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Why does nobody kiss at Fab parties?
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts'  and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs    |
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over a year ago
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
We are kind of in two places about this, himself like you needs the kissing, it gets him going and allows him to get into it, for me I dont like kissing other men, women are fine just not men other than himself, I'll kiss him all day, just never felt I needed it and to me men at the partys are just an extra toy, I know that might be wrong to say but that's how I have always seen it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is essential to us in any scenario, otherwise things feel pretty "transactional" - find hole, insert cock
But each to their own"
That's it, it's what people feel most comfortable with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party! "
Now see you in would happly kiss haha |
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party! "
Noting like a good red lipstick x |
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Only ever been to one party a few years ago and there was no kissing involved.
In saying that everyone else there apart from me were long term friends who went on holiday together and had actually helped build the house the party was held in so while they were happy to have sex with each other, kissing probably wasn't a requirement.
In a one to one situation I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't kiss as it's important to create and determine intensity. |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
A kissing party sounds like a great idea. Incorporate kissing games like musical chairs or even spin the bottle for a laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seam to be the odd one out, from my experience women always needed the kissing more than men, they might want it but when it boils down to the actual fun if it's not there they still enjoy themselves just as much, that's just my experience though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party!
Noting like a good red lipstick x"
Totally I love it it's my signature look. If I don't wear it I'd look like a Victorian child that's died of consumption |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same as someone said earlier
Kissing game got the party started
Like if the kissing is shite it's as much of an indicator how the rest follows
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not been to any Fab or swinger parties, doubt I would kiss everyone but wouldn't be against it.
I suppose like most things it comes down to a mix of personal preferences. |
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party!
Noting like a good red lipstick x
Totally I love it it's my signature look. If I don't wear it I'd look like a Victorian child that's died of consumption "
I know how to find you we cross paths I love red too |
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More kissing and more eye contact too please! I know there's a lot going on at parties, it's very easy to get distracted and carried away in the moment with all that does be going on but it just makes it so much sexier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love kissing and I couldn't be with a guy if we didn't kiss.
Have only been in a couple of party situations and I've kissed the guys involved and possibly one or two girls. I don't think I could let a guy fuck me if he didn't kiss me I'd personally feel like for him "any hole was a goal"
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Met a couple once who kept kissing between themselves, their preference, didnt think much about it at the time but after just felt like going through the motions, clinical almost. Now if kissings not involved then neither am I, best way to get the party going. |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs
A kissing party sounds like a great idea. Incorporate kissing games like musical chairs or even spin the bottle for a laugh."
Never played spin the bottle and would love an adult version of it. So if anyone would like to host one let me know.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't imagine kissing randoms. For the same reason I don't do the party scene.
I love a hot fantasy and epic orgasms as much as the next person but kissing for me is the first major step to giving someone the memory and experience of being on me and in me and I think throwing your lips on just anyone devalues the intimacy.
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
Ah OP you are definitely going to the wrong parties! I must host a kissing party good idea!
But I do agree. I do find some people are a bit weird about kissing..they say it's too intimate which I laugh at at a swing party..I think kissing is a great gauge of things to come...if the kissing isn't great then I doubt anything else will be.....You know me I'm all about the kissing!! It's such a turn on.
See you both in the kissing corner at the next Event
B xx |
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
Thanks all for the insights
Parties and private meets tend to go differently; much more intimacy in a private meet. The majority so far have said that kissing is a must, however that has not been our experience in the main at parties so I can only assume that those preferring the 'limited repertoire'  are staying quiet on the matter! Would love to hear some opinions from those people.
Plus to clarify, we do love oral and penetration, but only as part of the overall picture. The more varied the night, the better fun it is for everyone!
Each to their own though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i loooves the kissing.
it doesnt have to lead anywhere... a kiss isnt a promise ... it can be just nice and fun, and a good indication of chemistry if you are looking for it.
