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Zero chat meets - blindfolded perhaps?
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A lot of people here talk about how much they love the social side of Fab. Love the connection.. love the long sessions into the wee hours..
Mrs. here loves the opposite - she has very limited energy for socialising and enjoys whambam thank you ma'am type of meets, especially given our current level of stress at home (we're renovating).
Right now, if we meet someone, she'd prefer meets that would start and finish in under an hour.. just sex.. no chat.
She'd thinking about being blindfolded - not having to chat at all and not knowing who's fucking her is a big turn on 
Anyone else enjoy meets with zero socialising? I imagine some men would say so but curious if other women feel similarly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds clinical and disposable.
The McDs of sex
Not for me
I'm more a fan of gourmet sex.... making a connection that leads to intense fucking and world class orgasms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let me clarify.. I don't mean a social meet..
I mean a sex session that gets drawn out due to multiple rounds and chats in between"
Yeah id prob prefer to just get too it... Thats what we are here for i suppose |
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"Sounds clinical and disposable.
The McDs of sex
Not for me
I'm more a fan of gourmet sex.... making a connection that leads to intense fucking and world class orgasms "
Oof - thanks for dialing in there helle  |
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The gourmet sex is between us.. we don't need not necessarily want that with others. Wouldn't say it's McDs in our case but it certainly is faster.
The sluttiness and stranger aspect of it is the entire point. That turns us on and makes the after sex together all the more amazing  |
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"Let me clarify.. I don't mean a social meet..
I mean a sex session that gets drawn out due to multiple rounds and chats in between"
Yeah Ive enjoyed these in the past defintely. Meet, say hi, lock lips and go I would just need to have had a spicy build up with messaging in advance  MsF |
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"Sounds clinical and disposable.
The McDs of sex
Not for me
I'm more a fan of gourmet sex.... making a connection that leads to intense fucking and world class orgasms "
I would have to agree. There has to be connection for me. Never was a "wham bam thank you mam" kinda girl |
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I literally picked the kids up, did a shop, quick trip to the playground, and came back to herself at the door with a big grin 
Saves time
Saves money
No babysitting
No chitchat
No social anxiety
She didn't even have to leave the house
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope not for me. Have done something similar in the past and the sex was utter crap. I prefer to get to know someone rather than just be a hole for someone to fuck which is what is felt like the time it happened. And yes getting to know someone does not guarantee great sex but at least the person tends to make an effort more if they know you better. |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
Yip, on play meets we’re there for business. This is particularly true in meeting single males. We do a social in advance to establish that level of comfort but the anticipation building mainly happens between us and the meet itself is the release.
If you’re looking for hand holding in advance and cuddles after, we’re not for you.
This doesn’t exclude the building of friendships or having repeat meets however (in case we come across as cold) |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
"Yip, on play meets we’re there for business. This is particularly true in meeting single males. We do a social in advance to establish that level of comfort but the anticipation building mainly happens between us and the meet itself is the release.
If you’re looking for hand holding in advance and cuddles after, we’re not for you.
This doesn’t exclude the building of friendships or having repeat meets however (in case we come across as cold)"
Absolutely the same for us.
Mrs has one particular friend and they have a mutual understanding - a quick text, no talking, 20 minutes later he's gone.
It works for us.
But as you say it doesn't exclude friendship or more extended meets when circumstances permit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people here talk about how much they love the social side of Fab. Love the connection.. love the long sessions into the wee hours..
Mrs. here loves the opposite - she has very limited energy for socialising and enjoys whambam thank you ma'am type of meets, especially given our current level of stress at home (we're renovating).
Right now, if we meet someone, she'd prefer meets that would start and finish in under an hour.. just sex.. no chat.
She'd thinking about being blindfolded - not having to chat at all and not knowing who's fucking her is a big turn on
Anyone else enjoy meets with zero socialising? I imagine some men would say so but curious if other women feel similarly."
Love to have her blindfolded and bent over waiting for me to arrive,) |
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As an introvert, I have zero interest in the "social side" of fab, nor do we have the time. A social meet for us is purely to establish the sanity of the other party and some level of physical attraction. A "friendship" might develop after sex. |
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"Laura has done this... and I totally get it. Just a body on the bed, there to be used for quick sex."
This sounds great!.. she enjoys the pure physical submission. No connection required. That's what she has me for.
I forgot to clarify that this only applies to sex with single men for us.
Similar to what A1 said..
We enjoy the buildup and release together and like inviting a guy to help fulfill that for us. Some lads like this dynamic and enjoy providing a "service".
