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Men mailing straight men - why?
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By *orad OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin / Galway |
Been on sites for approx 25 years, but never seen so many bi/gay men mailing clearly and obviously straight men for M2M fun. Whats that about?
I know the ladies here have bemoaned lads not reading their profiles for eons, but surely this is the ultimate waste of time? |
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"Been on sites for approx 25 years, but never seen so many bi/gay men mailing clearly and obviously straight men for M2M fun. Whats that about?
I know the ladies here have bemoaned lads not reading their profiles for eons, but surely this is the ultimate waste of time? "
Boredom I would say. Anything to have contact with another person maybe. Lots of reasons and none of them healthy |
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By *orad OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin / Galway |
I get the filter point, I just dont understand why anyone would bother in such a futile exercise. There are plenty of bi/gay men on this and other more bespoke sites. The effort/return must be dire. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Filters to block men from messaging
The men that message you are hoping that the men that they message are also hiding their sexuality
Some men on here have a profile stating ....men stop messaging me Im not gay
Then on their fabguys have pics and verifications showing otherwise
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OP is talking about Gay and Bi man contacting straight guys, but I have in my profile Bi but gets lots and lots of messages from guys with Straight on their profiles, also lots of guys with straight have verification from other guys. |
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Likewise I get straight men contacting me! Guess people often don’t put up the truth encase they are found out. I will fab a straight man’s pic even say he looks great but respect he’s straight. I have meet up with straight men and went for a drink it’s not just all sex. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
Op,I'm surprised that in your 25 years of 'being on sites' you've never learned about the fab straight. There's a fair amount of 'straight' men that aren't that straight but wouldn't declare it on their profile for whatever reason. So in other words what you describe as a futile exercise, is actually a fab mining process to find those nuggets. |
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By *ubkidMan
over a year ago
University |
"Op,I'm surprised that in your 25 years of 'being on sites' you've never learned about the fab straight. There's a fair amount of 'straight' men that aren't that straight but wouldn't declare it on their profile for whatever reason. So in other words what you describe as a futile exercise, is actually a fab mining process to find those nuggets. "
Beautifully put! xD |
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"Op,I'm surprised that in your 25 years of 'being on sites' you've never learned about the fab straight. There's a fair amount of 'straight' men that aren't that straight but wouldn't declare it on their profile for whatever reason. So in other words what you describe as a futile exercise, is actually a fab mining process to find those nuggets.
Beautifully put! xD"
Guys even put straight on their fabguy profiles |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Op,I'm surprised that in your 25 years of 'being on sites' you've never learned about the fab straight. There's a fair amount of 'straight' men that aren't that straight but wouldn't declare it on their profile for whatever reason. So in other words what you describe as a futile exercise, is actually a fab mining process to find those nuggets.
Beautifully put! xD
Guys even put straight on their fabguy profiles"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just taking a chance that the other guy is not so straight after all.
I've messaged guys who identify as straight and they were up for it.
I also have guys messaging me who identify as straight. |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
They can be a pest alright but put on filters....lots of chancers on here...
Although, there are also a lot of 'fab straight' men on here who don't mind meeting men on occasion...
I cannot understand why you just can't be open about your sexuality! 
B x |
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"Been on sites for approx 25 years, but never seen so many bi/gay men mailing clearly and obviously straight men for M2M fun. Whats that about?
I know the ladies here have bemoaned lads not reading their profiles for eons, but surely this is the ultimate waste of time? "
There would appear to be a fair sprinkling of bi or at least bi-curious men here listed as straight for whatever reason. I suspect the gay men who are mailing straight men are aware of that and are just testing the waters.
I've occasionally had messages from other "straight" men looking to suck my cock. In that scenario both of us end up being confused   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been on sites for approx 25 years, but never seen so many bi/gay men mailing clearly and obviously straight men for M2M fun. Whats that about?
I know the ladies here have bemoaned lads not reading their profiles for eons, but surely this is the ultimate waste of time? "
Probably for the same reason that men who profess to be straight message bi or gay men profile s
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a lot of these messages. Even though I state that I’m straight and have in my profile that I’m not into guys so not to bother messaging. Just shows that they haven’t read the profile |
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It's kind of amusing to see men getting frustrated over other men disregarding their boundaries.
Something that women have to learn to deal with from a young age seems to be a brand new discovery to grown up men...
Missus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have messaged straight men and bi men.
The reason I have is to find a guy to join an ex lady friend and I for a straight mfm.
I have no issues regarding their sexual preferences as long as they play straight in a group setting.
But if a guy messages me regarding a sexual proposal with me, im polite and decline their offer.