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting "
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously 
B xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx"
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing |
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs
Ah OP you are definitely going to the wrong parties! I must host a kissing party good idea!
But I do agree. I do find some people are a bit weird about kissing..they say it's too intimate which I laugh at at a swing party..I think kissing is a great gauge of things to come...if the kissing isn't great then I doubt anything else will be.....You know me I'm all about the kissing!! It's such a turn on.
See you both in the kissing corner at the next Event
B xx"
Ahhh, I was waiting for your comment Beija
What I have definitely noticed is that the bi ladies kiss A LOT and I'm really giving out about the men who aren't bothered in the main about it 
The most memorable meets for me were where the guy was happy to connect through the kiss, the touch, the eye contact, the craic and all of that stuff |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs
Ah OP you are definitely going to the wrong parties! I must host a kissing party good idea!
But I do agree. I do find some people are a bit weird about kissing..they say it's too intimate which I laugh at at a swing party..I think kissing is a great gauge of things to come...if the kissing isn't great then I doubt anything else will be.....You know me I'm all about the kissing!! It's such a turn on.
See you both in the kissing corner at the next Event
B xx"
This is the best tease ever for attending an event, I’m gonna look out for this one |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"i loooves the kissing.
it doesnt have to lead anywhere... a kiss isnt a promise ... it can be just nice and fun, and a good indication of chemistry if you are looking for it.
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I’m the same as you , give you indication if there is something or not |
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx"
Look forward to hearing |
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing "
I defo need to be friends with you and beja xx my type of women |
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs
.....Ahem "
I did say "Bar a few" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing is essential even if not at a party"
I totally agree that kissing is essential...you can tell a lot about a person by how they kiss....if they are passionate or sensual or just a cold fish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
 Something I never do.
She declined  lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
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I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing
I defo need to be friends with you and beja xx my type of women "
Your welcome to join the kissathon anytime x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well as my name suggests I love kissing and you can see where I've being I leave a trail of destruction of red lipstick marks! So count me in for the kissing party! "
sounds good I'm in too ??
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
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I couldn't help but smile at that
It happened us at one social where Mr asked to kiss a lady and she said 'no but I'll kiss your wife' and we kissed while he looked on. We enjoyed humiliating him and luckily he saw the funny side |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I couldn't help but smile at that
It happened us at one social where Mr asked to kiss a lady and she said 'no but I'll kiss your wife' and we kissed while he looked on. We enjoyed humiliating him and luckily he saw the funny side "
I was talking to you at a social and Mr started kissing a woman standing beside you ( I wont name her )
It just seemed so normal to you but I was gobsmacked ...still learning at that stage |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"More kissing and more eye contact too please! I know there's a lot going on at parties, it's very easy to get distracted and carried away in the moment with all that does be going on but it just makes it so much sexier "
Mrs Bugs is some kisser |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
I love intimacy/kissing/sensuality.
I always ask 1st tho as not everyone is into it. Can understand it tho.
Personally I dont want to kiss a woman right after someone has cum in her mouth. I guess its each to their own. -D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I love to kiss a lady as a prelude to what may happen next. Lips, neck, and carry on down and if you’re doing it right she’ll be wet and waiting for your lips to bring her to that first orgasm |
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"More kissing and more eye contact too please! I know there's a lot going on at parties, it's very easy to get distracted and carried away in the moment with all that does be going on but it just makes it so much sexier
Mrs Bugs is some kisser "
Right back at you gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time "
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall |
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I couldn't help but smile at that
It happened us at one social where Mr asked to kiss a lady and she said 'no but I'll kiss your wife' and we kissed while he looked on. We enjoyed humiliating him and luckily he saw the funny side "
I didn't mind.
