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Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mel Gibson made a documentary on this, you might enjoy it. The answer is simple, every woman that ever lived has their individual needs and wants. You grouped thousands of individuals into a category and assumed they all want the same thing.
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Tbh I'm not overly concerned with what women want on here.
I prefer to concentrate on what I want and then find people who are interested in that by chatting to them. |
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Here goes and then ill run for the bomb shelter lol .Most wemon don't actually know what they want them selves so how is a man supposed to even even try and pretend he knows most (a very important word)not all when they say something they mean something completely different
Mens brains on the other hand are wired completely different when we say it we mean it
It's like when I say I'll hang that picture!you Don't have to keep reminding me every six months
So we are far from perfect either |
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"Tbh I'm not overly concerned with what women want on here.
I prefer to concentrate on what I want and then find people who are interested in that by chatting to them."
You're making wayyyyyy too much sense there  |
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"Tbh I'm not overly concerned with what women want on here.
I prefer to concentrate on what I want and then find people who are interested in that by chatting to them.
You're making wayyyyyy too much sense there "
Dammit I knew I should have left it at the first line |
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"I know this is *really* novel and unusual suggestion but you could try asking the individual. I know, I know...crazy idea!"
Surely you know that some people prefer to chat to women as a (w)hole?
It's a boss level challenge |
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"Here goes and then ill run for the bomb shelter lol .Most wemon don't actually know what they want them selves so how is a man supposed to even even try and pretend he knows most (a very important word)not all when they say something they mean something completely different
Mens brains on the other hand are wired completely different when we say it we mean it
It's like when I say I'll hang that picture!you Don't have to keep reminding me every six months
So we are far from perfect either "
Ha
This actually made me laugh. Such a kidder. Good one 
I don't think people are so clueless as all that.
I DO think men and women don't communicate the same way or as freely as might be needed, so often they (m or f) can't effectively express or understand the needs of the other the first time around.
It pays to keep trying and be both patient and respectful until the lightbulb goes off  |
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"Here goes and then ill run for the bomb shelter lol .Most wemon don't actually know what they want them selves so how is a man supposed to even even try and pretend he knows most (a very important word)not all when they say something they mean something completely different
Mens brains on the other hand are wired completely different when we say it we mean it
It's like when I say I'll hang that picture!you Don't have to keep reminding me every six months
So we are far from perfect either
Ha
This actually made me laugh. Such a kidder. Good one
I don't think people are so clueless as all that.
I DO think men and women don't communicate the same way or as freely as might be needed, so often they (m or f) can't effectively express or understand the needs of the other the first time around.
It pays to keep trying and be both patient and respectful until the lightbulb goes off "
Oh God loves a trier all right
And yes you're probably right it's far more fun with the light off  |
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"When you have an idea or when you both realise the same thing....does the lightbulb not go on  "
It has to go off in your head first to come on if you know what I mean
Ah it's to early on a Monday to over think things |
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Who cares what they want as some one said its what any individual wants and if its a match and it works boom win win
....for an open-minded site there seems to be a lot of black and white thinking and practice here with some people trying to impose silly rules and practices....its laughable the best of times
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"Who cares what they want as some one said its what any individual wants and if its a match and it works boom win win
....for an open-minded site there seems to be a lot of black and white thinking and practice here with some people trying to impose silly rules and practices....its laughable the best of times
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I'm looking for a genuine guy no agenda... |
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"Who cares what they want as some one said its what any individual wants and if its a match and it works boom win win
....for an open-minded site there seems to be a lot of black and white thinking and practice here with some people trying to impose silly rules and practices....its laughable the best of times
I'm looking for a genuine guy no agenda..."
I’m genuine and professional and I’m a nice guy, I swear |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ?"
like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app  |
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The book hasn't been finished yet on what Women want , tbh everyone is different and want different things that's why the book hasn't ...or ever will be finished .. look around and every one wants different things ... including men..that's why sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. |
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By *ostmaryWoman
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app "
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ?"
Your thread title asks what women want. Your post then complains about (sorry, is "amused" by) women explaining in detail what they want.
What is it that you want? |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ?
Your thread title asks what women want. Your post then complains about (sorry, is "amused" by) women explaining in detail what they want.
What is it that you want? "
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ?
Your thread title asks what women want. Your post then complains about (sorry, is "amused" by) women explaining in detail what they want.
