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One for the guys firstly, do you enjoy going down on a lady for more your pleasure than hers? Personally I could spend hours and hours giving oral if she’s reacting to it. I find it such a turn on to go down and taste her and make her cum using my mouth and tongue.
For the ladies, do you enjoy receiving oral if the guy or girl knows what they’re doing? I know from reading past forums that some ladies don’t particularly like receiving oral and are a little self conscious about it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!
Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice  |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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I enjoy it if she is. It's not important if she doesn't enjoy it though. About 10 minutes is the max I'd spend. If she hasn't come by then it's a waste of both of our time.
And let's be honest here, I'd rather she spent her time sucking my cock anyway. |
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"If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!
Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice "
You got the timer going?  |
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I must say that I love going down on a woman. I'm not a clock watcher and as long as she's really enjoying it I'm happy. I'm not in favour of any time limit whether short or long. The main thing is my partner enjoys it. |
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There doesn't have to be a time limit. It should be instinctual and depending on the woman doesn't always have to have an end goal.
Not all women cum from oral stimulation so even the navy seals among us eventually concede defeat.
From reading the forums and pm's over the years most women prefer variety rather than a one trick pony so if it's your USP it's maybe time to diversify. |
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Absolutely love giving oral to a woman. Have yet to go down on _ vagina that isn't unique and beautiful.
After reading a few articles about 'the orgasm gap' it made me more conscious of satisfying the needs of whomever I'm with just the same, if not more, as my own needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!
Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice
You got the timer going? "
Just timed it off the video |
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The timing of it is crucial. I'm not sure it's the 'first thing' the ladies would want. Where's the kissing, the touching and general exploration? Seems cold to me to have it done first. The more mature guys know the timing better than the younger guys in my experience. Mrs  |
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I love going down there.
The art cunnilingus should be perform, with passion and treat the women as if she is princess, don’t be in hurry to get down and start licking like a dog, the stroke with the tongue shud be gentle and with the wet tip of the tongue, with each stroke the warmth of breath should be there. Stroke should always be made down to up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love going down there.
The art cunnilingus should be perform, with passion and treat the women as if she is princess, don’t be in hurry to get down and start licking like a dog, the stroke with the tongue shud be gentle and with the wet tip of the tongue, with each stroke the warmth of breath should be there. Stroke should always be made down to up."
Surely the stroke should always be how she likes it to be?  |
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These threads always go the same way ... the guys claim to be great at it and love it and the ladies say either that they can take it or leave it, or that the guys are shit at it!
The only way to be 'good at it' is to communicate, listen and respond accordingly.
Tbh its often more to do with our mood at the time, how relaxed we are and what filthy fantasies are going on in our little heads than what you are actually doing down there ... so less of the self-praise please |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"I can live without it if im honest... very rare you get what you want anyway some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit
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Oooooh absofuckingloutly |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips. "
That's the sexiest part of oral sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The hottest fucking thing I’ve ever had done to me was an ex who insisted for the first six weeks or two months of our relationship that she preferred face to face fucking and fingering and that oral was a little disconnecting for her… in general I actually agree with this somewhat… but it went on and on, the sex was amazing but I was literally aching to eat her out… every time she got soaking wet I’d be begging her for a taste
When she finally let me… well neither of us lasted very long is all I can say… she had me wrapped around her fingers that woman  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips.
That's the sexiest part of oral sex "
As you normally say...absolfuckinlutly |
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"I love going down there.
The art cunnilingus should be perform, with passion and treat the women as if she is princess, don’t be in hurry to get down and start licking like a dog, the stroke with the tongue shud be gentle and with the wet tip of the tongue, with each stroke the warmth of breath should be there. Stroke should always be made down to up.
Agreed , i am just saying generally
Surely the stroke should always be how she likes it to be? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can live without it if im honest... very rare you get what you want anyway some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit
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I so agree with you,nail on the head there |
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"I can live without it if im honest... very rare you get what you want anyway some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit
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Same goes for blowjobs unfortunately... and it tends to be those who brag who are the worst. |
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"I can live without it if im honest... very rare you get what you want anyway some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit
Same goes for blowjobs unfortunately... and it tends to be those who brag who are the worst."
I'm shit at everything I do but as long as I enjoy myself,I'm happy... |
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Love it. One of my favourite sexual activities. And the ladies don't complain about my skills either if I'm totally honest.
one memorable time while eating out a pussy I changed it up a bit and I got "oh my god what are you doing? Don't stop!" |
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I love going down on a woman. But it can take a while to get there. Start with a kiss and take your time moving your mouth down her body. When you eventually reach the gates of heaven, start your soft, gentle, wet exploration with soft tongue and lips, unhurried, no goal,... Listen to her body, her sounds, her breathing and follow those cues. Be patient and forget about your own desires for the moment. Never waste a hand, caress her whole body as you taste her, its not just about her clitoris, its a whole body experience. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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AI'm fine with it being a small part of foreplay but in general not a big fan of oral. So 'The-hours-of-oral' are no go territory for me but it's the you-haven't-experienced-yet-good-oral that leave me stunned by arrogance - I'm not a 20 something greenhorn anymore...  
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