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall "
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha |
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By *ewbie006Man
over a year ago
Kerala, Mumbai |
I have been to just one fab party.. met a lady who loved kissing as much as I did. Our lips won’t stay away from each other even when we were dancing. I just love kissing and could spend hours devouring someone’s lips. According to me, a kiss is most essential to any physical intimacy. |
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By *studdMan
over a year ago
wexford/dublin |
I haven’t had six without kissing so I struggle to imagine it without. It would be doable but I feel it would be a lot less intimate and more like a task. The kissing party does sound like a fun idea too |
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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago
South County Dublin |
"Can't imagine kissing randoms. For the same reason I don't do the party scene.
I love a hot fantasy and epic orgasms as much as the next person but kissing for me is the first major step to giving someone the memory and experience of being on me and in me and I think throwing your lips on just anyone devalues the intimacy.
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I've been told I'm a good kisser. The next time I'm up North, we could met for coffee and you could check me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a group situation, I wouldn't feel like I'd missed out if there was no kissing. It's not essential for me in a group. I'd go as far as to say that kissing someone other than my other half on the lips isn't essential for me at all in any scenario.
It's perfectly possible for me to have hot, steamy AND sensual sexual encounters without kissing someone on the lips when there are so many other erogenous zones to be explored.
I think people imagine sex without kissing to be just sticking a penis in a vagina but it really doesn't have to be. It's only quite recently that I've kissed others during our meets. Up until then I only kissed himself. Trust me, there was nothing cold or mechanical about any of our pre-kissing encounters
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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago
Meath |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing "
These were amazing nights, please do another one B! And yes total snogfests. I love kissing, if no kissing then nothing else will be happening either haha |
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"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs "
I have to say I have never experienced that myself… kissing is super important for me, sensuality, teasing… I need that to fully get in the mood and I find sex is much more intense with this. I have always been lucky enough to find partners who enjoyed it too…
That said I have witnessed the straight to sex or oral approach with others… so as I said maybe I have been lucky.
Though one guy told me once that at parties it was more demonstration sex / performance sex and that he kept the more intimate approach for 1:1 meets so maybe there’s some of that? |
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"I seam to be the odd one out, from my experience women always needed the kissing more than men, they might want it but when it boils down to the actual fun if it's not there they still enjoy themselves just as much, that's just my experience though"
K (Mrs.) is very much like you.. and I (Mr.) absolutely adore kissing and would much prefer it on a meet. She doesn't need it at all - I actually get off on watching her snog a guy much more than she does
She enjoys the "transactional" nature as some say, rather than an intense connection- I'm often the other way around- I feel like the odd one out sometimes too! |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"We have a few years of attending Fab parties 'under our belts' and have had great times with wonderful people.
However, there's one thing that I feel is often missing and that I would like to see more of and that is intimacy/kissing/sensuality (3 things but one in the same).
Usually with 'straight' liaisons, the 'repertoire' is limited to oral and penetration and when these are all that's on offer, I get bored and drier than the Sahara! I ask for a kiss but for the seasoned swingers (bar a few) they are just not into it I find!
For anyone who has ever been to a Fab party, did you notice this? Did you miss it? Is there anything else you feel is missing at parties?
Anyone hosting a 'kissing party' soon? Mrs
Ah OP you are definitely going to the wrong parties! I must host a kissing party good idea!
But I do agree. I do find some people are a bit weird about kissing..they say it's too intimate which I laugh at at a swing party..I think kissing is a great gauge of things to come...if the kissing isn't great then I doubt anything else will be.....You know me I'm all about the kissing!! It's such a turn on.
See you both in the kissing corner at the next Event
B xx
This is the best tease ever for attending an event, I’m gonna look out for this one "
Will keep you posted Belfast
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing
I defo need to be friends with you and beja xx my type of women "
Come to the kissing corner next time
B x |
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over a year ago
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Don't know really simply because I've never been to a fab party , but those that l have met on meets etc kissing was a huge part of it, I think it's beautiful anyway. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing
These were amazing nights, please do another one B! And yes total snogfests. I love kissing, if no kissing then nothing else will be happening either haha "
Baileys kisses L
B x |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"More kissing and more eye contact too please! I know there's a lot going on at parties, it's very easy to get distracted and carried away in the moment with all that does be going on but it just makes it so much sexier
Mrs Bugs is some kisser "
Totally agree
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"I think Beja needs to organise another social her events are like a teen school disco everyone's shifting
Rosy I was just saying that yesterday it's on my to do list for 2023!!
