We do take time to read profiles and respect their criteria.
But I have read quite a few profiles say " New Here " only to see photos and verifications often years old and upto 10 years old!
Do you think people should update their profiles To be fair to others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People read profiles?
Like a lot of things people could do updates, could post actual pictures of themselves, not lie about their age etc etc but they won't or don't bother
And you know what I've updated mine this month and yet I'm still getting fancy a fuck messages and dick pics
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
Why is it deceiving though it's not like they are trying to post old pics as new ones or hiding the fact they have old veris. They haven't bothered updating their profile that is their choice. Your choice is whether you choose to interact with them or not. If not just move on and find people you do want to chat with and meet and just ignore those you don't.
I really don't get why people get so annoyed by others profiles just because it isn't how they do fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
That reads like a passage from a bargain basement self help book |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Its all part of the craic or mindfield that is Fab.
You'll get used to it after a while of shifting through profiles you like to sort the wheat from the chaff but as others said ...its their profile...its up to them what to share or show |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
Honest and respectful on here lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think people are misunderstanding me ... I'm ask a question, not giving a opinion "
And let's be honest yes they should update their profile but if they don't they don't.
As a few have said above its their profile let them do what they want.
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"Its all part of the craic or mindfield that is Fab.
You'll get used to it after a while of shifting through profiles you like to sort the wheat from the chaff but as others said ...its their profile...its up to them what to share or show "
I prefer walking all over minds than mines (less chance of losing body parts), in fairness and shifting is so much more fun than sifting  |
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People have lots of things on their profiles that others think are unfair, disrespectful, useless or pointless and not just old pics.
I just use them as extra filters and don't worry too much about them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most here don't open messages let alone read profiles...they seem to all be bollox anyway..maybe that's why people put what they put in them..they know they won't be read"
Or maybe they do read the profile and that's why they don't open the message... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Most here don't open messages let alone read profiles...they seem to all be bollox anyway..maybe that's why people put what they put in them..they know they won't be read"
I read always profiles before I even open a message from anyone new. If the profile doesn't appeal and from what I see of the message doesn't appeal I delete it. I do look in stealth mode so the person won't know if I have looked or not though. |
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"Most here don't open messages let alone read profiles...they seem to all be bollox anyway..maybe that's why people put what they put in them..they know they won't be read
I read always profiles before I even open a message from anyone new. If the profile doesn't appeal and from what I see of the message doesn't appeal I delete it. I do look in stealth mode so the person won't know if I have looked or not though. "
I did take a look at your profile and I must say I am very impressed with it, and by the way , I read a profile before I look at any pictures. Your profile is definitely one of the most impressive profiles I have read here. We tried to write our profile in a similar way. If others read your profile properly, you should get your perfect match.
And saves a lot time. If everyone had profiles like yours it would make fab easier to find what we are all looking, that's just my opinion. |
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"Most here don't open messages let alone read profiles...they seem to all be bollox anyway..maybe that's why people put what they put in them..they know they won't be read
I read always profiles before I even open a message from anyone new. If the profile doesn't appeal and from what I see of the message doesn't appeal I delete it. I do look in stealth mode so the person won't know if I have looked or not though. "
Well that explains a lot to me I didn't know there was an actual "stealth" Mode lol |
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I rarely read profiles because I don't send messages but if I receive one from someone I've never chatted to before I'll always read their profile before opening the message and that dictates how I choose to reply.
If it's obvious they haven't read mine it will be a short reply. |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
Its not being dishonest really is it? More laziness than anything.
Some can't be arsed changing thier bio one they have settled in, some if you asked wouldn't even remember what they have written.
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
I think you’re reading too much into it, hun. It’s a beautiful day today, maybe get out and get some fresh air. Nobody owes you anything. |
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
They're not being deceitful though are they? Quite the opposite. It's plain to all they aren't new.
In an ideal world we'd all keep everything in all aspects of our life up to date. But people don't. That's life. And in the grand scheme of things it's no big deal really |
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes
They're not being deceitful though are they? Quite the opposite. It's plain to all they aren't new.
In an ideal world we'd all keep everything in all aspects of our life up to date. But people don't. That's life. And in the grand scheme of things it's no big deal really"
My original comment on this above is been misinterpreted.... I was answering a comment referring to people lying about there age.
But yes your right, most things in life we don't keep upto date, and as others have pointed out .... "its their profile and they can do what they want with it " again I absolutely agree |
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes "
Although I admire the principle, the truth is we can’t all respect each others wishes, people do their own thing on and off Fab. If that’s not for you, then blocking and moving on is the easiest way to deal with it, if it bothers you.
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes
Although I admire the principle, the truth is we can’t all respect each others wishes, people do their own thing on and off Fab. If that’s not for you, then blocking and moving on is the easiest way to deal with it, if it bothers you.
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It doesn't both me at all, and I would never block anyone just because I don't like their profile... we all have the right to freedom of speech |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes
They're not being deceitful though are they? Quite the opposite. It's plain to all they aren't new.
In an ideal world we'd all keep everything in all aspects of our life up to date. But people don't. That's life. And in the grand scheme of things it's no big deal really
My original comment on this above is been misinterpreted.... I was answering a comment referring to people lying about there age.
But yes your right, most things in life we don't keep upto date, and as others have pointed out .... "its their profile and they can do what they want with it " again I absolutely agree "
Maybe I'm blind but I didn't see anything about people lying about their age  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most here don't open messages let alone read profiles...they seem to all be bollox anyway..maybe that's why people put what they put in them..they know they won't be read
I read always profiles before I even open a message from anyone new. If the profile doesn't appeal and from what I see of the message doesn't appeal I delete it. I do look in stealth mode so the person won't know if I have looked or not though. "
Stealth mode should be banned |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"Its called been honest and respectful, why try deceive people?? The truth will always come out!
We are all different, looking for different things, let's all respect each others wishes
They're not being deceitful though are they? Quite the opposite. It's plain to all they aren't new.
In an ideal world we'd all keep everything in all aspects of our life up to date. But people don't. That's life. And in the grand scheme of things it's no big deal really
My original comment on this above is been misinterpreted.... I was answering a comment referring to people lying about there age.
But yes your right, most things in life we don't keep upto date, and as others have pointed out .... "its their profile and they can do what they want with it " again I absolutely agree "
Ah we agree 
Can we have sex now? |
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