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Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo |
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"Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo"
. 100% agreed
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Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people ruin a perfectly good thread by trying to stop all the jokes and funny posts that are posted instead of the serious post that the Op started with.
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Grow up 
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"
This 100% |
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"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"
this happens more often than you’d think to couples as well
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"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?! this happens more often than you’d think to couples as well "
I’m sure it does, and women too. I’m not suggesting it’s just a thing that happens to men.
I just think it’s such a weird thing to do! |
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"Listen, I’d be here all day!  but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer."
Even I know that's true
A peeve is not getting any reply or even a deleted message... Are they mail hunters?? |
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"Listen, I’d be here all day! but seriously, if I was to choose one thing, it’s the inability of a significant amount of men to take “no” as an answer.
Even I know that's true
A peeve is not getting any reply or even a deleted message... Are they mail hunters??"
we always reply to everyone … even ifs a simple no thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they fab your pics and their profile is either hidden or they dont accept guys that are over their age preferences .
Then dont fab the pictures !!?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When guys don’t read the profile, especially where it says about not being gay/bi, but still message saying “want your cock sucked?” or “fancy a blowjob?”. Er…..no, if I did I would’ve said in the profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When woman delete messages without responding and then sit and complain about manners and respect. "
Add a bio to your profile along with a profile pic, as well as a few varying pictures and his peeve may go away. |
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"People who don't understand that fabbing a pic is also just a way of expressing appreciation of what is being fabbed (time, effort, imagination, humour, physique etc that went into the pic) rather than an interest to chat, meet or anything other/more .
I fab male pics but we aren't looking to meet men - does that mean we shouldn't be "permitted" to just because it's a pet peeve of some of you  Mrs
fab away that’s what they’re uploaded for lol and to gain interest for meets too of course  "
See, I had to go and look now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is one thing that makes me cringe, more so than it annoys me. When I hear or read the line "Isn't this supposed to be a sex site"
For me, that quote falls into the same bracket as "u free now" or "fancy a fuck", on par with the unsolicited dick pic.
Gentlemen if you are reading this and seeing a pattern forming...................
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"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc "
Hear hear
Unsolicited friend requests from blokes. Flattered but no  |
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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago
tipperary |
"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.
Once got one where said toilet was full..... "
Omg yesssssssss
Seriously at what point in a man’s mind do they think this is gonna turn any woman on . |
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"Moaners
Experts
Lists
Irony
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I tell ya, I'm really quiet, never moan 
I'm an expert in writing lists and only ever actioning half of what's on these 
But I'll be damned if I'm going to do the ironing |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Moaners
Experts
Lists
Irony
I tell ya, I'm really quiet, never moan
I'm an expert in writing lists and only ever actioning half of what's on these
But I'll be damned if I'm going to do the ironing "
The one thing I'm good at.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yea you get a fab or a wink and you go to check out who sent it to see if they interest you and bang big white screen with the person has hidden there profile. Honestly if someone hides there profile they should not be able to interact with those who are not hidden imo"
So if someome wants a breather from new messages or is just taking a break for whatever reason they shouldn't be able to interact with others? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they fab your pics and their profile is either hidden or they dont accept guys that are over their age preferences .
Then dont fab the pictures !!??"
Are we not allowed to appreciate a good picture without any other agenda? |
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"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.
Once got one where said toilet was full.....
Omg yesssssssss
Seriously at what point in a man’s mind do they think this is gonna turn any woman on . "
I suppose it's worse than the messy bedroom pics the ladies have a tendency to put up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People moaning in forum threads…
Yeah but everyone loves a good moan exactly what you just did . You just had a moan on a forum thread about others who moan on forum threads ! Lol  "
I also can’t stand people who contradict themselves……..
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"Receiving pictures of penises over toilets.
Once got one where said toilet was full.....
A number 1 or a number 2
No.1, with strong evidence of dehydration "
the colour of strong tea …. Lol dirty bastard |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"The biggest pet peeve I have is writing to someone that has looked at you and winked and you write to them and be respectful and get absolutely nothing back "
Some women wink hundreds of men for no reason other than to get noticed and for the men to fab their picture so they get onto the first page of The hot Irish Pictures .....don't worry about it |
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"When woman delete messages without responding and then sit and complain about manners and respect.
