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By *omadX OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
Anyone any tips on first messages?
Getting a response can be a struggle at the best of times 
For the record, my opening messages aren’t unsolicited dick pics or boring one liners like “Hey how are you?”  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no magic bullet, men hugely outnumber women and couples here, so are very likely to be ignored unless they stand out for some reason. Interact on the forums, get to socials - some are open to unverified. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing works for everyone and nothing will guarantee a response. People could delete or ignore a message because they got too much or aren't in the mood.
Just put the effort into the message, hit send and forget about it. Any response will be nice then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of ladies and couples will check out your profile and pictures first then read the message. If they like it might motivate them to reply. If they don't they'll be marking them unread |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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I usually go with "hey im in your area fancy a ride" works all the time........On a serious note i usually look at their profile and glance through there pics, ill pick one or two bits from there and message something in relation to that or if it's here on the forum ill go with a comment they might have said...  |
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"I usually go with "hey im in your area fancy a ride" works all the time........On a serious note i usually look at their profile and glance through there pics, ill pick one or two bits from there and message something in relation to that or if it's here on the forum ill go with a comment they might have said... "
One or two bits?
Definitely two bits. It wouldn't be fair otherwise!  |
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I don't send first messages but the best ones I receive are those that don't spend time on long introductions or smoke blowing.
They just jump in almost mid conversation and it feels more natural and less forced. |
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I reckon if you start the message with
"I've read your profile thoroughly and I think you sound amazing and I'd really like to get to know you better"
"Hope to hear from you soon"
And it would depend what they are looking for aswell so yeh read the profile and see that your what they are looking for before messaging them obviously ??
And don't be offended if they don't reply sometimes they are indated with messages..you really need to stand out xx |
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"I reckon if you start the message with
"I've read your profile thoroughly and I think you sound amazing and I'd really like to get to know you better"
"Hope to hear from you soon"
And it would depend what they are looking for aswell so yeh read the profile and see that your what they are looking for before messaging them obviously ??
And don't be offended if they don't reply sometimes they are indated with messages..you really need to stand out xx "
Mother of God, sure it would take ages to write all that. My erection won't last that long.  |
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"I reckon if you start the message with
"I've read your profile thoroughly and I think you sound amazing and I'd really like to get to know you better"
"Hope to hear from you soon"
And it would depend what they are looking for aswell so yeh read the profile and see that your what they are looking for before messaging them obviously ??
And don't be offended if they don't reply sometimes they are indated with messages..you really need to stand out xx
Mother of God, sure it would take ages to write all that. My erection won't last that long. "
Type with your fingers then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone any tips on first messages?
Getting a response can be a struggle at the best of times
For the record, my opening messages aren’t unsolicited dick pics or boring one liners like “Hey how are you?” "
As the song says .. Welcome to the Jungle. ..the most important thing is don't worry or care or let it get to you if you don't get a reply, not getting a reply is all part and parcel of this place . |
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"I reckon if you start the message with
"I've read your profile thoroughly and I think you sound amazing and I'd really like to get to know you better"
"Hope to hear from you soon"
And it would depend what they are looking for aswell so yeh read the profile and see that your what they are looking for before messaging them obviously ??
And don't be offended if they don't reply sometimes they are indated with messages..you really need to stand out xx
Mother of God, sure it would take ages to write all that. My erection won't last that long. "
What 4 lines? Jeez why you need an erection to type it? Means your just thinking with it ...rather than your brain then lol .... |
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"I reckon if you start the message with
"I've read your profile thoroughly and I think you sound amazing and I'd really like to get to know you better"
"Hope to hear from you soon"
And it would depend what they are looking for aswell so yeh read the profile and see that your what they are looking for before messaging them obviously ??
And don't be offended if they don't reply sometimes they are indated with messages..you really need to stand out xx
Mother of God, sure it would take ages to write all that. My erection won't last that long.
What 4 lines? Jeez why you need an erection to type it? Means your just thinking with it ...rather than your brain then lol ...."
I mean, yeah, obviously... |
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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago
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"Awh I’m so hit and miss on this site that I don’t think I could give anybody any reliable advice haha "
Your not expecting a response from ladies do you know how many messages they are getting from us lol |
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