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Sex with an ex. Yes or no?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what terms the relationship ended, and most importantly that you are both clear it's just sex, if either one has feelings left there, then you are gonna end up with a headache |
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"Depends on what terms the relationship ended, and most importantly that you are both clear it's just sex, if either one has feelings left there, then you are gonna end up with a headache "
Hear hear.
Exactly what I was thinking
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope I'd rather eat my own vomit than shag any of my ex's again. And not because it was always that we broke up on bad terms but because they are an ex for a reason and once we broke up all interest I had in getting naked with them was gone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can barely do fwb without it getting complicated.
Going back to an ex even just for fun sends out the wrong signals.
I'm lucky enough not to have had traumatic breakups like some may have had however I'd still wouldn't not even to dip the stick. |
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"Nope I'd rather eat my own vomit than shag any of my ex's again. And not because it was always that we broke up on bad terms but because they are an ex for a reason and once we broke up all interest I had in getting naked with them was gone. "
Yeah I get that too. It's about the only thing I would still do with her to be honest. Like I was super tempted. But I know I made the right choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not. I had that relationship where sex was the only thing we both enjoyed together and after we broke up we kept at it for months which was insanely unhealthy. Prolonged the breakup which was a mind fuck altogether. |
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Have done, will do again. Have plans for exactly that rather soon.
They might well be an ex for a reason but that doesn't necessarily mean a bonk would be a bad idea. If anything they know what I like and I know what they like. But then some of my exes are some of my best friends and a few have been safety check in buddies for what I get up to here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm meeting an ex girlfriend the night I get home to Donegal for Christmas. Some relationships end on great terms and casual sex can be long lasting (7 years for me and my ex) and commitment free. |
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"I recently refused sex with an ex. There is a first for everything I suppose. What do you guys think? Sex with an ex, Good idea or bad idea?"
If I can have sex with your ex’s I’ll let you have sex with mine
Does that solve the quandary?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But what do you think to have sex with your best friend ?"
My long-term partner is my best friend, why would I be closer with someone else? So yes, I have a lot of sex with my best friend |
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Male here. I've had sex with an ex. She was a long time ex, talking years from break up to hook up. We were both single at the time and had what she called a "Winter romance". I didn't know that was a thing but she basically wanted someone to have for the dark evenings and chill. Was a fun few months and we'd still be friendly to this day.
Wouldn't dream of going near any other ex though. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
It depends on the reasons for the original split and the specific circumstances
In general it's best to keep moving forward; learn from past experiences and move on to new pastures.
Everyone changes; and the vast majority of people develop and improve; going back is regressive rather than progressive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"1 or two possibly, but I think the longer the term we were a couple the more horrible it would be. I would have to be very stuck
That's every fuckin day for "
Your luck will change  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did the sex with an ex for a couple of months. It's handy when your still single and horny. Also once your clear your both just doing it for the sex it can be a whole lot of fun. The term I didn't know you liked that often popped up  |
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
"Why not if ye went separate ways and stayed as "friends"?! "
Precisely that, Maybe I am the lucky one, who never experienced any drama or have bad feelings about break-ups, just something, which happens, people do get separate ways. Have no hard or bad feelings towards any of my ex/es - and I believe it's mutual - so, as I've said. Have no problems to have another ride or two with any of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have no problem whatsoever in this as it's only sex , some would definitely be angry fucks, but so long as they were in shape id be down for it ..... Panda Style |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always wondered what would happen. Would i turn it down....no i dont think i would. Broke up for the wrong reasons both know it and both regret it. We moved on but i just feel we both would love to. |
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