Kissing is mandatory obviously
B xx
I'll never forget attending my first social which was your one. Total SnogFest! #bringbackkissing "
Wouldn't be like you Rosy |
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Yes kissing is communication the way you’re connecting to the person ur with. It’s letting each other know how ur feeling without saying a word and as you put your around around a person then it’s the reassurance I’m here and in this with you. |
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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago
The Land of Make Believe |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha "
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx |
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We are quite new to the scene and are unsure of this part…. I think we would need to just go with the flow and see what happens…. We had said during talk that general (not sure how to describe) two second kisses here and there during sex would probably be ok, but full on kissing for a few minutes we might be uncomfortable with.
That said we have yet to experience that…let’s wait and see |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx"
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx |
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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago
Far far away |
For me, kissing is like the unwrapping of the most perfect present.
I adore it. Its a wonderful way to see how each layer peels off. As a sensualist, it's my default judgement of the connection.
As for kissing corners.. Beats the back of the bike shed...
Ps I am not known to hang around schools, cos that would be just wierd and creepy...
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By *exysamXXXWoman
over a year ago
The Land of Make Believe |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx"
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses |
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By *emptress_BWoman
over a year ago
Munster /limrick/kerry |
"For me, kissing is like the unwrapping of the most perfect present.
I adore it. Its a wonderful way to see how each layer peels off. As a sensualist, it's my default judgement of the connection.
As for kissing corners.. Beats the back of the bike shed...
Ps I am not known to hang around schools, cos that would be just wierd and creepy...
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I think us ladies should build something down our neck of the woods lol ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are quite new to the scene and are unsure of this part…. I think we would need to just go with the flow and see what happens…. We had said during talk that general (not sure how to describe) two second kisses here and there during sex would probably be ok, but full on kissing for a few minutes we might be uncomfortable with.
That said we have yet to experience that…let’s wait and see"
You absolutely must only do what you feel comfortable with, and never feel pressurised by what others are doing. This is your swinging journey - you set the pace. If some aren't happy with your boundaries then they're not for you, plenty of others will be. And as I said up there, not kissing others on the lips never had a negative impact on our experiences when that was something I didn't want to do.
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses "
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return  |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
South Dublin Area |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return "
I am with ya.. need a campaign to get B to so some socials xx |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
Lol’ing that people are citing covid and other respiratory viruses as reasons not to kiss but are happy to fuck 
I don’t attend parties (yet) but an offer of sex with no kissing would mean no sex for me. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return
I am with ya.. need a campaign to get B to so some socials xx"
No need I'm on it
B xx |
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We’ve only been to one party so can’t attest to the norm, but for us and me especially (Kandee), if there’s no kissing then I’m not interested.
Kissing lights my fire and sets the tone for what’s to follow.
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
Haven’t been to a party in over a decade but kissing on meets very important. In our early days after a bottle of wine/ bubbly shared between 4, the bottle would be used for spin the bottle as an ice breaker. One of our very first meets was with a fabulous couple who insisted on no kissing - it was an intimate thing they wanted to reserve for themselves. We realised after our second meet with them that it wasn’t something we could do without. |
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"Haven’t been to a party in over a decade but kissing on meets very important. In our early days after a bottle of wine/ bubbly shared between 4, the bottle would be used for spin the bottle as an ice breaker. One of our very first meets was with a fabulous couple who insisted on no kissing - it was an intimate thing they wanted to reserve for themselves. We realised after our second meet with them that it wasn’t something we could do without."