Costs nothing to be nice!!?? |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
There are several obvious reasons why single guys (on a swinging website) message other guys who have profiled themselves as being straight; I am usually unwilling to block anyone from contacting me, but when their behaviour is repeated, blocking is the simplest solution.
I suspect they believe that some guys may not be entirely honest about their sexuality, or may be susceptible to persuasion, if they are persistent.
If any of them read this, take note: I am NOT at all interested!
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"There are several obvious reasons why single guys (on a swinging website) message other guys who have profiled themselves as being straight; I am usually unwilling to block anyone from contacting me, but when their behaviour is repeated, blocking is the simplest solution.
I suspect they believe that some guys may not be entirely honest about their sexuality, or may be susceptible to persuasion, if they are persistent.
If any of them read this, take note: I am NOT at all interested!
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Do men message blank profiles offering blow jobs as well as profiles with a picture |
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"They can be a pest alright but put on filters....lots of chancers on here...
Although, there are also a lot of 'fab straight' men on here who don't mind meeting men on occasion...
I cannot understand why you just can't be open about your sexuality!
B x"
You honestly can't understand why ... Given ffbi has always be far more acceptable culturally than mmbi?
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"Just taking a chance that the other guy is not so straight after all.
I've messaged guys who identify as straight and they were up for it.
I also have guys messaging me who identify as straight. "
And for some bi/gay men it's a kink to "turn" a straight man, and possibly also for the "straight" man who's being "turned".
Whatever way you identify, regardless of what your profile states, the bottom line is, anyone who doesn't want to be contacted by men, use your filters and block men from messaging you, then you can't be messaged to start with, or repeatedly for that matter or pestered. Otherwise, if you do enjoy engaging in chat with other men who do respect boundaries, block those who don't or you'll just have to put up and... well, I'll keep it polite |
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It's actually kind of, sort of flattering. I've never felt like taking a guy up on his offer but....I think it's just good manners to respond to someone if they are friendly and respectful.
That what I hope for if I message a lady.
I've never had anyone get nasty over giving them a polite "no thanks but appreciate the thought". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a bisexual man. Just today I decided to turn on the filter. The amount of so called straight men messaging me totally weirded me out. So I can imagine how a straight guy would feel about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's kind of amusing to see men getting frustrated over other men disregarding their boundaries.
Something that women have to learn to deal with from a young age seems to be a brand new discovery to grown up men...
Missus "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of guys on this site say they’re straight but are actually bi because there’s a lot of women who look down on bi men here or being bi makes it harder to get women.
I don’t mind guys messaging me as long as they respect that I’m straight and not interested. But they always follow up with drugs ?! If I’m not interested when I’m sober I won’t be if you offer . It makes me feel sleazy and gross when guys do that. I dont care how high and horny you are… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a bi couple and it's stated clearly we are only interested in bi people .and also state no straight males .
And yip straight males every day .the answer is easy block button. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Id imagine most of the straight men laugh when they see posts about fab straight or a few pints to change you
A few pints is not going to change a straight man....but it might make it easier for a bi curious man to experiment...not too many pints though in fairness
If you're straight you're straight
If your curious you might never get the chance to act on it but hopefully you do
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"Just taking a chance that the other guy is not so straight after all.
I've messaged guys who identify as straight and they were up for it.
I also have guys messaging me who identify as straight.
And for some bi/gay men it's a kink to "turn" a straight man, and possibly also for the "straight" man who's being "turned".
Whatever way you identify, regardless of what your profile states, the bottom line is, anyone who doesn't want to be contacted by men, use your filters and block men from messaging you, then you can't be messaged to start with, or repeatedly for that matter or pestered. Otherwise, if you do enjoy engaging in chat with other men who do respect boundaries, block those who don't or you'll just have to put up and... well, I'll keep it polite "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It goes the other way around too. I have had straight men message me. Its very annoying.
Why do they message you ....are they secretly bi "
Ffs mate thought that convo was between just us  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"A guy mailed me yesterday a said he would pay me to wank on his face! Was a bit offended
How much was he offering...asking for a friend "
Five dolla Five dolla he wank you long time |
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By *oxo4319Man
over a year ago
North Dublin |
"A guy mailed me yesterday a said he would pay me to wank on his face! Was a bit offended
How much was he offering...asking for a friend
Five dolla Five dolla he wank you long time "
Happens me alot thankfully actualy I'd rather it didn't sure I'm getting bombarded today |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says gay.
99% of the guys who message me wanting to meet say they are straight on their profile.
Its no big deal, there are message filters available for those that require them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow that's so strange men not reading the profile and messaging even though they aren't what you're looking for. Phew at least us ladies don't need to worry about that ever happening... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow that's so strange men not reading the profile and messaging even though they aren't what you're looking for. Phew at least us ladies don't need to worry about that ever happening..."
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