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A female member posed the question on her status "where do girls find guys that take them on holiday and all that "
As a solo male holiday traveller it is something that I have thought about asking.
However how do you phrase this on fab?
Advertising it on fab reminds me of the 2008 film Castaway with Oliver Reid and Amanda Donohoe.
Has anyone had this experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you mean paying for them to go on holiday in return foe having sex?
There would be no conditions for sex in return, for me it would be for the company with nsa."
Then that's how you should phrase it. But a lot of women would be understandably wary of placing themselves in such a vulnerable position with a stranger. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen |
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"Do you mean paying for them to go on holiday in return foe having sex?
There would be no conditions for sex in return, for me it would be for the company with nsa.
Then that's how you should phrase it. But a lot of women would be understandably wary of placing themselves in such a vulnerable position with a stranger."
I fully understand this response and would expect that there would be many questions asked.
It would not be a blind date per se, as in just meeting up at the airport for two weeks away.
There would obviously be socials in the lead up as a get to know you. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen "
I think they key words there is fab friends. Not so much going away with people just because they are offering a place on a holiday.The two situations are completely different I think anyhow. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen
I think they key words there is fab friends. Not so much going away with people just because they are offering a place on a holiday.The two situations are completely different I think anyhow. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you mean paying for them to go on holiday in return foe having sex?
There would be no conditions for sex in return, for me it would be for the company with nsa.
Then that's how you should phrase it. But a lot of women would be understandably wary of placing themselves in such a vulnerable position with a stranger.
I fully understand this response and would expect that there would be many questions asked.
It would not be a blind date per se, as in just meeting up at the airport for two weeks away.
There would obviously be socials in the lead up as a get to know you. "
Holidays at first site there's a TV show
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"Do you mean paying for them to go on holiday in return foe having sex?
There would be no conditions for sex in return, for me it would be for the company with nsa.
Then that's how you should phrase it. But a lot of women would be understandably wary of placing themselves in such a vulnerable position with a stranger."
I'd imagine if it was to happen the woman would have to know the said person well before anything like that would develop, l certainly wouldn't dream of being in or putting a person in that position , unless they knew each other very well the answer would be no. |
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"A female member posed the question on her status "where do girls find guys that take them on holiday and all that "
As a solo male holiday traveller it is something that I have thought about asking.
Tell her,,, right here
However how do you phrase this on fab?
Advertising it on fab reminds me of the 2008 film Castaway with Oliver Reid and Amanda Donohoe.
Has anyone had this experience. "
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I was offered to be taken on holiday once by a guy I'd just met for a coffee, he had got himself so excited and worked up that he'd "caught one" that I felt like it didnt matter who I was or what I wanted. All he wanted really was to be able to get into a couples only swinging resort and needed a female to accompany him or he couldnt get in. Didnt feel bad telling him I'd no passport tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And to be fair I would be equally suspicious of a girl with the status "where do girls find guys that take them on holiday and all that". Buy your own holiday! This isn't the 1970s. "
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If it’s company your looking for you can take my bitch,she’s fully vaccinated wormed and house trained, and her passport is in date she loves walking and only needs too be fed twice a day.
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I think a quick 48 hour trip to Paris could be the ticket. Its different, doable, romantic, great hotels, great food, and such a sexy language. Id be very choosy, who my companion might be.. Someone I've got to know and like on Fab maybe.
And its not trading sex for a holiday.. Its two people sharing the delights together. |
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"If it’s company your looking for you can take my bitch,she’s fully vaccinated wormed and house trained, and her passport is in date she loves walking and only needs too be fed twice a day.
S"
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing"
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again. |
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"Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen "
***cough*** |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen
***cough*** "
Or even just to help rubbing in the suncream |
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"Op
Theres a lot of fab friends male / female that dont play together but go on holidays together to share the cost of the apartment and have company on the visits to the clubs and pubs so it does happen
***cough***
Or even just to help rubbing in the suncream "
Or buy the drinks… |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again. "
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I remember that thread funny tho none of his friends jumped in to defend him or say it was a genuine offer though if I remember correctly.
And yes while some may be genuine offers the majority are just another way to try and get a woman to meet them for sex and think if they get her away for a weekend or week then it will be on tap for them. So ye I take most of these so called offers with a major pinch of salt and cynicism and when sent in a pm they just get deleted.
It others want to do it then that's their business and fair play. But ye I learnt to always err on the side of caution with all these offers you get on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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every body can hope... No need for negativity...some are luckier than others... That should not be a reason to look down or be snobby about peoples fantasies or desirws.. Good luck OP with your search. I hope you get lucky |
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again. "
Why didn’t he offer to bring a man so ? If all he wanted was companionship? |
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To be fair I'm not totally against the transactional nature of sex if both sides are totally happy with that and noone is being exploited... but let's be honest and upfront about it. Just ask for what you're looking for and be very clear. Will there be a shared room? What about a shared bed? Will you hang out all day together or can she do her own thing? Are you expecting to eat meals together? Do you cover ALL the costs? What exactly is the money being paid for? These are the kind of questions I'd be asking. |
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again.
Why didn’t he offer to bring a man so ? If all he wanted was companionship?"
I prefer female company as opposed to male company.
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again.
Why didn’t he offer to bring a man so ? If all he wanted was companionship?
I prefer female company as opposed to male company.
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You might not be saying that after a week away with a woman. |
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again.
Why didn’t he offer to bring a man so ? If all he wanted was companionship?
I prefer female company as opposed to male company.
You might not be saying that after a week away with a woman."
I have no issues spending time with women be it an hour, a day, a week or two weeks. You however do seem to have issues spending time with women. |
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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago
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My approach would be to be fairly blunt about what it is you hope and want. The reality is no is going to believe you aren't going to try and drop the hand. So you'd be more successful if you'd owned your intentions. |
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"OP, I've seen men offer a place on a holiday where their partner "couldn't go" to any female who was willing
A guy posted on here asking if anyone was interested in going to PDI with him, all expenses paid, as his wife couldn’t make it. He got savaged.
Which was really unfair as quite a few well established fabbers know him very well. And know his wife and that she genuinely “couldn’t go”. And a really well known female fabber had previously taken him up on a similar offer with him and had an absolutely wonderful time and he was a consummate gentleman.
So yeah, I’m sure there are men just wanting to pay someone to ride them for a week, but genuine men like him will be unlikely to offer again. .
I remember that thread funny tho none of his friends jumped in to defend him or say it was a genuine offer though if I remember correctly.
And yes while some may be genuine offers the majority are just another way to try and get a woman to meet them for sex and think if they get her away for a weekend or week then it will be on tap for them. So ye I take most of these so called offers with a major pinch of salt and cynicism and when sent in a pm they just get deleted.
It others want to do it then that's their business and fair play. But ye I learnt to always err on the side of caution with all these offers you get on here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often go abroad and wondered about this sort of thing, but for most of the very valid reasons allready mentioned I always decided that trying to arrange a travelling companion through fab would just be nuts. Having read the posts I’m glad to see everyone else seems to think so to
Imagine you realised in the departure lounge you just weren’t going to get along, that’d be a long assed week "
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