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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many on here have had an old workplace shag at the Christmas party. I worked in a place 20 years ago and it was fairly common practice with that company. They used to pay for hotel rooms for all as part of the Christmas party night . |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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My own opinion is that any workplace liaisons of that type are extremely unwise, particularly as one goes up the company hierarchy.
A reputation for cavorting with staff, sexually, will destroy your reputation, managerially.
If you plan to leave the company in the new year, then fire away, but if you plan to stay, then don't!
I keep both business and pleasure strictly separate and never the twain shall meet; compartmentalisation is the key to success.
My working life, as it was was in one compartment and my interest in swinging is in another.
Crossover never takes place between the two! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah I'm talking 20 odd years ago when I was a young man but there was a few married sales reps made the most of the night . PC world now I'd imagine it's a no no alright |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Liaisons between staff of larger companies, is more than frowned upon, and is often a dismissable act.
Decades ago, I worked in an organisation that very severely disciplined a supervisor for having a relationship with a much younger employee; he was sacked but they continued the relationship, married and are still together to the best of my knowledge.
Nowadays some businesses behave as if they own their employees and many activities are proscribed.
The crucial action is to be as secretive as one about any aspect of one's private life.
Many employers behave like control freaks; if some could return to the era of sl##ery and servitude they would; so long as the work is being done why should they try to control other aspects of one's life inc nsa sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still very common where I work and doesn’t take a Christmas party to do it!!
I have done myself over the years but not done so in well over 10 years, mainly due to me moving up the office hierarchy in that time. Too much of a risk now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Company I worked with many years ago. Myself and office supervisor (female) had this arrangement if we were both single at the time of the Xmas party we would be each others sidekick. Dis help we both lived in the same estate so sharing a taxi to and from never raised eyebrows. A good 7 years we got out of it before we both left the company the same week ad the Xmas party. We gave it a good wake the ending of out arrangement. But general rule of thumb, no Xmas party hook ups. To many camera phones around now and someone will always see and stir shite |
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Last one I was at in 2019 a woman in a office management role was very vocal beforehand about how she was going to shag one of the sales team. They all turned her down on the night so she turned her attention to an 18 year old warehouse worker knowing full well his girlfriend was expecting their child.
He turned her down too so she got blocked and flashed her knickers at everyone.
She repeated this 6 weeks later at a retirement party with no success but was disciplined for bringing the company into disrepute and had to give up her management role as nobody could take her seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to avoid Xmas parties as a rule.
Some people couldn't hold their piss so everything gets out eventually, married people off with others or rumours of illicit powder being used etc ruins careers and a businesses reputation.
When I did run my own business I gave a cash alternative to everyone to use as they wished, some gathered for a night out and others didn't. Then anything that happened was completely away from the businesses name. |
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"Last one I was at in 2019 a woman in a office management role was very vocal beforehand about how she was going to shag one of the sales team. They all turned her down on the night so she turned her attention to an 18 year old warehouse worker knowing full well his girlfriend was expecting their child.
He turned her down too so she got blocked and flashed her knickers at everyone.
She repeated this 6 weeks later at a retirement party with no success but was disciplined for bringing the company into disrepute and had to give up her management role as nobody could take her seriously. "
Pretty rude of ye all  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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Within the aristocratic party scene, the accepted modus operandi is to arrive late, leave early and strictly maintain your distance from the hired staff.
Any sexual liaisons take place in private and between people of equal social status who can be trusted to secrecy.
It's sound advice; if you want to obliterate your promising career;drink too much; make inappropriate remarks; let fly with what you really think of the staff, and cavort with the d*unk secretaries.
Oh, and if you wake up next day with a monumental hangover and feel as if you're pissing razor blades, resign by text! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally l would never involve myself with a person where l work simply because it's not worth it to either person , it only brings heartache if it doesn't work out and you have to meet or see that person every working day and maybe even when out , so Christmas parties are something that l avoid if l can and any that l go to l would never get involved or fool around with anyone,if it goes wrong ..and it can ..as the ol' saying goes the ride simply isn't worth the fall, there are people out there that want something to talk about . |
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"Last one I was at in 2019 a woman in a office management role was very vocal beforehand about how she was going to shag one of the sales team. They all turned her down on the night so she turned her attention to an 18 year old warehouse worker knowing full well his girlfriend was expecting their child.