What is it that you want? "
My post is giving an example of what I’ve come across here. What I want is irrelevant. |
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"Dick pics....they all want them. Fire away a few mails of your willy and you will be knee deep in masses of women wanting your golden ticket."
I believe the correct term is "knee deep in fanny" is it not |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
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touched a nerve did I lol |
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"Dick pics....they all want them. Fire away a few mails of your willy and you will be knee deep in masses of women wanting your golden ticket.
I believe the correct term is "knee deep in fanny" is it not "
Yeah that will do too...either way hes gonna be knee deep once the dick pics start dropping. |
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By *ostmaryWoman
over a year ago
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
touched a nerve did I lol "
Not remotely, although I’m impressed you managed to read down the thread considering your previous comment eludes to finding it a real chore to even read a profile. I’ll take that as you making progress  |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
touched a nerve did I lol
Not remotely, although I’m impressed you managed to read down the thread considering your previous comment eludes to finding it a real chore to even read a profile. I’ll take that as you making progress "
sounds your one profiles that read like a small novel |
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By *ostmaryWoman
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
touched a nerve did I lol
Not remotely, although I’m impressed you managed to read down the thread considering your previous comment eludes to finding it a real chore to even read a profile. I’ll take that as you making progress sounds your one profiles that read like a small novel "
Awk now, don’t you be acting like you haven’t been on having a nosey and pulling the lad off yourself because you’ve finally had an interaction with a woman on here
I’m jest, I jest . Have a nice day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a mystery to me why some take issue with people knowing what they want - or, maybe more specifically, don't want - and expressing it in their profile  |
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By *ostmaryWoman
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"It's a mystery to me why some take issue with people knowing what they want - or, maybe more specifically, don't want - and expressing it in their profile "
For sure. A lot of men want a direct woman, until they get a direct woman. However not to tar with the same brush there’s some wonderfully intelligent and respectful chaps on here that genuinely want to take the time to get to know what exactly we want |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
touched a nerve did I lol
Not remotely, although I’m impressed you managed to read down the thread considering your previous comment eludes to finding it a real chore to even read a profile. I’ll take that as you making progress sounds your one profiles that read like a small novel
Awk now, don’t you be acting like you haven’t been on having a nosey and pulling the lad off yourself because you’ve finally had an interaction with a woman on here
I’m jest, I jest . Have a nice day "
lol your feisty one now sound like will from inberweeners lol |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ? like reading a book reading some female profiles on here lol reminds me of dating app
And why does it remind you of a dating app?
Because a woman doesn’t want to jump straight into bed with someone who potentially can’t find the clit and whose idea of foreplay is scratching the left labia…
touched a nerve did I lol
Not remotely, although I’m impressed you managed to read down the thread considering your previous comment eludes to finding it a real chore to even read a profile. I’ll take that as you making progress sounds your one profiles that read like a small novel
Awk now, don’t you be acting like you haven’t been on having a nosey and pulling the lad off yourself because you’ve finally had an interaction with a woman on here
I’m jest, I jest . Have a nice day "
I've had a nose but not pulled lad off myself to your pics yet lol |
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What a woman wants... Today.. Tomorrow.. Next week, can be very different.
Judging by some of the comments above.. Some like to have the last word,
.. Or, must win an argument.
In my experience, its good to be patient and listen for clues, ask her to tell you what her desires are,.... And tomorrow, do it again, as her answers might be different.
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I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina.... |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"How about a warm bed,a hot massage and a cold drink
I've my massage table set up at Junction 14 special offer a happy finish with your Costa coffee "
I can be there in 13 minutes.....hopefully speed impresses you |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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There are several billion females on this planet who could be categorised by:
Age
Race
Culture
Religion, or none
Education
Intelligence
Health status
Occupation
Income
Single, or otherwise
And many other criteria
The OP's question is nebulous and pointless. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"There are several billion females on this planet who could be categorised by:
Age
Race
Culture
Religion, or none
Education
Intelligence
Health status
Occupation
Income
Single, or otherwise
And many other criteria
The OP's question is nebulous and pointless."
Fun sponge today Jubal.....half the forums are pointless and Vague .....yes I looked up Nebulous cause I thought it was a type of cloud |
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"There are several billion females on this planet who could be categorised by:
Age
Race
Culture
Religion, or none
Education
Intelligence
Health status
Occupation
Income
Single, or otherwise
And many other criteria
The OP's question is nebulous and pointless."
