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"That's true I reckon it's obviously more fun to be couple on here then single unless your real good looking single I would suspect  "
Absolutely not true.
It is easier to be a single because:
1. Only your feelings and emotions are involved and are of your concern.
2. It's easier to align 2 people's schedules than 3, 4 or more.
3. Couples usually have kids which also takes away any free time to meet new people (unlike single parents who share custody and have their kid free time).
4. It's harder for couples to meet couples as chances are - one or more people won't be attracted to one or more people (taking one for the team isn't great when it comes to sex).
5. When you're single you're usually not tied into endless chores, so naturally have more free time.
6. People treat you differently when you're in a couple - they're either so direct that it's off putting or so shy - they stay away from you.
7. When you're single you're free to meet whoever the fuck you want at any time and any place - being in a couple - you have to consider your partners boundaries.
I could continue, but hope you get the gist
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over a year ago
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We heard someone was giving away free swings here and wanted to keep the kids happy with a new set of swings, we are still waiting for them, loads of sex and no swings, disspointed  |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
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Well…
From our observations… looks are not necessary what attracts people here.
People skills or soft skills as they call it- way more important.
Unfortunately creating a treat on the forum to tell every one that you gonna quit if no one fuck you is really nowhere close to soft skills… it’s extremely soft but nothing else. Be nice, flatter instead of terrorising… |
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over a year ago
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"That's true I reckon it's obviously more fun to be couple on here then single unless your real good looking single I would suspect "
So not true, with a good attitude and energy it really does not matter what you look like, the idea that only good looking people do well on here is false |
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Monogamy is a societal norm to which we don't subscribe. It took a while to take the plunge but we haven't looked back since did.
There are challenges of course (as you would imagine) but good communication (and sometimes compromise) keeps the marriage strong.
It's a whole lot of fun  |
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over a year ago
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"That's true I reckon it's obviously more fun to be couple on here then single unless your real good looking single I would suspect
Absolutely not true.
It is easier to be a single because:
1. Only your feelings and emotions are involved and are of your concern.
2. It's easier to align 2 people's schedules than 3, 4 or more.
3. Couples usually have kids which also takes away any free time to meet new people (unlike single parents who share custody and have their kid free time).
4. It's harder for couples to meet couples as chances are - one or more people won't be attracted to one or more people (taking one for the team isn't great when it comes to sex).
5. When you're single you're usually not tied into endless chores, so naturally have more free time.
6. People treat you differently when you're in a couple - they're either so direct that it's off putting or so shy - they stay away from you.
7. When you're single you're free to meet whoever the fuck you want at any time and any place - being in a couple - you have to consider your partners boundaries.
I could continue, but hope you get the gist
Missus "
jeez lot good points there I didn't think of me been single don't have to think most them so goes with your point lol |
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over a year ago
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"We heard someone was giving away free swings here and wanted to keep the kids happy with a new set of swings, we are still waiting for them, loads of sex and no swings, disspointed "
no sex swings then want ask for your money back lol |
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over a year ago
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"That's true I reckon it's obviously more fun to be couple on here then single unless your real good looking single I would suspect
So not true, with a good attitude and energy it really does not matter what you look like, the idea that only good looking people do well on here is false"
I just assumed all good looking guys get most women cause let's be honest most guys arent picky so dont think looks matter regards females I take it lot females get lots lots mail that think proves my point lol |
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over a year ago
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"We heard someone was giving away free swings here and wanted to keep the kids happy with a new set of swings, we are still waiting for them, loads of sex and no swings, disspointed no sex swings then want ask for your money back lol "
We.tried they just offer us oral instead |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Monogamy is a societal norm to which we don't subscribe. It took a while to take the plunge but we haven't looked back since did.
There are challenges of course (as you would imagine) but good communication (and sometimes compromise) keeps the marriage strong.
It's a whole lot of fun "
true would make things more exciting in bedroom I think it brings other problems if theres jealous partner etc I suppose you wouldn't do if there was jealous streak then again I'm thinking some do it as there afraid there partner might leave them if they say no to it ?? |
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"We heard someone was giving away free swings here and wanted to keep the kids happy with a new set of swings, we are still waiting for them, loads of sex and no swings, disspointed no sex swings then want ask for your money back lol
We.tried they just offer us oral instead"
hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe the only attached man to admit it here but dead sex life at home, an urge to satisfy kinks, and most of all each day I’m only getting older lol "
true need spice things up after a while I'd imagine
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just looked at your profile, never mind about your shapes the guys that do best here are just honestly themselves and treat this all as a bit of fun, if you make it to serious it will only harm you |
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over a year ago
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"Just looked at your profile, never mind about your shapes the guys that do best here are just honestly themselves and treat this all as a bit of fun, if you make it to serious it will only harm you"
true just go with the flow . Have banter of forum see what happens |
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"Just looked at your profile, never mind about your shapes the guys that do best here are just honestly themselves and treat this all as a bit of fun, if you make it to serious it will only harm you true just go with the flow . Have banter of forum see what happens "
Never mind the forums, get to a social or meet and greet, same for any guy here that cant get meets, get off the fucking internet and go to socials and meet and greets, meet people in person will be so much better for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd talked about it for while and then decided to dip our toes in not knowing what to expect.
