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Why is it so hard to get meets???
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Single guys yer not alone .. lol
We’ve been on numerous weekends away well preposted here from Donegal to Sligo, Mayo and the Midland. Every time we message and send winks to couples and women it the area and very few even reply. Why is this we’re just curious can anyone enlightened us as to what we’re doing wrong.. |
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probably because you are after the same thing that all the single guys are after, women and couples.. i have never been to one but have been told that m&g meets and social evenings is the best way to gain traction, i assume even more so as a couple. worth a try |
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It's probably exactly the same as anyone who doesn't get replies.
Maybe they just don't feel they fit what you are looking for.
Maybe they prefer to chat for a while rather than meet quickly.
Maybe the location or time doesn't suit them.
Maybe they want more than just girl on girl.
It doesn't have to be any of the above or it could be all of them.
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over a year ago
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So your on a weekend away and post a meet and hope someone in the area is willing to drop all and meet
most people work, have family commitments, can't get babysitters at the drop of a hat, etc
Than we have the dynamics of finding 4 people that are attracted to each other from chatting with couples if one isn't attracted to one of the party they not going to take one for the team. A lot of people would like a social first to see if there's an attraction.
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"Single guys yer not alone .. lol
We’ve been on numerous weekends away well preposted here from Donegal to Sligo, Mayo and the Midland. Every time we message and send winks to couples and women it the area and very few even reply. Why is this we’re just curious can anyone enlightened us as to what we’re doing wrong.. "
Simple .. you didn't cum to wexford  |
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"So your on a weekend away and post a meet and hope someone in the area is willing to drop all and meet
most people work, have family commitments, can't get babysitters at the drop of a hat, etc
Than we have the dynamics of finding 4 people that are attracted to each other from chatting with couples if one isn't attracted to one of the party they not going to take one for the team. A lot of people would like a social first to see if there's an attraction.
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Pretty much this. I posted the same on another thread, but we know when we post a meet that the chances are slim of us finding someone mutually compatible who is free when we are. Add into the mix that you guys don't share face photos and you're reducing the number even more |
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A lot of people already have plans/ commitments
If looking to meet a couple there would have to be attraction all round and unless youre sending pics of both of you with said message the vast majority of the pic on profile are of the female half so it isnt going to be as enticing to couples/women as say a profile with equal percentage of pics. |
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over a year ago
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I'm a single Mammy so for me personally takes lot of time to organise my meets. I'm not going to drop everything and meet people because they happen to be in the area. Maybe try putting up in the meets section a week before to give people notice you're looking for meet. |
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"A lot of people already have plans/ commitments
If looking to meet a couple there would have to be attraction all round and unless youre sending pics of both of you with said message the vast majority of the pic on profile are of the female half so it isnt going to be as enticing to couples/women as say a profile with equal percentage of pics. "
Yep and many couples don't do blind meets anyway, even after a face pic swap. There would have to be a social first. |
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It's fab , sadly the place is full of Timewasters and ghosters, people who are only here and have no intention of every meeting , they will lead you on with the intention of meeting but never do,it's understandable that not everyone floats a person's boat but don't lead people on, it's not cool, the forums and updated status's are full of the same. |
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"It's simply a matter of numbers here. You will obv have a lot of timewasters, but Ireland is not like the UK where population density makes meets a lot easier."
And yet the Lounge is full of daily threads about no shows,being ghosted and how difficult it is to meet reliable people as well as numerous people discussing all the same issues we have here including privacy and facepics.
It's not really much different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single guys yer not alone .. lol
We’ve been on numerous weekends away well preposted here from Donegal to Sligo, Mayo and the Midland. Every time we message and send winks to couples and women it the area and very few even reply. Why is this we’re just curious can anyone enlightened us as to what we’re doing wrong.. "
I've always found it harder to arrange meets as a couple than as a single guy. As a couple I/we preferred the no pressure meets and playing at parties and clubs.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe try chatting and sending the winks a week or two before ye go, and give the others a chance to plan rather than think they can drop everything that weekend |
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"A weekend break for you is just a normal day for those who live in the area. The urgency for you is not an urgency for them. "
I just love when randos I never spoke to let us know they're nearby - such a turn on!
