabbit hole you'll see some well known single guys start off at socials events etc meet couples or ladies at it and few weeks later you'll see play verifys. Lots of ladies and couples are busy juggling kids college family commitments or work so they don't necessarily have the time for coffee socials. So they get opportunity to meet and vet few guys at once. It goes both ways the guys also benefit from being able to chat to people without the barriers of age filters or other filters. Plus socials are actually so much fun you get to meet some really cool people and sometimes you get to have sex with them  |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
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"Thank you for the insights and the honesty. Looks like events are the way to go.
If you follow the verify rabbit hole you'll see some well known single guys start off at socials events etc meet couples or ladies at it and few weeks later you'll see play verifys. Lots of ladies and couples are busy juggling kids college family commitments or work so they don't necessarily have the time for coffee socials. So they get opportunity to meet and vet few guys at once. It goes both ways the guys also benefit from being able to chat to people without the barriers of age filters or other filters. Plus socials are actually so much fun you get to meet some really cool people and sometimes you get to have sex with them "
Well said Rosy , totally agree the socials are the way to go.
It also shows everyone you are not a timewaster and you will actually show up in the future
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Thank you for the insights and the honesty. Looks like events are the way to go.
If you follow the verify rabbit hole you'll see some well known single guys start off at socials events etc meet couples or ladies at it and few weeks later you'll see play verifys. Lots of ladies and couples are busy juggling kids college family commitments or work so they don't necessarily have the time for coffee socials. So they get opportunity to meet and vet few guys at once. It goes both ways the guys also benefit from being able to chat to people without the barriers of age filters or other filters. Plus socials are actually so much fun you get to meet some really cool people and sometimes you get to have sex with them "
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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There was a single lad at Dv8 a few weeks ago, start of the night. He looked all sheepish and quiet supping pints...
Then, we were leaving and i caught a glimpse of him and he seemed to have met a bunch of people and looked like he was having a ball.
Thats a common occurrence at events, you find your way as a single lad if you are sound then the world is your oyster..
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"Thank you for the insights and the honesty. Looks like events are the way to go.
If you follow the verify rabbit hole you'll see some well known single guys start off at socials events etc meet couples or ladies at it and few weeks later you'll see play verifys. Lots of ladies and couples are busy juggling kids college family commitments or work so they don't necessarily have the time for coffee socials. So they get opportunity to meet and vet few guys at once. It goes both ways the guys also benefit from being able to chat to people without the barriers of age filters or other filters. Plus socials are actually so much fun you get to meet some really cool people and sometimes you get to have sex with them
This "
Yep 
The patient guys go to the socials, chat to people, have the craic and usually have no expectations for the night. I find that very attractive.
It's the desperados with the "Meet now" statuses who turn me right off because we're just a conquest to them.
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"Thank you for the insights and the honesty. Looks like events are the way to go.
If you follow the verify rabbit hole you'll see some well known single guys start off at socials events etc meet couples or ladies at it and few weeks later you'll see play verifys. Lots of ladies and couples are busy juggling kids college family commitments or work so they don't necessarily have the time for coffee socials. So they get opportunity to meet and vet few guys at once. It goes both ways the guys also benefit from being able to chat to people without the barriers of age filters or other filters. Plus socials are actually so much fun you get to meet some really cool people and sometimes you get to have sex with them "
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"There was a single lad at Dv8 a few weeks ago, start of the night. He looked all sheepish and quiet supping pints...
Then, we were leaving and i caught a glimpse of him and he seemed to have met a bunch of people and looked like he was having a ball.
Thats a common occurrence at events, you find your way as a single lad if you are sound then the world is your oyster..
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Totally being sane sound and a bit of craic opens a lot of doors here! |
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"There was a single lad at Dv8 a few weeks ago, start of the night. He looked all sheepish and quiet supping pints...
Then, we were leaving and i caught a glimpse of him and he seemed to have met a bunch of people and looked like he was having a ball.
Thats a common occurrence at events, you find your way as a single lad if you are sound then the world is your oyster..
Totally being sane sound and a bit of craic opens a lot of doors here! "
Thank you Rosy. I'm totally sane just to confirm lol. |
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By *escplCouple
over a year ago
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To be honest it is not only a single guy issue. We experience the same with couples, honestly even worse than single guys. I can count on my one hand how many couple meets we had that ended up in the bedroom from here. Almost all fun we had as a couple been from an event, club or private party with a very few exceptions.
Succes rate is much better with single guys but that is probably because there are more of them here than couples.
From a single guy perspective, the other issue is that most couples are not looking for single guys but other couples only and/or single girls. And the competition is too high, as the gender ratio is unbalanced. So, need a lot of time, effort and luck to stand out in an inbox full of messages.
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All our male meets to date have been just on here not socials. We have met some fantastic guys we will or have seen again more to do with their personality & respect more than anything as thats Super Sexy !! & a few not worth a 2nd meet.Like that though we have attended our 1st two socials & felt it could be a better way to meet guys going forward as you tend to get a lot of mail & its timeconsuming constantly looking in a haystack full of mail & like that you engage with some for quite a while ,& its not a match !! But we do still check mail & those with photos we tend to respond quicker. So ye we still meet on here. |
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