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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s been fun, it’s been crazy and it’s been a growing and grounding experience. When I first joined fab I was in awe. Wow! All those men wanting me. It looked like heaven. But then one starts realising what it really is. Just not enough women on fab. The numbers…just the numbers. Thankfully I managed to find the few ones who to vibe with for a little while…Although That should have been enough. I admit I wanted more. Of course I did. As we all do. It becomes addictive at some stage. All stages, the chats, the flirting and the anticipation. But mainly the picture we create in our minds of what a potential amazing lover looks like…..but then things don’t happen the way you expect. Expectation, that’s another mistake… and all that makes you avoid looking into what matters and Keeps you distracted from focusing in the ones that matter.
He was there right in front of me and I was there for him. We didn’t read the signs very well so it got confusing for both and both kept Looking elsewhere. Anyway, thankfully I found my best friend with benefits for life, He was all the time by my side. My husband. I choose him and he chose me back.
I tried others and was fun, I loved every bit of it. I’ve experienced so many things, from terrible to amazing. I’ve learnt so much. It was a humbling experience. I go to know myself in levels that amazed me. It was overwhelming sometimes but it gave me some tools for the future. I wish I had more time to try more things. But that bit was just fine. As a married woman sometimes it’s scary to venture in some stuff. But it’s in our right to be allowed to do so and not to be judged or catalogued as a ‘bad bitch’.
I came to say thanks to those who took a moment to send a nice message. Have sexy and interesting chats with me. Showed respect. Made me smile and felt appreciated, Even though I knew it was just to get in my panties, it meant something. Those who are horny devils but kind at heart and understand that sex isn’t just for a man to take and for a woman to give. Those who seek equal benefit for both parties…. Keep doing that. Never change to fit the criteria of a ‘sex site’. You make the difference and make of sexual exploration a place where to stay.
And Thanks fab for a turbulent but amazing experience. It helped me to find what I was looking for. It was a fab journey but I really hope I don’t need to come back. I wouldn’t anyway I’m leaving Ireland too. I feel sad for Ireland and for fab to be loosing a nice sexy lady, who only tried to put a smile in those who I had the luck to interact with and who is very modest too (it’s really that I know my worth) … But here’s the truth, I always thought Women leaving fab isn’t a good thing. More women single or married should feel safe to try on here, and should feel encouraged and empowered by exploring their sexuality freely…but then it is what it is. Our societies need badly a check up on that…But fab could be a great platform for that. Can it not?
I know I’m not the most popular on here and not many would feel drawn to comment nor will I read this anymore but I just wanted to say all this anyway. It’s an open forum and hopefully some might find this interesting. It’s sad that so Many people don’t dare to express themselves on here for x or y reasons. But I’d like to encourage them do it anyway, come here say what you are thinking, express your feelings and your thoughts openly and show vulnerability, that only makes you more human not less. The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you.
Finally May I ask you please to wish me luck in my marriage 2.0…..and I wholeheartedly hope everyone finds what they look for, even if it lasts a moment. Life is short and it’s worth trying and doing your best to make it enjoyable for a little while.
Ok that’s it….May life put a smile on you very often…
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you.
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you.
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Its the "I know I’m not the most popular on here" bit that has me intrigued.
We'll never know! All the best to her anyway! |
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Awww as a romantic at heart, this is just lovely x
Best of luck OP…I hope you have found your true self and your experiences have shaped you for the better and you are now happy to move on with Himself by your side x
And yes this place can break you at times but it can also make your day…..Days when you arnt feeling it and then you get a random message that makes you smile again…. Days when you just laugh at the Forum posts…. Days when the excitement of a meet builds up…. Days of Meeting new sexy wonderful people….Days of random winks and the excitement of potential…
It may be a sex site but it’s also more than that….at times x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best of luck. Pity there's no name. Would of liked to have gotten to know that person over a cuppa. Would of been an interesting conversation, I'm guessing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yawnnnnnnnnnnnn
Another confession from a ghost"
The amount of times you type yawn is fantastic.