We've currently settled within the hotwife role play. Mr waits patiently for me to return |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We'd talked about it for while and then decided to dip our toes in not knowing what to expect.
We've currently settled within the hotwife role play. Mr waits patiently for me to return "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well…
From our observations… looks are not necessary what attracts people here.
People skills or soft skills as they call it- way more important.
Unfortunately creating a treat on the forum to tell every one that you gonna quit if no one fuck you is really nowhere close to soft skills… it’s extremely soft but nothing else. Be nice, flatter instead of terrorising… "
I'll take that on board thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this is a great thread but if the OP doesn't object, I'd like to tag on a secondary question.
Did you join for one reason but stay for another?"
For us I joined years ago becuse I just love sex, himself was inted to the scene from the fetish community to teach and ended up loving it and staying |
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"Just looked at your profile, never mind about your shapes the guys that do best here are just honestly themselves and treat this all as a bit of fun, if you make it to serious it will only harm you true just go with the flow . Have banter of forum see what happens
Never mind the forums, get to a social or meet and greet, same for any guy here that cant get meets, get off the fucking internet and go to socials and meet and greets, meet people in person will be so much better for you"
true have get out there. Have make time in-between commitments from work ,friends family . Already have 3 stags and surprise party to pay for we only finished Xmas lol |
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"I think this is a great thread but if the OP doesn't object, I'd like to tag on a secondary question.
Did you join for one reason but stay for another?
For us I joined years ago becuse I just love sex, himself was inted to the scene from the fetish community to teach and ended up loving it and staying"
nice think lot people think women don't have just high sex drive as men |
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"We'd talked about it for while and then decided to dip our toes in not knowing what to expect.
We've currently settled within the hotwife role play. Mr waits patiently for me to return
Kinky "
Ridiculously hot ! Way more than I was expecting |
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over a year ago
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"I think this is a great thread but if the OP doesn't object, I'd like to tag on a secondary question.
Did you join for one reason but stay for another?"
no work a way it's open thread . Good question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think this is a great thread but if the OP doesn't object, I'd like to tag on a secondary question.
Did you join for one reason but stay for another?
For us I joined years ago becuse I just love sex, himself was inted to the scene from the fetish community to teach and ended up loving it and staying nice think lot people think women don't have just high sex drive as men "
No at least for us mine is much higher than his, he has found his way to keep me satisfied and the longer we are together the more it syncs up |
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"We'd talked about it for while and then decided to dip our toes in not knowing what to expect.
We've currently settled within the hotwife role play. Mr waits patiently for me to return
Kinky
Ridiculously hot ! Way more than I was expecting "
Isn't that the joy of all this, fi finding the fun you never thought of |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We'd talked about it for while and then decided to dip our toes in not knowing what to expect.
We've currently settled within the hotwife role play. Mr waits patiently for me to return
Kinky
Ridiculously hot ! Way more than I was expecting "
me and my ex did the roleplay as well it's hot was bit embarrassed to tell her what my kink was at first was older women (step mum, friends mum ,. Friends hot auntie etc think everyone gets jist . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think this is a great thread but if the OP doesn't object, I'd like to tag on a secondary question.
Did you join for one reason but stay for another?
For us I joined years ago becuse I just love sex, himself was inted to the scene from the fetish community to teach and ended up loving it and staying nice think lot people think women don't have just high sex drive as men
No at least for us mine is much higher than his, he has found his way to keep me satisfied and the longer we are together the more it syncs up"
Yep found that with my ex thought I had high sex drive she literally wanted it all time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've also discovered that I am way more submissive than I would have ever thought 
But it's great learning new things!"
Leaning is always fun and the more you know the better the sex gets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's true I reckon it's obviously more fun to be couple on here then single unless your real good looking single I would suspect
Absolutely not true.
It is easier to be a single because:
1. Only your feelings and emotions are involved and are of your concern.
2. It's easier to align 2 people's schedules than 3, 4 or more.
3. Couples usually have kids which also takes away any free time to meet new people (unlike single parents who share custody and have their kid free time).
4. It's harder for couples to meet couples as chances are - one or more people won't be attracted to one or more people (taking one for the team isn't great when it comes to sex).
5. When you're single you're usually not tied into endless chores, so naturally have more free time.
6. People treat you differently when you're in a couple - they're either so direct that it's off putting or so shy - they stay away from you.
7. When you're single you're free to meet whoever the fuck you want at any time and any place - being in a couple - you have to consider your partners boundaries.
I could continue, but hope you get the gist
Missus "
Ain't that the truth  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Joined because I was lonely and felt life was escaping away from me
Stayed to meet people I could engage with and hopefully have sex with some of them
Then the social side took over and its better than ever especially since I made real friends out of it
If it disappeared tomorrow, I'd have fantastic memories
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined because I was lonely and felt life was escaping away from me
Stayed to meet people I could engage with and hopefully have sex with some of them
Then the social side took over and its better than ever especially since I made real friends out of it
If it disappeared tomorrow, I'd have fantastic memories
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Well fucking said |
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I joined to explore what I had never experienced but discovered on the first two profiles I set up that I was too naive in expecting others to see me as more than just a cock.