He turned her down too so she got blocked and flashed her knickers at everyone.
She repeated this 6 weeks later at a retirement party with no success but was disciplined for bringing the company into disrepute and had to give up her management role as nobody could take her seriously. "
Ho ho ho !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread gives me PTSD. Bosses wife's niece who lived with them at the time in Dublin. Two of us were bananas, I woke up in her bed in his spare room. Left a few months later |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"This thread gives me PTSD. Bosses wife's niece who lived with them at the time in Dublin. Two of us were bananas, I woke up in her bed in his spare room. Left a few months later"
Left the room or the company ....did she tie you up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This thread gives me PTSD. Bosses wife's niece who lived with them at the time in Dublin. Two of us were bananas, I woke up in her bed in his spare room. Left a few months later
Left the room or the company ....did she tie you up "
I left the company and she fucking did tie me up metaphorically. What I wouldn't give for that kind of ride again |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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If you have an interest in no strings attached sex, group sex, DP, etc., the ideal option is to join Fab, and have the wit and discreetness to tell no-one at your workplace and elsewhere about your own special interest.
If you are obliged to attend a workplace Xmas party, treat it like just another business meeting! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you have an interest in no strings attached sex, group sex, DP, etc., the ideal option is to join Fab, and have the wit and discreetness to tell no-one at your workplace and elsewhere about your own special interest.
If you are obliged to attend a workplace Xmas party, treat it like just another business meeting!"
Consider putting this inspirational quote on a photo of a glacier and sell it on etsy. |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
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"Ah I'm talking 20 odd years ago when I was a young man but there was a few married sales reps made the most of the night . PC world now I'd imagine it's a no no alright "
I have a work xmass party soon and I have my eye on someone and he his eye on me. Lots of drinks and who knows   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah I'm talking 20 odd years ago when I was a young man but there was a few married sales reps made the most of the night . PC world now I'd imagine it's a no no alright
I have a work xmass party soon and I have my eye on someone and he his eye on me. Lots of drinks and who knows "
If both want to fuck eachother it shouldn't matter about drink . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Around 20 years ago I slept with the niece of my then boss at a Christmas party.
And around 3 weeks later when I told her i had no interest in a relationship she told his wife..
He wasn't very happy about it and told me he was going to make my life hell.
So I left and got a job with a company he used supply to and he had to deal with me when he was putting quotes in.
I'd say it sickened him. |
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It's not a good move now. Far to many people with itchy thumbs on the camera phone record button.
TBH, I hate work things now and try to avoid as much as possible because the people I work with are a shower of f¥¢k$
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
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"Ah I'm talking 20 odd years ago when I was a young man but there was a few married sales reps made the most of the night . PC world now I'd imagine it's a no no alright
I have a work xmass party soon and I have my eye on someone and he his eye on me. Lots of drinks and who knows
If both want to fuck eachother it shouldn't matter about drink . "
Turns out he's married and wouldn't go there even. He said he'd love to but wouldn't cheat on his wife. Disappointed we didn't do it but happy we never after finding this out. He has my respect for not going for it, especially after so much drink consumed by all of us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah I'm talking 20 odd years ago when I was a young man but there was a few married sales reps made the most of the night . PC world now I'd imagine it's a no no alright
I have a work xmass party soon and I have my eye on someone and he his eye on me. Lots of drinks and who knows
If both want to fuck eachother it shouldn't matter about drink .
Turns out he's married and wouldn't go there even. He said he'd love to but wouldn't cheat on his wife. Disappointed we didn't do it but happy we never after finding this out. He has my respect for not going for it, especially after so much drink consumed by all of us. "
Plenty of restraint on both ye're parts so lol |
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