I think he's being whimsical and poetic, as there are movies and books devoted to the subject, and the question often confounds men. There is no answer, as you say. But it makes for an easy interesting thread.
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Possibly I should have changed the title a bit...
What does a woman want....
What does a women want on Fab....
Personally I think in the real world a woman wants security, whether it’s being provided in part by their own efforts of from a partner
On Fab... I could be put on a limb here, but I think they want ‘a bad boy’ ...(or girl) primarily ‘cos they can easily hand them back... |
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"Possibly I should have changed the title a bit...
What does a woman want....
What does a women want on Fab....
Personally I think in the real world a woman wants security, whether it’s being provided in part by their own efforts of from a partner
On Fab... I could be put on a limb here, but I think they want ‘a bad boy’ ...(or girl) primarily ‘cos they can easily hand them back..."
Speaking personally? .....wrong on all counts |
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"Possibly I should have changed the title a bit...
What does a woman want....
What does a women want on Fab....
Personally I think in the real world a woman wants security, whether it’s being provided in part by their own efforts of from a partner
On Fab... I could be put on a limb here, but I think they want ‘a bad boy’ ...(or girl) primarily ‘cos they can easily hand them back..."
Personally, not me.
What even defines a bad boy?
Why would what women want on Fab be any less diverse than what they want outside of Fab?
Or is this another "I'm a nice guy and nobody wants to fuck me" thread in disguise |
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"Here goes and then ill run for the bomb shelter lol .Most wemon don't actually know what they want them selves so how is a man supposed to even even try and pretend he knows most (a very important word)not all when they say something they mean something completely different
Mens brains on the other hand are wired completely different when we say it we mean it
It's like when I say I'll hang that picture!you Don't have to keep reminding me every six months
So we are far from perfect either "
I'm thinking it's a man who can mind read. Know every situation and will not voice an opinion.
The reality, I gave up trying to figure that out a long time ago.
Sometimes, I wonder if I would of been better off not trying |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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The 'bad boy' theory has been around for a long time; from my experiences it applies to a very small minority of women, whom I would never be bothering with!
Opposites may attract, but similarities sustain.
Commonality of interests, values and temperament is the best formula for a successful liaison. |
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How long is a piece of string?
How do quantify a lifetime of unique experiences and summate that into a universal desire?
To be respected, to be desired, to feel listened to, I think we all have these in all aspects of our lives.
A quote I heard once was...
"Only men need to be loved, women just need to feel wanted"
Wonder if that strikes a chord with anyone, positively or negatively |
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On Fab... I could be put on a limb here, but I think they want ‘a bad boy’ ...(or girl) primarily ‘cos they can easily hand them back...
Personally, not me.
What even defines a bad boy?
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My understanding is the "bad boy" myth comes from old movies where the "nice" protagonist ends up "stealing" the villain's girlfriend. This also feeds into the idea that women want men who'll treat them badly and need to be rescued from themselves.
The trope seeded the notion in some young men's minds that if the woman you're interested in is with another man then he must be a bad person. His position as her partner makes him an obstacle to your "winning" her.
It's all wrapped up in what people now call Main Character Syndrome. |
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"Simple but complex question at the same time. I’ve been on here on and off for a few years, I’ve chatted a lot and met the odd person, but am still amused by some profiles with their list of requirements, from as simple a thing as a well trimmed beard to something like income status.
But I suppose the most common is the requirement for a man to supply a face photo first and foremost.
Any takers ?"
Very little... they gots it all |
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha. "
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly" |
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina...."
No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women. |
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly" "
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch |
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women. "
I'd say finding someone attractive and pretty easy to get along with isn't a huge amount to ask for before allowing a peen into a vagina. The problem arises when men see this as a ridiculous notion |
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I'd say finding someone attractive and pretty easy to get along with isn't a huge amount to ask for before allowing a peen into a vagina. The problem arises when men see this as a ridiculous notion"
Imagine the notions  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women. "
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. |
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And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch"
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And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?! "
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?!
Let me have a rummage and check"
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. "
safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is. |
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?!
Let me have a rummage and check"
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?!
Let me have a rummage and check
I'll help hold on "
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?!