My last profile was much more successful because I was introduced to a fab walking group and through that made some great friends who despite the fact most of them have left the site, we are still very much in touch.
Unfortunately others decided they could influence my journey and dictate what they believed to be the ideal solution and when we disagreed over that the drama was relentless so I left again.
This time around I decided nobody was going to tell me how I should use the site and in general it has been pretty successful although severely restricted over the last year for various reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined because I was lonely and felt life was escaping away from me
Stayed to meet people I could engage with and hopefully have sex with some of them
Then the social side took over and its better than ever especially since I made real friends out of it
If it disappeared tomorrow, I'd have fantastic memories
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Totally agree BM |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Joined because I was lonely and felt life was escaping away from me
Stayed to meet people I could engage with and hopefully have sex with some of them
Then the social side took over and its better than ever especially since I made real friends out of it
If it disappeared tomorrow, I'd have fantastic memories
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Brilliant! Joined for what I thought would be a kinky/ wild sexual experience. Stayed for the craic with the people I have connected with, the forum now and again and sure the odd wink and who knows what from time to time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined with a fb mostly out of curiosity as I honestly had no idea about swingers. Suffice to say I got my eyes open and decided I had a few things I would like to experience....so I did! Lol
I have met some fantastic people and had great experiences, one in particular with a guy I was very lucky to find.
I tend to keep below the radar and not get involved in any Fab drama's.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Joined because I was lonely and felt life was escaping away from me
Stayed to meet people I could engage with and hopefully have sex with some of them
Then the social side took over and its better than ever especially since I made real friends out of it
If it disappeared tomorrow, I'd have fantastic memories that's great you have so many fantastic memories
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"I joined with a fb mostly out of curiosity as I honestly had no idea about swingers. Suffice to say I got my eyes open and decided I had a few things I would like to experience....so I did! Lol
I have met some fantastic people and had great experiences, one in particular with a guy I was very lucky to find.
I tend to keep below the radar and not get involved in any Fab drama's.
Very good best stay out of drama I suspect lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was signposted to the site as I expressed an interest in NSA sex after a 20 year relationship ended.
I didn't know what to expect really but it was not what I was expecting at all! All the kink and explicitness
Once I got over the shock of this otherworld I was happy out meeting people, feeling sexy and learning fast. 2 years on I've met my match as well.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We joined to try out a fantasy, can't say we have been particularly surprised or shocked by anything, apart from the number of Irish couples who say their only sexual experience prior to fab was with each other |
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By *olouWoman
over a year ago
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I joined for sex but found so much more tbh.Have meet some amazing people, stayed at great hotels,discovered socials.
So many new things I never thought a couple of years I would explore and enjoy. Have now ended up in a couple scenario and couldn't be happier. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was signposted to the site as I expressed an interest in NSA sex after a 20 year relationship ended.
I didn't know what to expect really but it was not what I was expecting at all! All the kink and explicitness
Once I got over the shock of this otherworld I was happy out meeting people, feeling sexy and learning fast. 2 years on I've met my match as well.
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nice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I joined for sex but found so much more tbh.Have meet some amazing people, stayed at great hotels,discovered socials.
So many new things I never thought a couple of years I would explore and enjoy. Have now ended up in a couple scenario and couldn't be happier. "
very good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because I can’t lick my own asshole 
No really the social side has been great. Started as a couple, stayed as a single. Great to connect with like minded folk "
nothing like rim job haha . Nice lot people are enjoying the social element to the site |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was all my husband idea to Join fab I hadn't a clue what swinging was I thought it was a bad thing ..but not any more im enjoying it "
brave man suggesting it how that convo go lol |
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over a year ago
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"We joined to try out a fantasy, can't say we have been particularly surprised or shocked by anything, apart from the number of Irish couples who say their only sexual experience prior to fab was with each other"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only started enjoying life when I turned 40 and started to enjoy sex and its not dirty try relax and let myself go, few 3sums and more I had some great meets and some not so much,made some great friends, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First time around as a result of returning from living in a sexually liberated England to a quiet life in straight laced community I, as a single man, sought out fun and frolics which I found in abundance. It was an unreal time of late night rendezvous, sex on webcam and participation in group sex.
I got married and returned to the vanilla, near on celibate life which is not easy to live.
I've returned now in the hope I can live somewhat vicariously through the actions of others and maybe some day have a little fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To facilitate the things we'd talked about wanting to do together, to explore more, to share new sexual experiences and revisit old ones together.
We were always adamant the social side held no appeal for us but how wrong we were! That was the big surprise for us and it's probably a bigger part of why we're here now than the sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined through a recommendation from a friend on xh*****r site which has severe restrictions now regarding chat and sharing private photos/vids . Just finding my way around Fab but enjoying it immensely G |
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"Only started enjoying life when I turned 40 and started to enjoy sex and its not dirty try relax and let myself go, few 3sums and more I had some great meets and some not so much,made some great friends, "
sounds like lot fun |
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