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How long should a guy last for ?
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
Citywest |
Guy should last for as long as he last
Girl should always come or not
He should always start from gentle fire play or not
She should always squirt or not
No one should this or that. What if you normally last 20 minutes but this one time you come after 2? What does it change? As long as you won’t fall next to her but keep giving it’s all good.
Stop putting tension on ourselves. No one here is a sex toy with expected performance time. Live and let live |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if a guy has issues not being to last there's no shame in that. The important thing is not to roll over after and go to sleep. That's what toys and tongues and fingers are for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not particularly fixated on penetrative sex so, as long as that's not the only weapon in his armoury and he doesn't leave me high and dry, I don't mind how long he lasts |
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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago
The Wild West |
Horses for courses I guess... some of us are built for comfort and not for speed.
Its really about gauging the moment isnt it and trying ones best to make it as good as possible
Iv had 1 min quickies where my legs wouldnt work after and iv gone for proper marathons.
All depends on the common mood and situation.
And as one person already said... there are different ways of ringing each others bell  |
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As long as he doesn’t come walking in the door … then all is good lol ……
Al jokes aside … there are many ways to getting a lady off not just penetration … if he is good in all ways then time is not a problem
Although some studs on here say they can go all night .. and most if not all women don’t want that .. I personally would prefer 2/3 sessions that last 15 mins or so |
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
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I’ve seen this time requirement on profiles  make me laugh when I read it. Such boring sex to be just hammering away for 2 and 1/2 hours! It’s shows the mentality of the profile owner though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even if a guy has issues not being to last there's no shame in that. The important thing is not to roll over after and go to sleep. That's what toys and tongues and fingers are for. "
Couldn’t agree more with this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
I’d be bored stiff!  "
I've learnt from my time here that those Fab studs who claim to go all night will be a disappointing ten minutes all about them. As my Mother used to say watch the quite ones with the glint in the eye |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
I’d be bored stiff!
I've learnt from my time here that those Fab studs who claim to go all night will be a disappointing ten minutes all about them. As my Mother used to say watch the quite ones with the glint in the eye "
My mother said stay away from women with a glint in their eye!!!
Boy was she so wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really do not think there is a one size fit all answer to this question, particularly if the real answer you want should come from women. I know for a fact that there are women that want to be pounded the entire night, and there are others that do not even want the penetration at all and would prefer the tongue and strong hands doing the various jobs. The length of time a man should last is infact to me a curiousity that lingers in the mind of men alone, women in general I believe are really less concerned with that, because lets face it, no man can outlast a well charged vibrator, or stay hard longer than a full sized dildo...hahahahahah.
However, I am also curious to see when the opposite question is asked, and that is, how long should a woman actually last...hahahahahah |
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I once had an early morning liason and we were at it for 4hrs solid.
I am not saying this to try to sound impressive, it just happened that way. We had a real connection.
Anyway, when all was done, I left but I didn't realise how tired and dehydrated I was. I nodded off at a traffic light with my car in gear. Ended up rear ending the car in front.
It was still so worth it though! |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"I once had an early morning liason and we were at it for 4hrs solid.
I am not saying this to try to sound impressive, it just happened that way. We had a real connection.
Anyway, when all was done, I left but I didn't realise how tired and dehydrated I was. I nodded off at a traffic light with my car in gear. Ended up rear ending the car in front.
It was still so worth it though! "
Love to read the insurance claim |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
I’ve seen this time requirement on profiles make me laugh when I read it. Such boring sex to be just hammering away for 2 and 1/2 hours! It’s shows the mentality of the profile owner though. "
U have to be joking about this |
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"I once had an early morning liason and we were at it for 4hrs solid.
I am not saying this to try to sound impressive, it just happened that way. We had a real connection.
Anyway, when all was done, I left but I didn't realise how tired and dehydrated I was. I nodded off at a traffic light with my car in gear. Ended up rear ending the car in front.
It was still so worth it though!
Love to read the insurance claim "
Foot slipped off the clutch! |
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
I’ve seen this time requirement on profiles make me laugh when I read it. Such boring sex to be just hammering away for 2 and 1/2 hours! It’s shows the mentality of the profile owner though.
U have to be joking about this "
im sure anyone who lasts that long are popping little blue pills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the same note any ladies get pleasure out of seeing how quick they can make a guy cum? I’ve been with a girl before and this was one of her kinks. "
Yes me!! I love doing that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"According to some of the profiles, 2.5hrs is minimum requirement for the 1st show...then another 2-3 hrs after 5 mins break.