Let me have a rummage and check
It's taking you a while "
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is. "
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings. |
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I'll never understand this choice argument. 1000 men, 100 men, 10 men or one. If we don't get on and I don't find him attractive he won't be putting his dick in me. I'm not going to have sex with someone just because I have no other choice |
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"I'll never understand this choice argument. 1000 men, 100 men, 10 men or one. If we don't get on and I don't find him attractive he won't be putting his dick in me. I'm not going to have sex with someone just because I have no other choice"
I'm with you on this, I haven't had sex since October and honestly no interest unless it's someone I'm attracted to and enjoy their company. Chatted to a guy lately and when u said I'd meet him for coffee he said no he doesn't like meeting for coffee than asked was I looking for a relationship as he considered going for a coffee like going on a date.
No I'm not looking for a relationship but if I'm going to have sex with a guy I want to know I'm attracted to him, want to know in between the hot sex we can have a laugh |
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings."
so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive. |
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"I'll never understand this choice argument. 1000 men, 100 men, 10 men or one. If we don't get on and I don't find him attractive he won't be putting his dick in me. I'm not going to have sex with someone just because I have no other choice"
that’s not the point. The point is you have the numbers there, so the choice is far greater hence a much bigger chance leading to what you want.
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive. "
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive.
Personally I don't find it easy on here if anything it's a minefield "
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive. "
See that's the issue I have with your argument. You make it sounds as though everything is someone's fault. I didn't say anyone is to blame. I said if a woman has choices and I'm not one of those I don't whinge about it. I move on and forget about it and don't consider it wasted time.
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive.
Personally I don't find it easy on here if anything it's a minefield how many mails on average would you get a day? "
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive.
Personally I don't find it easy on here if anything it's a minefield how many mails on average would you get a day?
Today I've had 4 and 2 were to ask about the social I'm hosting"
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"I think half the problem is that, as much as the question is a simple one, it's not a simple answer.
No big surprise there seeing as we're not rolled out of a factory line like rubber dolls. And we 'modern women' tend to have the cheek to say what we want or (more's the problem here) what we don't want.
Which falls like vinegar in the eye of a guy who wants easy fanny.
It's all too much like hard work for the selection of fabbers who come on a 'sex site' with their cock out ready to go and fail to fall straight in to a ready & willing vagina....No site where the main objective is fun , should be difficult. One of the huge differentiating factors between both sexes is there mentality to no strings. Women mostly can’t do pure casual, they also can’t meet men quickly, they need a lot more before she sees the bedsheets. On online sites the choice for women is humongous. Numbers totally lopsided. This again shows women’s mentality to ‘fun’ in comparison to men. Will most men get up on a cracked plate to get their dicks wet? Absolutely not but they don’t need the same list of requirements as women.
I don't meet men quickly you're right because the one guy I did meet quickly off here didn't understand the word no and I literally had to fight him to get him off me in a public car park when we went back to our cars after a social meet. So ye that is why I decided to chat and get to know someone better before I meet them. I couldn't give a fuck if it doesn't suit anyone that I chat to when I am meeting anyone new. It's nothing to do with not being able to do causal sex it is all about my safety and since I decided that I've never had anything like that experience again. safety is huge for women but even at that , I’d put a wager on it most men on here would meet quicker then women. Building up a rapport through a screen is not the easiest of things especially when one of the sexes has an abundance of choice. Like just for eg, I could strike up a convo with a woman here tonight and be willing to take it to step 2, face exchange or video chat in 2 days at most. I’d bet money, most women won’t move as quickly. For me, if you’re endlessly chatting through a screen and not moving forward , things get boring very very quickly. I understand there is a lot of stumbling blocks though, work, kids, distance etc. the hardest thing for a man on here above anything else is to get a convo moving. Plenty of dickplant messages are sent to women I know but the bottom line that makes the site far more accessible for women is choice. that’s not a complaint on men’s behalf, it’s just how the site is.
You're using the same analogy a lot of men use when they are struggling on here about women having it easier.
I'll throw you a curve ball here.
It has much more to do with the individual than the collective.
Some women have choice just as some men have choice.
I've no intention of having sex with anyone just for the sake of it and I'm more than happy to be a fussy cunt when it comes to sticking my dick in someone.