I would have thought kissing was paramount. especially the ff playing what ever about the male kissing the other woman |
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"Haven’t been to a party in over a decade but kissing on meets very important. In our early days after a bottle of wine/ bubbly shared between 4, the bottle would be used for spin the bottle as an ice breaker. One of our very first meets was with a fabulous couple who insisted on no kissing - it was an intimate thing they wanted to reserve for themselves. We realised after our second meet with them that it wasn’t something we could do without.
We never, ever considered the no-kissing rule, it's just strange to us. We'd prefer to stay at home than meet a couple who wouldn't kiss. It's not just the 'ban' itself, it's the possible reasons behind it."
For me it's the intimacy of a kiss. I find kissing way more intimate and that level of intimacy uncomfortable with others. It's nothing sinister. We all have things we are comfortable or not comfortable doing with other people, and I'm unsure why kissing should raise a flag any more than another act |
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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return
I am with ya.. need a campaign to get B to so some socials xx
No need I'm on it
B xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question wasn't about enjoying having sex without kissing on the mouth as part of it.
It's the party circuit sex without kissing on the mouth that's being discussed, no?
I've never had sex with anyone that I'd not kiss/kissed and I'd never want to. Epic kissing is step one.... first base for a reason  |
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"Haven’t been to a party in over a decade but kissing on meets very important. In our early days after a bottle of wine/ bubbly shared between 4, the bottle would be used for spin the bottle as an ice breaker. One of our very first meets was with a fabulous couple who insisted on no kissing - it was an intimate thing they wanted to reserve for themselves. We realised after our second meet with them that it wasn’t something we could do without.
We never, ever considered the no-kissing rule, it's just strange to us. We'd prefer to stay at home than meet a couple who wouldn't kiss. It's not just the 'ban' itself, it's the possible reasons behind it.
For me it's the intimacy of a kiss. I find kissing way more intimate and that level of intimacy uncomfortable with others. It's nothing sinister. We all have things we are comfortable or not comfortable doing with other people, and I'm unsure why kissing should raise a flag any more than another act "
Third times a charm….
As I said in previous post we are not overly experienced and new to all this but I think we feel the same as this, To us it’s important to keep something to ourselves and we think that will be kissing, certainly any sort of passionate or intimate kiss… maybe need to see how it goes first and then rule it out…
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return
I am with ya.. need a campaign to get B to so some socials xx"
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"Only at one recent social where one female fabber was going up kissing people at random I(Mr) turn to a lady beside me and asked for a kiss
Something I never do.
She declined lol.
So I said what about kissing Mrs beside me. She smiled and both lady's locked lips and touched tongues.Very erotic to watch.
I had better luck with the next lady I asked thank God
It's not something I see very often at socials . Maybe it was something in the water that night.
I'll have to show you the kissing corner next time
You'll have to lol
You were doing most of the kissing at that social if I recall
Me!?!? That does not sound like something I'd do hahaha
Having a little giggle here. Mrs Bugs I have to add our 3 ways kisses have been super hot
Beija you just top the kissing game and so glad I've had many a night kissing those beautiful lips
As Rosy said get that kissing party/social organised xx
So many amazing nights Sam! Here's to many many more!
B xx
Can't wait B so love your yummy kisses
Oh my! Pucker up those beautiful lips ladies!! Beija's socials were so much fun we would absolutely love their return
I am with ya.. need a campaign to get B to so some socials xx
No need I'm on it
B xx"
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By *aked69Man
over a year ago
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My first time at RVC every regular goer was kissing when greeting each other and one of the ladies setup a kissing corner with myself as the kisser and I must have got to kiss half the room that night was great fun to be fair |
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By *ofusplus OP Couple
over a year ago
Limerick |
Thanks for the replies
Socials are not the problem, parties are! The quicker the guys can get to the main prize, the better!
Slow down lads, us ladies need a bit of time. We're not like a tap, well not immediately anyway |
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