Add a bio to your profile along with a profile pic, as well as a few varying pictures and his peeve may go away."
Nothing to do with me. I met a woman on here 3 years ago and we still see each other which is why its blank. I only use this for the forum and looking at cams. I’m just stating woman complain a lot and i mean a fucking lot on here about respect and manners yet show none themselves.
Whatever happened to treating others how you expect to be treated? |
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"It’s easy to reply to 4 messages, extremely difficult to respond to 400
No one is owned anything here, ye fellas are doing yourselves no favours"
it only gets to 400 if
Your too up your own arse to reply to any …. We always reply … even if to say no thanks |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I have no peeves, it's not the fault of the site that some people are just tossers."
Yep pretty much this for me too and I tend to avoid the people I don't like or I think are cockwombles.Makes life so much easier on here I've found |
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"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!
This 100% "
Certainly drives me mad.
That plus the one where your just outside someone's age preferences as in the person is 40, and your 38 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being able to add emojis to the middle of a message once it’s typed, they go straight to the end.
That is a very serious pet peeve of mine too "
Yes! |
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"On the site 3 years.
No verifications
Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club?
No torys here on the Irish forums. Check out the uk one for them. "
You had a sly dig at me there based on what i posted. You think your verification status makes you better than those aint. Thinking your social standing makes you better than someone else is literal tory behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the site 3 years.
No verifications
Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too ! "
I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"On the site 3 years.
No verifications
Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too !
I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified "
Rubs posted a thread some time last year with a list of all the emojis that worked here, it’s more than the list on the forum or in PM’s, I had it saves in a tab and I would go back and forth and look them up and copy them into posts and messages.
Unfortunately, I changed my phone recently and during the upload and download I lost the tabs I had open and I lost the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc "
That's just typical of the irish hoping it's someone they know for gossip reasons...
And their private pics are the same as public |
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"On the site 3 years.
No verifications
Oh some have but prefer not to make public we have recently decided to hide ours too !
I don't show my actual verifications, but show when i last was verified
Rubs posted a thread some time last year with a list of all the emojis that worked here, it’s more than the list on the forum or in PM’s, I had it saves in a tab and I would go back and forth and look them up and copy them into posts and messages.
Unfortunately, I changed my phone recently and during the upload and download I lost the tabs I had open and I lost the thread."
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1208451 |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……
And thanks for posting the link…. 
I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again….. |
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"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……
And thanks for posting the link….
I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again….. "
Great minds hey  |
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"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……
And thanks for posting the link….
I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again….. "
I just copied and pasted all the emojis into the notes section on our profile so I don't have to go rummaging in the forum |
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"On the emoji peeve, not giving list in private messages like they do on forum posts is one for me. If I had anyone to private message it would definitely be top of my list. "
You get the list in private messages when you are a site supporter... |
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"Another we hate is people who have added you as a friend but yet have no desire or interest in meeting you ever … but want to see your private pics etc
That's just typical of the irish hoping it's someone they know for gossip reasons...
And their private pics are the same as public "
100% agreed |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"On the emoji peeve, not giving list in private messages like they do on forum posts is one for me. If I had anyone to private message it would definitely be top of my list.
You get the list in private messages when you are a site supporter..."
It would be far earlier if the forum accepted phone emojis….. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I just switched on my old phone again and the the tab was still open, delighted I am……
And thanks for posting the link….
I started a new thread so I’d be able to find it again…..
Great minds hey "
I’ll assume you mean your minds….. |
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By *rHardCMan
over a year ago
Funtown |
Not really a peeve... as i understand lady's here get 100's of messages.. but the unread cam leave a guy questing did they see it..
but the mark as u read is a odd choice.. normally try say im not interested to anyone im not, i get when u get 100's ur not here to be a secretary...
Anyway fab is brilliant for the most.. |
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"Being ghosted by someone. I just find it bizarre that you could be having great aul chats with someone and then…nothing. It’s not like I’m not going to get over it or anything, I’m a big boy. But whatever happened to basic manners?!"
100% this
Just be honest and say why they don't wanna chat anymore. |
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"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.
Strange…
It generally means "no interest, thanks"
So delete the message0….."
Personally, I tend to reply, even with a no thanks and then delete.