I immediately cancel all work and plans and jump in the shower to shave my flaps just in case they want sex too.
Bonus points if it's a blind date too or they have a mate who's not on fab but likes our photos.
Favourite thing ever! |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
It’s pretty much all been said as to why the “we’re staying near you next weekend/ tomorrow/ right now, fancy meeting?” messages aren’t practical for us to respond positively to… but we’d also like to throw her cycle and our self enforced play meet grooming readiness into the mix as two ADDITIONAL practicalities for couples like us. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"A weekend break for you is just a normal day for those who live in the area. The urgency for you is not an urgency for them.
I just love when randos I never spoke to let us know they're nearby - such a turn on!
I immediately cancel all work and plans and jump in the shower to shave my flaps just in case they want sex too.
Bonus points if it's a blind date too or they have a mate who's not on fab but likes our photos.
Favourite thing ever! "
Since you wrote shave my flaps my legs have been crossed and I don't even have flaps  |
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"A weekend break for you is just a normal day for those who live in the area. The urgency for you is not an urgency for them.
I just love when randos I never spoke to let us know they're nearby - such a turn on!
I immediately cancel all work and plans and jump in the shower to shave my flaps just in case they want sex too.
Bonus points if it's a blind date too or they have a mate who's not on fab but likes our photos.
Favourite thing ever! "
You have hairy flaps ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend.. "
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice "
that's shite DD  |
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice "
I’m afraid that happens all too often hope ye called in a substitute and made the most of the opportunity..  |
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice
I’m afraid that happens all too often hope ye called in a substitute and made the most of the opportunity.. "
Unfortunately can't find a sub either lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice
I’m afraid that happens all too often hope ye called in a substitute and made the most of the opportunity..
Unfortunately can't find a sub either lol"
Men of Sligo
Get your act together and someone treat this nice lady to a coffee and a chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice
I’m afraid that happens all too often hope ye called in a substitute and made the most of the opportunity..
Unfortunately can't find a sub either lol
Men of Sligo
Get your act together and someone treat this nice lady to a coffee and a chat "
This was a guy from Belfast lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the posts and the messages we appreciate them.. guess if it was easy they’d all be at it.. lol
Enjoy your weekend..
Was supposed to have a coffee meet this afternoon he's already cancelled 2 wks ago but thought I'd give him a 2nd chance, man flu has come on since 9pm Thursday eve, so cancelled on twice
I’m afraid that happens all too often hope ye called in a substitute and made the most of the opportunity..
Unfortunately can't find a sub either lol
Men of Sligo
Get your act together and someone treat this nice lady to a coffee and a chat
This was a guy from Belfast lol"
Guy from Belfast!!!, don't commit to something you can't follow through with  |
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
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"Single guys yer not alone .. lol
We’ve been on numerous weekends away well preposted here from Donegal to Sligo, Mayo and the Midland. Every time we message and send winks to couples and women it the area and very few even reply. Why is this we’re just curious can anyone enlightened us as to what we’re doing wrong.. "
Well we winked you few month ago and nothing happened. We not always get what we want 
Keep up the good game |
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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago
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Most people on here have no intention of meeting up.About 10% of cpls on here meet up and 5% of the single ladies.Everyone else just leads you on and wastes your time.Go to the clubs over in the UK,there good / This site is all about putting pictures up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some things that stand out.
1.Couples profile but only a pic of mrs.
2. You don't send face pics.
3. Looking for girl to girl fun so the fella won't be there?
4. Says yer are friends so not a couple. I'd imagine this is off putting for alot of people.
5. Maybe people don't find ye attractive |
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