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We do both together and separately. How successful we are is usually dependent upon how organised in advance it is, last minute rarely works, vanilla or non vanilla in our experience and vanilla is vanilla with us even with fabbers. Remember there's so much more to life than fab and vanilla can be so much fun, just differently. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot |
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"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot"
Two flights too knock pls lol |
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"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot"
it's HOT, happened on a random vanilla weekend last weekend ... was mental  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy "
I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot
it's HOT, happened on a random vanilla weekend last weekend ... was mental "
I bet it was! I do think back to that night and wish I had just gone with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a couple try pick me up pre fab so I wasn't open to it then but if the same thing hpnd now I would... the spontaneity of it would make it all the more hot
Two flights too knock pls lol "
Lol  |
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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago
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"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy
I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related"
Ok in that case no we don't lol |
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"We mostly just do nights for just us but sometimes we might have a look on the who's near and see if anyone tickles our fancy
I'm more talking about just picking someoneup at the bar, not fab related"
Oh, misunderstood the OP. No we wouldn't if it was a vanilla night out. |
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We don’t at all to be honest, but if we begin to chat to a couple we don’t hide ourselves - we have a game we play which is pick your top ten (male/female-I’m bi) and we don’t give a hoot if one of the contenders walk by……. Long story short it brings up questions so the answer is ….. unintentionally have had couples join us but we didn’t pursue them but they were curious.
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Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.
You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?
The atmosphere changes that way.
And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away 
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"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.
that's such a good way of describing it
You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?
The atmosphere changes that way.
And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away
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"it must far easier for a couple to pull a single guy than another couple or single girl"
Very much doubt that!
Any vanilla guy would go "fuck yeah" in an instant, then think how awkward it will be for him to be around male half of said couple and it will just turn into a floppy dick so they'll back out to save face.
My thinking anyway
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"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.
You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?
The atmosphere changes that way.
And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away
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...either that or they ASSUME you want to fuck them |
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we have thought people were swinging but they weren't. very awkward and yes they think you are weird and move away. honestly its funny because we just said it and yes swinging is not about jumping into bed all the time. social side is great and an added bonus is when you get on with each other |
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"Never tried to "pick someone up" but generally find if we get chatting to any vanilla people on a night out and tell them that we are swingers even if we have zero interest or attraction to people we're chatting to - you can almost smell how the atmosphere changes and not in a good way.
You know the way straight guys assume that all gay men fancy them and most definitely will make a move on them just because they're guys?
The atmosphere changes that way.
And a few awkward giggles later vanilla people usually back away
...either that or they ASSUME you want to fuck them "
That's literally what I just said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do ye go on a vanilla night out looking for singles/couples to join ye?
We have cum lose to it once or twice and funny enough it was with bar/lounge staff
Mr dirty xx"
Chatting or just looks?? |
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