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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK so let's ban the word average
How about we promote ourselves and each other positively...
I'm curvy with some beautiful curves that a good mark 2 would enjoy but I'm also a gal who just likes people to be happy and if I can make someone smile everyday happy out.
Come on get yourself some positives |
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I used to be average.
Average height.
Average build.
Average personality.
Average mindset.
Above average chameleon and invisible to most.
I'm no longer invisible and no longer average.
I'm the best friend you've never had.
The best shoulder to lean/cry on.
I give the best hugs.
I'm the best version of me.
Feck average
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Nottin wrong with average at all guys and gals.average brings us all together.. average is perfect and everyone is someone ones perfect.
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We can say that it is a complete statistical improbability that any single person can be an extraordinary performer in all areas of their life, or even many areas of their life. Bruce Wayne does not exist. It just doesn’t happen. Brilliant businessmen are often fuck ups in their personal lives. Extraordinary athletes are often shallow and as dumb as a lobotomized rock. Most celebrities are probably just as clueless about life as the people who gawk at them and follow their every move.
We’re all, for the most part, pretty average people. It’s the extremes that get all of the publicity. We all kind of intuitively know this, but we rarely think and/or talk about it. The vast majority of us will never be truly exceptional at, well, anything. And that’s OK.
Which leads to an important point: that mediocrity, as a goal, sucks. But mediocrity, as a result, is OK |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nottin wrong with average at all guys and gals.average brings us all together.. average is perfect and everyone is someone ones perfect.
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We can say that it is a complete statistical improbability that any single person can be an extraordinary performer in all areas of their life, or even many areas of their life. Bruce Wayne does not exist. It just doesn’t happen. Brilliant businessmen are often fuck ups in their personal lives. Extraordinary athletes are often shallow and as dumb as a lobotomized rock. Most celebrities are probably just as clueless about life as the people who gawk at them and follow their every move.
We’re all, for the most part, pretty average people. It’s the extremes that get all of the publicity. We all kind of intuitively know this, but we rarely think and/or talk about it. The vast majority of us will never be truly exceptional at, well, anything. And that’s OK.
Which leads to an important point: that mediocrity, as a goal, sucks. But mediocrity, as a result, is OK"
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By (user no longer on site)
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The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average  |
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
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Being average or mediocre...is state of mind, nothing to do with body shape, intelligence, education or, indeed, financial status.
Every one has, or should have, that extra bit or area in which one excels. And, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how obscure that area is.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average "
I totally agree nothing wrong with been average or mediocre but also nothing wrong with paying a compliment or even saying something nice about ourselves. People are too quick to judge and put people down it was an attempt for people to be kind to others and themselves. |
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average "
that's what priests and politicians want to hear, they have spend last 100 years to make sure that us, plebs, do think exactly that.
Nobody's average! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average
I totally agree nothing wrong with been average or mediocre but also nothing wrong with paying a compliment or even saying something nice about ourselves. People are too quick to judge and put people down it was an attempt for people to be kind to others and themselves."
The whole premise of your title and opening post was that being average is a problem. But I get what you were trying to say |
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Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else!
Personally I'm perfectly happy with my mediocrity. To be honest, I think that's what the vast majority of people actually look for. Very few people look for people they percieve to be either significantly better or worse than themselves in life.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being average or mediocre...is state of mind, nothing to do with body shape, intelligence, education or, indeed, financial status.
Every one has, or should have, that extra bit or area in which one excels. And, at the end of the day, it doesn't matter how obscure that area is.
Just my 2c."
Totally agree. Nor should it be berated as arrogance for celebrating the things we're pleased with or proud of.
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"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average
I totally agree nothing wrong with been average or mediocre but also nothing wrong with paying a compliment or even saying something nice about ourselves. People are too quick to judge and put people down it was an attempt for people to be kind to others and themselves."
Very true , nice to be nice .
Guess what I was getting at is average isn't a slight .. we are all average in areas and all wonderful in ways ... so I think we are on fhe same page .. |
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"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average
that's what priests and politicians want to hear, they have spend last 100 years to make sure that us, plebs, do think exactly that.
Nobody's average!"
Some of ghe greatest people to have every graced this lil blue marble were average in more ways than not and defo considered themselves average |
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Being average is a state of mind .. to some degree ... however we choose to see it as a negative state or as a positive state.
I rekon its very positive as it brings us all on the same page and after all ,, who wants to be above or below anyone else ... we is all just animals ...  |
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I'm an average guy,with a slightly bigger than average belly,a decidedly average flute and I'm feckin deadly at being me!! In fact,I love me!! And of that I'm absolutely positive!!! Embrace the average...it's what makes us all exceptional!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How I see myself is most likely very different to what everybody else sees in me, be that in a positive or negative light. How I feel about myself is only relevant to me. I prefer to focus on finding attractive qualities in others rather than myself and allow others to discover whatever it is they may find in me. |
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"The point is that there's nothing negative with being average. Why do we have to believe we are better, after all it's impossible for everyone to be better than average
I totally agree nothing wrong with been average or mediocre but also nothing wrong with paying a compliment or even saying something nice about ourselves. People are too quick to judge and put people down it was an attempt for people to be kind to others and themselves."
exactly you go girl average I'm amazing and a legend  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How I see myself is most likely very different to what everybody else sees in me, be that in a positive or negative light. How I feel about myself is only relevant to me. I prefer to focus on finding attractive qualities in others rather than myself and allow others to discover whatever it is they may find in me. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The average of course refers to the statistical mean of a "normal" distribution.
Normal is not really the right word for most of us here   "
Oh god don't bring normal into it lol |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I'm average with a bit more than an average wobble in my belly. But I am a great friend who is loyal to true friends so I don't care if my average isn't good enough for others it's good enough for those who I care most about and that's all that matters to me . |
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"I'm average with a bit more than an average wobble in my belly. But I am a great friend who is loyal to true friends so I don't care if my average isn't good enough for others it's good enough for those who I care most about and that's all that matters to me ."
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It's not the waist size, chest size, penis length or shape that really defines us...
It's who you are and your personality traits that differentiates us and what elavates each of us to more than what is considered the 'average'  |
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"I'm average with a bit more than an average wobble in my belly. But I am a great friend who is loyal to true friends so I don't care if my average isn't good enough for others it's good enough for those who I care most about and that's all that matters to me .
This
It's not the waist size, chest size, penis length or shape that really defines us...
It's who you are and your personality traits that differentiates us and what elavates each of us to more than what is considered the 'average' "
Thats why many cultures consider your name of such importance... its who you are ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK so let's ban the word average
How about we promote ourselves and each other positively...
I'm curvy with some beautiful curves that a good mark 2 would enjoy but I'm also a gal who just likes people to be happy and if I can make someone smile everyday happy out.
Come on get yourself some positives"
You are above average, gotta love curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Took me a while to accept "me" and it has nothing to do with my physical appearance more to my mental, spiritual and emotional sides.. and I'm certainly above average in those aspects |
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"I'm average with a bit more than an average wobble in my belly. But I am a great friend who is loyal to true friends so I don't care if my average isn't good enough for others it's good enough for those who I care most about and that's all that matters to me ."
Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind |
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