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"just wondering do all people come on here just for sex or do some of you hope to find someone more long term or a companion. "
Some are looking for more than sex, some are looking for friendship, or more of a relationship.
It's probably a good idea to put on your profile what you're looking for so there is no confusion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just wondering do all people come on here just for sex or do some of you hope to find someone more long term or a companion.
Some are looking for more than sex, some are looking for friendship, or more of a relationship.
It's probably a good idea to put on your profile what you're looking for so there is no confusion "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined online sites to shake off a bad marriage and ended up here as other sites weren't suited to my likes and needs.
There's no site for what I'm looking for so this seemed a good compromise.
But whilst I'm kinky, sex-positive and in to a lot of things I'm not a swinger or in to quick and easy or promiscuity or the private party scene, so I'm no longer meeting with the expectation of finding anyone that suits my long-term needs.
I'm looking a non-traditional 1-1 exclusive commitment. It seems there's just too much easy D & V around these days (on and off fab) to find a keeper.
Not one to say 'never' usually but that's where I'm at for now.
I'll stay for a bit more for the social side but not sure how long tbh. The gloss is well faded. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I joined here go get my mojo back, a friend told me about the site I didn't want to join a dating site so I joined here as I felt it was more in line with what I wanted.So I guess yes it was about sex at the start. But I'm a fussy sod so I don't do just random hook ups and I constant sex talk a turn off. I met some lovely people and some not so lovely people. I had fbs over the years and now I have a fwb and that friendship is important to me.
At the moment I pop in and out and use the forums only. I go to the odd mng but life is too hectic at the moment outside of fab for anything else.Plus I don't think I'm a true swinger I just go my own journey when the mood takes me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am not a Swinger in its true sense, not will ever be , am just looking for someone on the same wavelength as me regards , Music , movies & sex ..the rest will follow along , don't want to go on dating sites as l think they just so fake , l know not everyone thinks that way but each to their own, I'll just keep my Indiana Jones hat on and keep looking for that Holy Grail, maybe lm just being too defensive but once bitten twice shy...maybe ...maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with bo and spanks, joined to get my confidence back, have taken a few knocks on here but I have also enjoyed some fun. Definitely don't consider myself a swinger but I love the social side and have made some great friends. Have on my profile what I'm looking for but it's amazing how many people don't read it.
Would love to find a fwb |
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Im here to meet interesting people, who like sex. Its the countercultural approach to relationships, monogamy, that draws me in. That doesnt mean i want to have sex with them. Chat, coffee, lunch, and I'll give you a massage too. Ive met lots of great people here. I used to think I'll find a fwb, but I've let that go. . |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete.."
What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete..
What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel "
Well then it's what it says on the the tin.. |
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"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete.."
How about a snatch box?
(Asking for a ‘friend’)   |
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Came for the sex, stayed for the companionship. I've found people here I can call friends, some of course I enjoy naked pleasures with, some I don't.
People are here to fulfil whatever needs they cant get sorted elsewhere but it's like a rabbit hole, it keeps drawing you in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We came here together initially to explore a few things that involve more than two people.
It's a pretty shallow world in general so haven't cared to get into it beyond that. |
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By *nribanMan
over a year ago
Sligo |
Drawn into here by the prospect of lots and lots of sex!!
Reality soon dawns...in the end, prefer to meet people and get to know. Try form some friendships.
I like that there is an openness about what people like and are into.
Regular dating sites can be a chore.
I got into some fun kinky chat with a woman before after a long dialogue.
It was fun, but when I tried to bring it up again she just shunned me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex (greedy)
Got it
Have had some fuck buddies and some onesies but I don’t tend to fall out with people so some nods go back many years "
Fair play.
I hate bad feeling, it's just not in my nature, just can't settle with things unresolved. So even if it's hard I'll push past hurt or anger or whatever to get to a better place.
And I'd not want to let bad or sad endings ruin happy memories.
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"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete..
What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel
Well then it's what it says on the the tin.."
what has a woman and a Kentucky fried chicken snack box got in common....well after the tender thigh and the juicy breast there is only the greasy box left to put your bone in..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We already had a fantastic sex life and relationship and after nearly 16 years together we both realised we wanted to explore sex with others and fulfil our fantasies as a couple and here we are.
The added bonus of the social side of the lifestyle and befriending couples similar to ourselves has been a very welcome suprise and an important part of what has kept us here. 2.5 years later and we're still here. |
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