There are lots of men on here just like me so this whole argument about men not having options, struggling to start conversations or having to take any opportunity that arises is down to the individual man just as each individual woman may or may not have choices.
I've met 100 fabbers in 6 years here, I've been verified by 60+ of those and I've had sex with 7 of them.
I could easily have had sex with most of those who verified me because they asked and I said no so it's not all in my imagination.
I'm far from unique on here and I'm no better than anyone else. I just spend less time making excuses for my own failings.so you think every time a man sends an opening mail to try strike up a convo with any woman and doesn’t get a reply, it’s his fault all the time? it’s not perception on women having it easier, it’s plain obvious they do even whittling out clowns who send messages like “want to suck my dick now, I’m in your area”. It’s the nature of online sites, a numbers thing gives you a huge head start initially. Location is also massive.
Personally I don't find it easy on here if anything it's a minefield how many mails on average would you get a day?
Today I've had 4 and 2 were to ask about the social I'm hostingwould you have a lot of filters in place?"
Had them rem9ved for a while abd still don't get many messages, I never have |
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I don't understand the whole women won't meet men quickly theory
There's lots of women on here who'll have sex without the coffee meet first but know after a day or 2 chatting that they'll go for it...
There's also women and men that will have sex after saying hello
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The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselves |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselves"
deffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued. |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued. "
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" "
id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere. |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere. "
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere.
By who thought"
other men predominantly on the site. Fussiness comes into play also. I’d class myself as fussy, especially in the looks department. I need physical attraction. |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere.
By who though"
De men obvs
I wonder,,
Why do some struggle?
It can't be everyone elses problem, like I know of guys cast from marble some of which do some don't, others of the dad bod variety, the same.
You just have to shine in your own way, and by the law of averages you wiLl eventually get a nod, after which its up to you. |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere.
By who thoughtother men predominantly on the site. Fussiness comes into play also. I’d class myself as fussy, especially in the looks department. I need physical attraction. "
Nothing wrong with been fussy or looking for what you want,not what other people should think you want |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere.
By who thoughtother men predominantly on the site. Fussiness comes into play also. I’d class myself as fussy, especially in the looks department. I need physical attraction.
Nothing wrong with been fussy or looking for what you want,not what other people should think you want"
Exactamundo |
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"The thing with this is its not an either or scenario.
Of course women have more choice by sheer numbers.
But there are alot of lads on here that will use that as an excuse as to why they can't get anywhere on the site instead of really looking at themselvesdeffo but the flip side also applies. There are men who try very hard with opening mails, profile etc and struggle to get anywhere. It’s a two way street. It’s to apparent to say it’s all men’s wrongdoing when no replies are issued.
Who said it was "all men's wrongdoing" id say it’s many a perception when men are getting nowhere.
By who thoughtother men predominantly on the site. Fussiness comes into play also. I’d class myself as fussy, especially in the looks department. I need physical attraction.
Nothing wrong with been fussy or looking for what you want,not what other people should think you want"
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"A harem of men who each have different skills "
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That actually works perfectly for all involved. Trust me, I am living it and it is the most peaceful and straightforward approach to personal life I've ever experienced. |
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"They want the man to put the fucking milk back in the fridge the right way ha ha.
And to squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom of the tub upwards, to put the toilet seat down and hang the toilet roll "properly"
I only squeeze from the bottom, I pee sitting down and the toilet paper hangs properly I.e it rolls off from the top outwards. I’d be quite the catch
You sound like a woman - are you sure you're male?!
Let me have a rummage and check
It's taking you a while
I got distracted"
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Interesting points some of you make to my question.
One person hinted that I was after ‘a pity fuck’.... I would guess that a pity fuck is probably just as difficult to find as the normal.
It struck me as well that the answers came from men, women and couples.... but which part of the couple, or was it a shared input.
One of the first women I met on here (long left the site since) was surprisingly a match, we were attracted physically from the start, and we had very similar tastes. She invited me home to her house which was a bit of a shock... not only did her dog bark, but her teenage daughter was upstairs in bed. Her husband was away for a few days.
We had a cup of coffee but I left pretty quickly. She definitely had personal issues that I didn’t want to be a part of.
We kept in touch but it soon petered our. I knew what she wanted but it was not something I was in a position to give. I learned very quickly why some women on here have no interest in attached men. |
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