The sex is never bad (at least it never has been for us!) perhaps because we personally don't need men to get to know us and care about us for us to enjoy it. Mrs. loves being submissive and being simply a body used for pleasure. A restrained gangbang is one of our fantasies 
Really interesting insights and opinions y'all - thanks so much for sharing!  |
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"As an introvert, I have zero interest in the "social side" of fab, nor do we have the time. A social meet for us is purely to establish the sanity of the other party and some level of physical attraction. A "friendship" might develop after sex. "
This is almost exactly the words out of her mouth... Apart from the social meet. I do the vetting - she loves not knowing |
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"As an introvert, I have zero interest in the "social side" of fab, nor do we have the time. A social meet for us is purely to establish the sanity of the other party and some level of physical attraction. A "friendship" might develop after sex.
This is almost exactly the words out of her mouth... Apart from the social meet. I do the vetting - she loves not knowing "
Eh, call me a control freak, I prefer to do my own selection |
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"A lot of people here talk about how much they love the social side of Fab. Love the connection.. love the long sessions into the wee hours..
Mrs. here loves the opposite - she has very limited energy for socialising and enjoys whambam thank you ma'am type of meets, especially given our current level of stress at home (we're renovating).
Right now, if we meet someone, she'd prefer meets that would start and finish in under an hour.. just sex.. no chat.
She'd thinking about being blindfolded - not having to chat at all and not knowing who's fucking her is a big turn on
Anyone else enjoy meets with zero socialising? I imagine some men would say so but curious if other women feel similarly."
Yeah, anonymous sex is always appealing. It's just more raw, animalistic and, well, yeah, hot.
Don't get me wrong, I enjoy social meets with people as well but each has their place. I have often quoted my favourite fantasy here that involves sex without any speaking. |
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"A lot of people here talk about how much they love the social side of Fab. Love the connection.. love the long sessions into the wee hours..
Mrs. here loves the opposite - she has very limited energy for socialising and enjoys whambam thank you ma'am type of meets, especially given our current level of stress at home (we're renovating).
Right now, if we meet someone, she'd prefer meets that would start and finish in under an hour.. just sex.. no chat.
She'd thinking about being blindfolded - not having to chat at all and not knowing who's fucking her is a big turn on
Anyone else enjoy meets with zero socialising? I imagine some men would say so but curious if other women feel similarly."
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Some of our meets have been like that because generally we dont have hours to spend. One of our last meets i was blindfolded the whole way through and it was really hot. Now we did know the guy so was happy doing that. Have had the fantasy of a blindfolded stranger meet like you have described. Maybe some day |
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"The gourmet sex is between us.. we don't need not necessarily want that with others. Wouldn't say it's McDs in our case but it certainly is faster.
The sluttiness and stranger aspect of it is the entire point. That turns us on and makes the after sex together all the more amazing "
Totally get this ... its like a add on to your sex ... |
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over a year ago
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I can definitely get on board with the concept of this. It definitely does sound hot to get a message from a lady to meet ASAP to fuck.
Personally however I love the social side of fab too. Meeting and chatting with likeminded people. |
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I totally get where she’s coming from OP… I’ve had a (no chat) blindfold meet and it can be very hot! Lol from chatting here after she felt all her senses were heightened to a totally different level!
Chat can be great…but sometimes it has NO place in the bedroom! |
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I've done this once without the blindfold. Hadn't spoken until the day before and next morning she invited me to her hotel room.
It wasn't something I'd done before and I wouldn't be keen to do it again.
It was all about her pleasure and I remained fully dressed for the 20 mins I was there until her friends in the next room rang to take her to breakfast.
It was different but not different enough to do it on a regular basis. |
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Well, it is truly interesting how you describe your preferences. It sounds you both are very clear and your bond seems to be very strong.
But I do question, without Ill intention, why does a woman chooses submission and delegates and trusts the election of a sexual partner to a man even, if he is her husband. That’s something I don’t understand. Submission in my papers is something completely different. But that’s just me and my humble opinion.
I wholeheartedly hope you find your playmates and have loads of pleasure |
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On a previous profile I was messaged by a well verified couple with this preference. The difference was that they didn't live together and the plan was for him to pick me up somewhere and drive me to a different town and I was to go into her home and she would be blindfolded and bent over the sofa waiting to be fucked.
