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Very hard to find woman or cauple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you are referring at not answering as rudeness, you have to take a few factors in consideration, how many messages do couples/women receive a day; does your message stand out and does your profile stand out? If there's 87 different angles of your organ, i don't think it will stand out too much |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Why people are very rude? I'm just looking for fun, like everyone else"
Fab is just a copy of real life..people are rude in real life too
One day men that write these type of threads will realise they alienate the very people they're trying to meet |
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Couples have to be selective about who they trust on here unfortunately as there are a lot of time wasters and stalkers.
We enjoy messaging and a bit of banter and as other comments have said your message needs to stand out. "How are you" one liners don't cut it.
Also we've just blocked a single male this week who was keen to meet then ghosted us when we tried to make a connection and arrange details. |
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Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer |
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"Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer "
Totally agree |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer "
Why is he a Messer because he said he didn't want to meet her ? Men have just the same right to say no as anyone else on here. And to be fair if a woman slates a guy off cos he says he doesn't want to meet her that's a bit sad and pathetic.And any woman who would pay heed to anyone slating someone because they didn't want to meet is as bad. Everyone has the right to say no at any point . |
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Our profile gets a tonne of messages from single lads.
Some stand out,most don’t.
One liners
“Hey you”
“Wanna fuck”
“What’s up”
“You like (with inserted dick pic)”
We don’t bother with these as no effort has been put in.
Also as someone else said here,
We tried to hook up with some lads here we liked.But they were either just interested in sexting (never intended to meet).
Or looked nothing like profile.
So us as a couple are quite selective as we both have to be happy with who joins us.
And I’d say like us,majority of couples are time poor and can’t just meet as soon as message hits the inbox.
So we understand how difficult it is for genuine single lads.
We have met some great lads here,these are the ones who stand out and we tend to keep in contact with after a meet.
It may feel like your been ghosted,
But for us we could be chatting with a couple lads we like,and more messages hit inbox,
Sometimes it’s difficult to answer everyone.
Fabs is a busy site and been admin to the messages is a full time job  |
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"Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer
Why is he a Messer because he said he didn't want to meet her ? Men have just the same right to say no as anyone else on here. And to be fair if a woman slates a guy off cos he says he doesn't want to meet her that's a bit sad and pathetic.And any woman who would pay heed to anyone slating someone because they didn't want to meet is as bad. Everyone has the right to say no at any point ."
It depends if the messaging was leading up to a meet I guess. Some many single males post complain ing about couples not replying but it works both ways |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer
Why is he a Messer because he said he didn't want to meet her ? Men have just the same right to say no as anyone else on here. And to be fair if a woman slates a guy off cos he says he doesn't want to meet her that's a bit sad and pathetic.And any woman who would pay heed to anyone slating someone because they didn't want to meet is as bad. Everyone has the right to say no at any point .
It depends if the messaging was leading up to a meet I guess. Some many single males post complain ing about couples not replying but it works both ways"
They still have a right to say no though it doesn't matter if it is heading towards a meet. I have a couple of times cancelled a meet because someone I was talking to said and did things that made me decide against meeting them. Just because they are a man on here does not mean they have to meet anyone. And to be honest the attitude that they do is horribly entitled by others who expect them to just because they have been chatting. And to slate men who say no in chat groups )and yes I have seen it done before )is pathetic.It is one of the reasons I don't go chat groups anymore too many stories and rumours about others go on in them. |
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"Why do people always do that . When they get a real chance of meeting they run off . A friend on here got a chance to meet one of the fab ladies and he refused . I told him you do know most of the ladies talk to each other and you are fucked now .every body will know you are a messer "
1 - I don't talk to all the other ladies and most certainly not about people I've met.
2- just because a woman is well verified or popular on here doesn't mean she meets the people I want to
3 - lots of well verified guys on here don't hold any appeal to me due to a number of reasons
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Your only on here 2 months i was 3 months on here before i got to meet someone it takes time its not a race ive seen plenty posts about lads not getting meets and there only on here anywhere from a day or few months . Respect goes a long way here its not just another knotch on a bedpost . I like to get to know a person first and have the craic with them . Get involved in forums put up the odd post or even a reply to a topic or maybe go into chat rooms and keep an eye out for meet and greet social for newbies its a way to get going and get verified . Best of luck op  |
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Ive messaged plenty some reply some dont thats the way it is but getting hump over it is not going to change things .maybe my messages dont stand out enough to warrant a reply i dont know but i just take no reply as a no thank you lol. Saying that have to say fair few ladies do reply either way i respect people and respect goes a long way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why people are very rude? I'm just looking for fun, like everyone else"
It's their choice, some may think it's rude but the bottom line is it's their choice , if they're not interested they're not interested..for whatever reason...,some people might think it's rude but women here are swamped with messages everyday, would l be able to reply to every one if l got 100's of messages?? Not a hope would l be able . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another cry baby ....Jesus they're take over here at this stage ...grow up "
Nothing turns me on more than a man posting a poor me I can't get the ride thread. Ladies stop being so rude and spread those legs for the first randomer that slides into your inbox. |
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"Another cry baby ....Jesus they're take over here at this stage ...grow up
Nothing turns me on more than a man posting a poor me I can't get the ride thread. Ladies stop being so rude and spread those legs for the first randomer that slides into your inbox. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another cry baby ....Jesus they're take over here at this stage ...grow up
Nothing turns me on more than a man posting a poor me I can't get the ride thread. Ladies stop being so rude and spread those legs for the first randomer that slides into your inbox. "
Them poor boys... sur God help them....home to d'mother with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe crack one off before you start sending messages, if you're not howling for it maybe you might come across better.
Maybe you're just an assh@le, or maybe you're a fantastic person.
If you actually out some effort in you can meet some people on here for fun, but unless you're a lady or Tom Hardy you won't have them kicking down your door |
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I have met some lovely people here and had great fun and I’d like to think that for every 10 msg I send I get 1-2 reply which is quite shite but ya know….you just gotta keep plugging away and put ur best foot forward. |
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