I’d be bored stiff!
I've learnt from my time here that those Fab studs who claim to go all night will be a disappointing ten minutes all about them. As my Mother used to say watch the quite ones with the glint in the eye "
It’s always the quiet ones, male and female  |
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By *ub23Man
over a year ago
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"On the same note any ladies get pleasure out of seeing how quick they can make a guy cum? I’ve been with a girl before and this was one of her kinks.
Yes me!! I love doing that "
Quick and often I do say  |
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Anyone have the opposite issue? That it takes too long? Actually jealous of lads who can bang it out in 2 mins, never been able to have a quickie. No complaints from the other side tho lol just wish I could have a fast fuck the odd time |
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By *expitCouple
over a year ago
cork |
"As long as he doesn’t come walking in the door … then all is good lol ……
Al jokes aside … there are many ways to getting a lady off not just penetration … if he is good in all ways then time is not a problem
Ha ha
Although some studs on here say they can go all night .. and most if not all women don’t want that .. I personally would prefer 2/3 sessions that last 15 mins or so "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah phlease, I'm sure plenty of us ladies had the experience of being ridden for what seemed like forever to no avail, composing next week's menus in our heads... and then the 5 minute quick horny fuck that was an orgasm in itself, so no such thing as 'how long should a guy last'... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the fun of it, what do people wrecking a guy should last for in bed ????
Depending on the wrecking lol
Like a full room
I’ve been known to wreck a hotel room with just clothes and makeup  "
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"For the fun of it, what do people wrecking a guy should last for in bed ????
Depending on the wrecking lol
Like a full room
I’ve been known to wreck a hotel room with just clothes and makeup "
I saw the video |
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"For the fun of it, what do people wrecking a guy should last for in bed ????
Depending on the wrecking lol
Like a full room
I’ve been known to wreck a hotel room with just clothes and makeup
I saw the video "
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"Even if a guy has issues not being to last there's no shame in that. The important thing is not to roll over after and go to sleep. That's what toys and tongues and fingers are for. "
This
I was with a guy who a lot of the time had an issue of being an early arriver. But he made damn sure I arrived shortly after.
OP, I don't think there's a right or wrong answer to your question here :/ |
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"Try being on SSRI’s or other forms of antidepressants, you can literally go forever and never cum, most frustrating thing in the world"
I'm on anti anxiety medication and this is very true. Any tips on speeding it up or should I talk to my GP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try being on SSRI’s or other forms of antidepressants, you can literally go forever and never cum, most frustrating thing in the world
I'm on anti anxiety medication and this is very true. Any tips on speeding it up or should I talk to my GP? "
Talk to your GP, he might be able to prescribe something different. I went through this a few years back and found a good AD that didn’t delay me arriving. |
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Talk to your GP, he might be able to prescribe something different. I went through this a few years back and found a good AD that didn’t delay me arriving. "
Cheers Jack, that's good to know. It's actually exhausting atm and really putting me off hookups
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By (user no longer on site)
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Talk to your GP, he might be able to prescribe something different. I went through this a few years back and found a good AD that didn’t delay me arriving.
Cheers Jack, that's good to know. It's actually exhausting atm and really putting me off hookups
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It was great at the start, could fuck for Ireland but gets frustrating eventually. |
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It was great at the start, could fuck for Ireland but gets frustrating eventually. "
Haha could fuck for Ireland, love it yea no complaints from the other side but little Tommy needs some fun too |
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"For the fun of it, what do people wrecking a guy should last for in bed ????"
It's a bit like building IKEA furniture.
You always try to get it done in the one sitting and the first try. You might even surprise yourself and finish the other bits too.
Sometimes you just don't get it on the first try, so you come back after a cuppa and give it another go. You might even try some of the tools for help this time. You should always get it done either way
It's sweaty, hands on work, but you get there in the end |
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"I once had an early morning liason and we were at it for 4hrs solid.
I am not saying this to try to sound impressive, it just happened that way. We had a real connection.
Anyway, when all was done, I left but I didn't realise how tired and dehydrated I was. I nodded off at a traffic light with my car in gear. Ended up rear ending the car in front.
It was still so worth it though!
Love to read the insurance claim
Foot slipped off the clutch! "
I hope you weren't wearing the clothes in your profile photo when the cops arrived.... |
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