I declined despite their veries because there were too many red flags that a conversation with the woman may have alleviated but I was told that would never happen so I gave it a miss. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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Its interesting because at the moment I'm in PDI on holidays...The swinging capital of Europe in winter
During the daytime there's literally messages coming onto your phone from swingers asking you to call to their hotel for a fuck
If you agree....they give you hotel details and you find out what they look like when they open the door....go in and have a fuck
At night you go to the swingers pubs,Talk a bit with lots of different folk and then go to the clubs
If you've made a connection as a single man you get asked into the play rooms and fuck in there
So both options happening every day.....something for everyone
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"Well, it is truly interesting how you describe your preferences. It sounds you both are very clear and your bond seems to be very strong.
But I do question, without Ill intention, why does a woman chooses submission and delegates and trusts the election of a sexual partner to a man even, if he is her husband. That’s something I don’t understand. Submission in my papers is something completely different. But that’s just me and my humble opinion.
I wholeheartedly hope you find your playmates and have loads of pleasure "
Hi S, I appreciate your opinion and OP can correct me if I’m wrong but I get the impression that she has a big input into any arrangement made? There maybe a form of Submission involved of her choosing (in the fine print) lol xxx  |
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"Its interesting because at the moment I'm in PDI on holidays...The swinging capital of Europe in winter
During the daytime there's literally messages coming onto your phone from swingers asking you to call to their hotel for a fuck
If you agree....they give you hotel details and you find out what they look like when they open the door....go in and have a fuck
At night you go to the swingers pubs,Talk a bit with lots of different folk and then go to the clubs
If you've made a connection as a single man you get asked into the play rooms and fuck in there
So both options happening every day.....something for everyone
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To answer Colm/strelitza (why are there not threaded comments! Argh!):
The submission aspect in our marriage comes in the form of K enjoying the absolute trust and consent she places in me during the "vetting" process. She loves giving herself completely to me and pleasing me.. I'm the same for her. We orbit each other in every way.
She has complete confidence that I know what/who she'd like and trusts I'm not going to invite a man she would not be ok with. If I have any doubt, I simply ask her.
We have had *many* discussions over the years of what/who we find hot so it's really not difficult and of course everyone has different definitions of what submission entails in (or out of) the bedroom. |
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By *studdMan
over a year ago
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"Some of our meets have been like that because generally we dont have hours to spend. One of our last meets i was blindfolded the whole way through and it was really hot. Now we did know the guy so was happy doing that. Have had the fantasy of a blindfolded stranger meet like you have described. Maybe some day "
I agree on the blindfold part. Something very sexy about showing up and her not knowing much about you before or after |
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"To answer Colm/strelitza (why are there not threaded comments! Argh!):
The submission aspect in our marriage comes in the form of K enjoying the absolute trust and consent she places in me during the "vetting" process. She loves giving herself completely to me and pleasing me.. I'm the same for her. We orbit each other in every way.
She has complete confidence that I know what/who she'd like and trusts I'm not going to invite a man she would not be ok with. If I have any doubt, I simply ask her.
We have had *many* discussions over the years of what/who we find hot so it's really not difficult and of course everyone has different definitions of what submission entails in (or out of) the bedroom."
Sounds like you have a wonderful relationship |
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Done it a few times.
Genuinely don't think it's worth the effort of getting ready for it.
Sex was below mediocre, there was no ogasms from my side at all, one of the guys couldn't even get it up for good half hour so it's safe to assume he didn't find it to be a biggest turn on either...
That's why I refuse to plan sex ahead ever again.
If it happens - at least it happens naturally, out of mutual want, not because its expected.
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"I have to be physically attracted to someone so this scenario would be totally repellent to me "
Totally understand but I think there might be a misunderstanding here.. We don't both go into meet completely blind and K often sees some pics beforehand. Physical attraction is important to us as well and the visual is very important to me (I love to watch/film) so I only invite people we would both find appealing. |
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over a year ago
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"I have to be physically attracted to someone so this scenario would be totally repellent to me
Totally understand but I think there might be a misunderstanding here.. We don't both go into meet completely blind and K often sees some pics beforehand. Physical attraction is important to us as well and the visual is very important to me (I love to watch/film) so I only invite people we would both find appealing."
So it has gone from not knowing who is fucking her to her being involved in every stage and the blindfold is really a prop. She could put it on mid-sex really. |
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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
To be honest I completely get this and also really like the idea of it, but it’s next to impossible to do safely as a single woman.
Now I wouldn’t want it for all my meets, but I do understand that sometimes there’s a desire for an anonymous wham bang thank you mam Best of luck in satisfying that desire OP, we’re all here in the hope of playing out our own fantasies and I hope that you get to do that |
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"I have to be physically attracted to someone so this scenario would be totally repellent to me
Totally understand but I think there might be a misunderstanding here.. We don't both go into meet completely blind and K often sees some pics beforehand. Physical attraction is important to us as well and the visual is very important to me (I love to watch/film) so I only invite people we would both find appealing.
