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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
Not trying to convince you otherwise.
While both is oral sex they are two different acts that's why one is called bj and the other troath/head fucking. In one you're given pleasure and in the other you're actively taking pleasure. |
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"For me some one raming there cock down my throat does not give me any pleasure just makes my gag reflex go...  "
As a man I get zero pleasure from "throat fucking" and if she was to start that gagging, glugging noise from a porn movie, Id be out, putting on the television!
So, to answer the OP, correct they are not the same! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me some one raming there cock down my throat does not give me any pleasure just makes my gag reflex go...
As a man I get zero pleasure from "throat fucking" and if she was to start that gagging, glugging noise from a porn movie, Id be out, putting on the television!
So, to answer the OP, correct they are not the same!"
Id be lying if I said I didn't enjoy the odd throat fucking session personally id much rather the lady bent over exploring the other love entrances but it can be pleasurable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For those who enjoy this , I think it’s very niche .gents please never ‘try’ this on anyone without consent ,I once met a guy who did this to me without warning and to completion , when I protested he laughed , so I arranged for a couple of friends to return the favour to him , the same way . He wasn’t laughing then ! |
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"For those who enjoy this , I think it’s very niche .gents please never ‘try’ this on anyone without consent ,I once met a guy who did this to me without warning and to completion , when I protested he laughed , so I arranged for a couple of friends to return the favour to him , the same way . He wasn’t laughing then ! "
I am genuinely sorry that shit happened to you... but I like your style..& you have good friends  |
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The difference I think is in who is the passive partner and who is performing the act.
In a blowjob the person with the penis is passive, and the one giving pleasure is performing the act. The throat can sometimes be involved, but it needs to be at the discretion and permission of the person performing NOT the passive party.
In throat fucking the person with the penis is performing the act, and the other is passive and is getting fucked.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those who enjoy this , I think it’s very niche .gents please never ‘try’ this on anyone without consent ,I once met a guy who did this to me without warning and to completion , when I protested he laughed , so I arranged for a couple of friends to return the favour to him , the same way . He wasn’t laughing then ! "
In my opinion you should have bit it off |
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"For those who enjoy this , I think it’s very niche .gents please never ‘try’ this on anyone without consent ,I once met a guy who did this to me without warning and to completion , when I protested he laughed , so I arranged for a couple of friends to return the favour to him , the same way . He wasn’t laughing then ! "
When the abused becomes the abuser   . You couldn't stoop much lower. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Dick head move from him… still wondering how non consensual can be attractive to someone
Well CNC is a thing most involved enjoy"
I wouldn't say it's something most enjoy it's a select kink. And someone deciding to act on a kink like that without chatting about it first it is often not enjoyable for the person who had no choice, and neither is it CNC.Its just NC. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dick head move from him… still wondering how non consensual can be attractive to someone
Well CNC is a thing most involved enjoy
I wouldn't say it's something most enjoy it's a select kink. And someone deciding to act on a kink like that without chatting about it first it is often not enjoyable for the person who had no choice, and neither is it CNC.Its just NC."
Well nc is assault lets not sugar coat it. Any kink fetish needs trust and CONSENT |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can call that shot yeah, I didn’t feel like going on one tonight.
I gave my time to this.
This is time consuming.
I don’t think I have the time to commit to helping the community.
So.. it will end I think.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Dick head move from him… still wondering how non consensual can be attractive to someone
Well CNC is a thing most involved enjoy
I wouldn't say it's something most enjoy it's a select kink. And someone deciding to act on a kink like that without chatting about it first it is often not enjoyable for the person who had no choice, and neither is it CNC.Its just NC.
Well nc is assault lets not sugar coat it. Any kink fetish needs trust and CONSENT"
Yes it is.But CNC was not what the first comment on this post was referring to. But yes I agree with you now and there is a massive difference and sadly one that not everyone understands. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well this is the perfect place to get the Data.
I can defo say it never entered my head, nor have I had that experience , plenty of other normal stuff to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For those who enjoy this , I think it’s very niche .gents please never ‘try’ this on anyone without consent ,I once met a guy who did this to me without warning and to completion , when I protested he laughed , so I arranged for a couple of friends to return the favour to him , the same way . He wasn’t laughing then !
When the abused becomes the abuser . You couldn't stoop much lower."
Some people are just absolute arseholes who need to be taught a lesson on how to treat others . I have no regrets about doling out my revenge in this instance . Had this ‘gentleman ‘ been in any way decent about it this would not have happened .I can guarantee you he won’t do this to another woman again , and THAT is the important thing .
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"How did this go from blowjob throat fucking to sexual assault jesus "
It's healthy to talk about this stuff. Too many guys have seen something like throat fucking in porn and decided to give it a lash. They don't show the discussion that happens before the shoot. This is mainly part of the BDSM world where there is a lot of focus put on limits and prepreparing in advance, followed by aftercare. Its all too easy for a guy to reenact what he thought he saw, and while in his own head he is a pornstar, in fact its straight up sexual abuse.
The best way to counter stuff like this is to talk about it and educate our young men on consent and the safe way to do stuff like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How did this go from blowjob throat fucking to sexual assault jesus
It's healthy to talk about this stuff. Too many guys have seen something like throat fucking in porn and decided to give it a lash. They don't show the discussion that happens before the shoot. This is mainly part of the BDSM world where there is a lot of focus put on limits and prepreparing in advance, followed by aftercare. Its all too easy for a guy to reenact what he thought he saw, and while in his own head he is a pornstar, in fact its straight up sexual abuse.
The best way to counter stuff like this is to talk about it and educate our young men on consent and the safe way to do stuff like this."
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"How did this go from blowjob throat fucking to sexual assault jesus "
Pc gone ta fuck I'd say ... if you go from bj to throat fuck without a discussion or agreement... your well aware your a dickhead ... simples |
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