I think like the 14th one was the one that really cemented to me how much better you are than the drivel here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You boys are so mean and cynical !!! It’s romantic!!!! Stop being bold!!!! 
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If that was a dude 90% if the posts would be compassion for the missus now that he has had his taste of playing away... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
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Its yourself Willie welcome back .....I only copied something she wrote in case people missed it |
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"You boys are so mean and cynical !!! It’s romantic!!!! Stop being bold!!!!
If that was a dude 90% if the posts would be compassion for the missus now that he has had his taste of playing away... "
You skipped the bit where “She”’says they both went exploring and now both are back together….
They both played away and now it looks like they found their way back to each other and are giving it another go….
That’s romantic
I don’t see how if it was a Dude anyone wouldn’t support that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
Its yourself Willie welcome back .....I only copied something she wrote in case people missed it "
Why? |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
Its yourself Willie welcome back .....I only copied something she wrote in case people missed it
Why?"
Because I liked what she wrote |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
Its yourself Willie welcome back .....I only copied something she wrote in case people missed it "
WHY THANK U KIND SIR |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Irish forum seems to be intimidating, but I know it’s full of only people. Humans just like me or you. Come say your bit when you feel you need to. There will always be someone who resonates with you. Very true bog man,well said..
Its yourself Willie welcome back .....I only copied something she wrote in case people missed it
Why?
Because I liked what she wrote "
Ah fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yawnnnnnnnnnnnn
Another confession from a ghost
The amount of times you type yawn is fantastic.
I think like the 14th one was the one that really cemented to me how much better you are than the drivel here "
I'm glad you take so much notice dude |
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"You boys are so mean and cynical !!! It’s romantic!!!! Stop being bold!!!!
If that was a dude 90% if the posts would be compassion for the missus now that he has had his taste of playing away...
You skipped the bit where “She”’says they both went exploring and now both are back together….
They both played away and now it looks like they found their way back to each other and are giving it another go….
That’s romantic
I don’t see how if it was a Dude anyone wouldn’t support that? "
I’d give it 6 months…. |
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Wow that was lovely even if it was bittersweet, I'm glad their journey brought them back to each other.
Had my heart broken & fixed by this place a few times but the most recent was only this week. Nice girl, open to exploring but told me she loved me. I fell for it until she admitted she was meeting a different guy every night and loved them all. No problem with open relationships but there needs to be honesty on both sides from the start. Since then I've chatted to some truly lovely people on here who sympathised and cheered me up, also hoping to get in my pants but sure I'll take the compliment 
Here's to more adventures x |
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"You boys are so mean and cynical !!! It’s romantic!!!! Stop being bold!!!!
If that was a dude 90% if the posts would be compassion for the missus now that he has had his taste of playing away...
You skipped the bit where “She”’says they both went exploring and now both are back together….
They both played away and now it looks like they found their way back to each other and are giving it another go….
That’s romantic
I don’t see how if it was a Dude anyone wouldn’t support that?
I’d give it 6 months…."
Nooooooo Jay!!!! They are going to live happily ever after!!!!!!! Don’t spoil it!!!! It’s like a Fab Fairytail!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy for her.
If you've a strong relationship it's really hard to find anything better.
What was it Paul Newman said....
"Why go out for a burger when you can have steak at home"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So pleased for someone to actually work out what and whom they want on this site.
They obviously explored and found out they weren't actually missing what they thought they were.
Well done OP and good luck in your future xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yawnnnnnnnnnnnn
Another confession from a ghost
This 
They will be back in a month "
Fab Hotel California you can check but but you ain't never checking out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's obvious who it is if you read the forums over the last weeks or got messages off her for the secret messaging threads
It's from the account of Rebekah Vardy"
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
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"It's obvious who it is if you read the forums over the last weeks or got messages off her for the secret messaging threads
I'll be dumb now...does that mean something?
Or is it only to satisfy curiosity of punters?
BTW, never heard of her/them myself, so not sure if there is any significance in it
It's from the account of Rebekah Vardy"
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