So it has gone from not knowing who is fucking her to her being involved in every stage and the blindfold is really a prop. She could put it on mid-sex really."
I've clearly miscommunicated something so apologies for the misunderstanding.
This reply was about what we have done historically in previous meets, not a requirement for all meets.
She trusts that I would only invite someone she would find attractive so she likes the idea of never seeing, only feeling. |
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"To be honest I completely get this and also really like the idea of it, but it’s next to impossible to do safely as a single woman.
Now I wouldn’t want it for all my meets, but I do understand that sometimes there’s a desire for an anonymous wham bang thank you mam Best of luck in satisfying that desire OP, we’re all here in the hope of playing out our own fantasies and I hope that you get to do that "
Trust and safety is indeed a huge issue! I can only imagine how difficult this sort of meet would be for singles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tried this before, ended as compete disaster...
I didn't realise I wasn't meant to be the one wearing the blindfold, couldn't find the house as couldn't see and because it was zero chats I just felt my way around the neighbourhood in silence for a few hours |
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"As an introvert, I have zero interest in the "social side" of fab, nor do we have the time. A social meet for us is purely to establish the sanity of the other party and some level of physical attraction. A "friendship" might develop after sex. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tried this before, ended as compete disaster...
I didn't realise I wasn't meant to be the one wearing the blindfold, couldn't find the house as couldn't see and because it was zero chats I just felt my way around the neighbourhood in silence for a few hours "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds clinical and disposable.
The McDs of sex
Not for me
I'm more a fan of gourmet sex.... making a connection that leads to intense fucking and world class orgasms "
Hmmm yes please... We're on the same page there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both have their place.
I think when couples get into it a bit more and/or find reliable playmates they tend to go for more fuck and go scenarios.
Sometimes less is more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To answer Colm/strelitza (why are there not threaded comments! Argh!):
The submission aspect in our marriage comes in the form of K enjoying the absolute trust and consent she places in me during the "vetting" process. She loves giving herself completely to me and pleasing me.. I'm the same for her. We orbit each other in every way.
She has complete confidence that I know what/who she'd like and trusts I'm not going to invite a man she would not be ok with. If I have any doubt, I simply ask her."
Thanks for getting back. It is admirable the type of connection you have with each other. It’s rare. Sounds like a very elevated and carefully nurtured sexual relationship you have there, a true friendship and more.
I’d be very fussy in that sense. Sometimes I think my own elections are terrible , no way I’d trust my better half choosing a playmate for me, not that much, I prefer to do the job personally.
But again it’s nice to learn from all type of experiences
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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago
Citywest |
One problem with that scenario. If she doesn’t want to know who is having sex with her and she doesn’t want to talk to that person- how will she express consent and how will her lover know that her consent is voluntary? It smells like ra.PE to me… |
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"One problem with that scenario. If she doesn’t want to know who is having sex with her and she doesn’t want to talk to that person- how will she express consent and how will her lover know that her consent is voluntary? It smells like ra.PE to me… "
Oh we're not interested in this as a solo session, only an MFM (which is our typical meet scenario). She has complete trust in me to choose and to communicate with people we play with. |
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You also could not force her into this situation.. it would be immediately obvious to anyone if she was uncomfortable and non consenting so please be careful with assuming it's a nonconsensual scenario |
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"It is admirable the type of connection you have with each other. It’s rare. Sounds like a very elevated and carefully nurtured sexual relationship you have there, a true friendship and more."
Thanks! We do feel we have something pretty great tbf |
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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago
Munster somewhere sometime |
I admire this scenario hard to arrange as a single, but kind of reminds me of a experience I had years ago just on a night out had kind of clocked a guy took my fancy caught my eye a few times during the night, he went outside to make a call I followed him we got bold, he wanted to give me his details I said no and we both just went about our night. I loved that experience probably would repeat it if the opportunity arose but not habitually. I think your way is safer with the vetting but sometimes in nice to let chemistry do its thing |
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I've had and really enjoyed a few of these types of meets.
As long as I know what's expected, it's very erotic, as we will have been turned on by each others photos prior to meeting (as mediated by the gentleman) and engage in a purely physical release of these tensions which can be especially frenzied in the haste and thus all the more satisfying for our audience.
