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Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene
Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.
Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??
Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??
I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to. |
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"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene
Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.
Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??
Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??
I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to."
Will this be your first 'steady relationship'? |
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"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene
Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.
Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??
Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??
I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to.
Will this be your first 'steady relationship'? [/quote
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No ..was in one for more than twenty years. But my next one if it ever happens will be my first since i joined here.[/quote
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I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it. |
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"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene
Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.
Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??
Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??
I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to.
Will this be your first 'steady relationship'? [/quote
No ..was in one for more than twenty years. But my next one if it ever happens will be my first since i joined here.[/quote
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Is your mom pushing you into this ? my advice would be to get as much ass as you can in the next 20 years and then think about settling down  |
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"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it."
Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread. |
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"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it.
Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread."
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"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it.
Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread."
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"Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat.  we prob went to the same school! 
There was nobody at my school like u foxy,,oh shit im being nice,,,  ha ha mind yourself now or you will ruin your reputation!! "
dont worry about that,,,theres bound to be some muck savage on here in a min ill be able top have a go at  |
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Young men in there 20s get a hard time people saying there to young and imature. Doesn't that 46 year old man prove how a older man in his late 40s act a dick and imature more than a younger fella. Grow up and act your age fs. I got a 3 year old that acts more mature than you!!!!! |
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"Young men in there 20s get a hard time people saying there to young and imature. Doesn't that 46 year old man prove how a older man in his late 40s act a dick and imature more than a younger fella. Grow up and act your age fs. I got a 3 year old that acts more mature than you!!!!! "
woohoo mizz...... |
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I think people should just leave their jealousy at home, this site is not the place for it and if you can't play nice then you shouldn't be playing at all, cop the hell on and grow up. |
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"I think people should just leave their jealousy at home, this site is not the place for it and if you can't play nice then you shouldn't be playing at all, cop the hell on and grow up. "
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"wtf is a mucksavage??"
A mucksavage is what some dubliners called people who live outside dublin. Which is funny because he's in galway so could be referred to as one.
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I'd drop the swinging all together, switch to an inactive profile saying that you are no longer meeting but can stay on to chat and keep contact with friends on here.
I also don't think you have to announce it up front, if she asks about your sexual history then you can give as much detail as you see fit. |
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Either way Bad boy  ,
I think it's best to maybe even drop hints about your interests to her.
You might get some feedback that way without being too upfront (some people might say, hurtful)
Having said that, I hope it works out the way YOU want it mate!
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Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,,  |
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"Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,, "
stop your talkin i thought it was buckfast these days lol |
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"Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,,
stop your talkin i thought it was buckfast these days lol "
No I think the special brew works out less ! |
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"Nope, no problem BUDDY!
But you're making yourself look silly and desperate!!
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Llf you would certainly know all about that. It wasn't directed to you so keep you pecker out of what don't concern ya
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here"
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what |
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what "
"boys" is def the right word
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what
"boys" is def the right word
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wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next |
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I don't have an ego prob Hun, read it what was said. Nothing evolved foey but he just couldn't help himself like normal and I was just defending myself. Sorry if its pissed anyone else off, I never intended on annoying anyone |
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The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual. |
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"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual."
in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do |
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"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual.
in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do "
It's not just this thread though. However I understand it is a public forum and people can say whatever they like, I'm just giving my opinion , it does get tedious reading the same old rubbish. |
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"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual.
in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do
It's not just this thread though. However I understand it is a public forum and people can say whatever they like, I'm just giving my opinion , it does get tedious reading the same old rubbish."
yes even the women get sick of the bitching that goes on lol now theres a first  |
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what
"boys" is def the right word
wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next "
RIGHT!!
That's it!!............
It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!
Waaaaahh!!
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what
"boys" is def the right word
wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next
RIGHT!!
That's it!!............
It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!
Waaaaahh!!
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yeah thats right go play up your own end lol |
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what
"boys" is def the right word
wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next
RIGHT!!
That's it!!............
It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!
Waaaaahh!!
yeah thats right go play up your own end lol "
Yep!
This is the FUN end!!
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"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here
yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what
"boys" is def the right word
wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next
RIGHT!!
That's it!!............
It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!
Waaaaahh!!
yeah thats right go play up your own end lol
Yep!
This is the FUN end!!
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i cant think of better places lol |
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