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What's Vanilla like?
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"Just because you go.you dont have to play. You could go and have a look and meet others and see how you feel for another night. There is no pressure to do anything on any night." Oh it's not about pressure to play- we'd never do anything if we weren't comfortable with it. This is a thing we both have where we like knowing a space before other people are present. Might sound a bit strange but ah well  | |||
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"In Cork City, there is brief encounters, which is as sleazy, as sleazy gets. Huge potential, which is wasted by the owners not giving one continental fup. The last time I was there, it was filthy with filthy old men who don't know the meaning of no. In the past, I have met up with a hotwife couple there, she was on the sling, and he managed the situation. I was the third guy, all safe and it was exactly what they wanted. No one was pushy, everyone was respectful, she really enjoyed herself and felt safe all the way. There are two porn cinemas there, one straight one showing man sex, loads of glory hole's, a big lounge area, a sling room, a room with a fuck horse. Huge potential if rules were enforced and if they had a regular cleaning regime. But it is what it is. A good place to arrange a hook up, go to the sling room and control who, if anyone, joins in. " Thanks for your honest opinion it’s a real pity something like this is really needed safe discreet and safe above all | |||
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"Or any other club? Curious about swinger clubs but would like to see or at least hear about what a venue looks like before arriving. It generally feels more comfortable for us to do a bit of recon (this goes for any space really) and there appears to be some UK clubs that give you tours if you show up early- is this typical? Thanks in advance y'all "Most clubs will give newbies a walk through when you go for the first time. As far as I can remember every club we've been to has done this. It would be a good idea to turn up as the clubs opens so the hosts aren't too busy and most attendees will turn up later on. We aren't 100% neurotypical here and i remember it really helped us in the early days. Irish clubs aren't full time so you can't usually pop in when it's not running, but there would be no harm in mailing the host who might be willing to let you in and do a tour a few mins early, but as I say, nearly nobody turns un on time so that should be fine. | |||
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"Or any other club? Curious about swinger clubs but would like to see or at least hear about what a venue looks like before arriving. It generally feels more comfortable for us to do a bit of recon (this goes for any space really) and there appears to be some UK clubs that give you tours if you show up early- is this typical? Thanks in advance y'all "At vanilla they always recommend that any new people try and arrive as soon as the doors open so that they or one of the team can give new people a tour of the place and to explain the rules of the club, and to also answer any questions that you may have. Also in the lead up to the club night there is a group chat set up where there is always a few admin that are available to answer any questions that new people may have. | |||
"Or any other club? Curious about swinger clubs but would like to see or at least hear about what a venue looks like before arriving. It generally feels more comfortable for us to do a bit of recon (this goes for any space really) and there appears to be some UK clubs that give you tours if you show up early- is this typical? Thanks in advance y'all
Most clubs will give newbies a walk through when you go for the first time. As far as I can remember every club we've been to has done this. It would be a good idea to turn up as the clubs opens so the hosts aren't too busy and most attendees will turn up later on. We aren't 100% neurotypical here and i remember it really helped us in the early days. Irish clubs aren't full time so you can't usually pop in when it's not running, but there would be no harm in mailing the host who might be willing to let you in and do a tour a few mins early, but as I say, nearly nobody turns un on time so that should be fine."Thanks and amen for not being NT!   | |||
"Or any other club? Curious about swinger clubs but would like to see or at least hear about what a venue looks like before arriving. It generally feels more comfortable for us to do a bit of recon (this goes for any space really) and there appears to be some UK clubs that give you tours if you show up early- is this typical? Thanks in advance y'all
At vanilla they always recommend that any new people try and arrive as soon as the doors open so that they or one of the team can give new people a tour of the place and to explain the rules of the club, and to also answer any questions that you may have.
Also in the lead up to the club night there is a group chat set up where there is always a few admin that are available to answer any questions that new people may have. "Brilliant, thanks! | |||
"In Cork City, there is brief encounters, which is as sleazy, as sleazy gets. Huge potential, which is wasted by the owners not giving one continental fup. The last time I was there, it was filthy with filthy old men who don't know the meaning of no. In the past, I have met up with a hotwife couple there, she was on the sling, and he managed the situation. I was the third guy, all safe and it was exactly what they wanted. No one was pushy, everyone was respectful, she really enjoyed herself and felt safe all the way. There are two porn cinemas there, one straight one showing man sex, loads of glory hole's, a big lounge area, a sling room, a room with a fuck horse. Huge potential if rules were enforced and if they had a regular cleaning regime. But it is what it is. A good place to arrange a hook up, go to the sling room and control who, if anyone, joins in. " Yeeeeah heard terrible things - such a shame Cork isn't better represeted 
We love being filthy but there's a huge line between filthy and just plain gross | |||
"a room with a fuck horse."  My google history is bad enough, I'm not adding that to it.
Is that just a bench? Or is it like a clothes horse you hang swingers on to dry them out? | |||
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