Not everyone keeps a tidy inbox daily...hence I wouldn't pay any heed to undeleted messages either. |
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"Not really a peeve... as i understand lady's here get 100's of messages.. but the unread cam leave a guy questing did they see it..
but the mark as u read is a odd choice.. normally try say im not interested to anyone im not, i get when u get 100's ur not here to be a secretary...
Anyway fab is brilliant for the most.."
Personally, I mark as unread until I have conferred with himself and the time (and inclination) to respond.
If marked unread and deleted by ourselves, it's generally a rude/obnoxious message, a FAF, a dozenth repeat message or some such, which I tend not to respond to anymore... |
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By *rHardCMan
over a year ago
Funtown |
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Personally, I mark as unread until I have conferred with himself and the time (and inclination) to respond.
If marked unread and deleted by ourselves, it's generally a rude/obnoxious message, a FAF, a dozenth repeat message or some such, which I tend not to respond to anymore..."
Id totally get the rude or obnoxious side of not replying and even deleting not interested meassages but my messages are only "hello's and might said profile fancy chatting.."
either way not really a peeve.. just a fab thing n i guess, n ya reply to what ya want too or react in what ever way ya want.....
Normally i think deleting rude messages is enough.. even if its multiple times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my peeve is all the Sydney University posts. like really do Sydney University care that much?
one line conversation too. in particular with the under 35's  |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Realistically, there is a diverse range of people on this (and other) swinging sites some of whom are engaging in behaviours that are more likely to lead to success, in the sense of meets that will be sexually complimentary, whilst others, for a host of reasons are behaving erroneously or mistakenly.
I don't have any peeves with this site, because I cannot and now would not try to correct the errors that, in my opinion, other members are committing.
Errors and successful acts of others vicariously enhance my education and experience, making it more likely that I will achieve my swinging objectives in due course, in the end.
Internalised peeves are beneficial to me, whereas openly articulated peeves simply irritate others.
When my future partner in crime are engaging in a successful foursome, and all that that meet entails peeves about this site will be the very furthest thought from my mind! |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"When you message folk, they read the message but dont reply or delete it.
Strange…
It generally means "no interest, thanks"
So delete the message0….."
Or you could delete your sent messages so you aren't constantly checking them to see if they are read or unread or deleted.I do that with any sent messages I sent if I get a reply then great if I don't it doesn't bother me as I'm not checking them to see. |
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"On the site 3 years.
No verifications
Hahahahahah sorry lad are us unverified peasents not allowed in your bad tory club?
No torys here on the Irish forums. Check out the uk one for them.
You had a sly dig at me there based on what i posted. You think your verification status makes you better than those aint. Thinking your social standing makes you better than someone else is literal tory behaviour. "
If that's your thinking. There must be alot of people living rent free in your head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them"
Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride |
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"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them
Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "
will ya shift my friend lol |
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"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them
Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "
Tell her I’ll be over when I finish my lemonade |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
cork |
"One word replies.
You both have a mutual attraction, you try to get to know them and all you're getting is one word replies. Nothing turns me off quicker. "
Would one word replies not mean that there might not be the same “mutual attraction” from the one word reply side as you might think ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them
Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride "
We think your a ride |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fellas treating fab like it’s a school disco, feeling sorry for themselves because the girls won’t dance with them
Will you dance with my friend she thinks you're a ride will ya shift my friend lol "
Only if she shifts mine
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One thing that we have seen recently is with some profiles that have obviously been on for multiple years that they have public pics from multiple years ago like some one had public pics from 2014 |
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By mutual attraction I mean we share face pics, both say we like the other and then once you try make conversation and try get to know each other, the conversation is just dead.
Maybe the attraction isn't there but why say it is if that's the case lol? We're all adults and can handle rejection, well most of us haha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When guys don’t read the profile, especially where it says about not being gay/bi, but still message saying “want your cock sucked?” or “fancy a blowjob?”. Er…..no, if I did I would’ve said in the profile! "
That's why we have filters |
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1).No pic no reply from a profile with zero pics on their profile.
2).ladies profile who says they are straight but only want to meet women, just a heads up there you are not straight if you only want to meet women. |
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"Coming on the forums to interact but ending up just watching the "in crowd" chatting amongst themselves"
no such thing as the “in crowd “ and if there was why would you want to fit “in” … we prefer to stand out and if they don’t like it …. Then bud bye we say lol
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