Naturally, it requires trust on behalf of everyone, as do all our peccadillos, but with common sense an orgasmic time is had by all. |
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"I admire this scenario hard to arrange as a single, but kind of reminds me of a experience I had years ago just on a night out had kind of clocked a guy took my fancy caught my eye a few times during the night, he went outside to make a call I followed him we got bold, he wanted to give me his details I said no and we both just went about our night. I loved that experience probably would repeat it if the opportunity arose but not habitually. I think your way is safer with the vetting but sometimes in nice to let chemistry do its thing "
Oh yes - I have often thought of the thrill of a spontaneous meet with someone we've met on a night out together but alas it's not in the cards for us unless K went out on her own but that's just not our scene. |
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By *ere70Man
over a year ago
Rovinj Istria |
was in this scenario once wkth long time swinger friends and it was briliant because we are long time friends. then they organised same for their friends, who i didnt know, i was too nervous and could not perform. guess i need to be friend and have some conection before sex... |
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"Yup fuck and go please (Dickhead) if only it was that simple "
Absolutely.. plenty of lads don't enjoy feeling like an object.. a "rent-a-cock" scenario, if you will. That's totally fair.. I wouldn't care for it myself - the pressure to instantly perform!
Plenty are interested in it (or claim to be) but, in our experience, the latter see this type of request as an invite to fuck literally anything that moves, as if sluttiness = zero standards.
I don't want this to devolve into a post about moaning about single lads though.. there are so many nice ones and this post was originally intended to just see if other women had similar interests. I'm constantly exploring my K's mind and kinks so it's fascinating to hear others' perspectives. |
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"as fantasy looks great but in practise... "
Oh I totally understand from a single male standpoint. It can be hard! (Not in the good way )
Not this particular scenario but I've had a few solo meets where I was invited to a couples' place for a first time play and the pressure was.. not great  |
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"It's hot when it's planned. But I like socialising and talking so definitely wouldn't be doing it on a first meet or with anyone I don't know. "
Yeah K's the opposite.. she still fondly talks about the 3 months she spent literally not uttering a word to a single person, even in shops. She loves *not* talking |
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By *itty369Woman
over a year ago
Munster somewhere sometime |
"Not a great look for a single guy saying he like this fantasy as it looks like he would just fuck anyone!!!. I do love this fantasy but especially as you are a stunning looking lady????"
I think you are just being honest nothing wrong with that . X Also Mrs is very hot |
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"Not a great look for a single guy saying he like this fantasy as it looks like he would just fuck anyone!!!. I do love this fantasy but especially as you are a stunning looking lady????"
Thanks! Not sure why the question marks????
I wouldn't assume that lads who say they like this scenario have zero standards. Everyone likes different things/different people for whatever reason. Just because you're into casual stranger meets doesn't necessarily indicate you're gross and/or that's *all* you're into. |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
"It's hot when it's planned. But I like socialising and talking so definitely wouldn't be doing it on a first meet or with anyone I don't know. "
Yeah, much easier for a couple to arrange this scenario, as mentioned above it can't be easy (or safe in some cases) for a single person to plan.
We're lucky that we have the best of both worlds - we attend parties with other couples for the social side and of course the fun that comes with that. But then we also have the option of the 'fuck and go' when we arrange things ourselves. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
It is interesting that there's a fair amount of couples fancying the idea or have done it while almost all single women posting expressed the need of more intimate sex.
The advantage of being a couple in this scenario is obvious, just alone from a safety point of view, but also in the sense of playing out a kink while the basic/intimate sexual needs are covered in the relationship.
Anyhow I've done similar stuff, the kink of it is a great stimuli and it gives you that little bold memory trinket, however as others said sex is normally below expectations. My cure to that is to follow the starter with an orgasm guaranteed meet as a main course. |
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"My cure to that is to follow the starter with an orgasm guaranteed meet as a main course."
We have this "built-in" of course but that's a fabulous plan imo.
Again, thanks for all the insights and comments y'all! |
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"A lot of people here talk about how much they love the social side of Fab. Love the connection.. love the long sessions into the wee hours..
Mrs. here loves the opposite - she has very limited energy for socialising and enjoys whambam thank you ma'am type of meets, especially given our current level of stress at home (we're renovating).
Right now, if we meet someone, she'd prefer meets that would start and finish in under an hour.. just sex.. no chat.
She'd thinking about being blindfolded - not having to chat at all and not knowing who's fucking her is a big turn on
Anyone else enjoy meets with zero socialising? I imagine some men would say so but curious if other women feel similarly."
This scenario is even more hotter (in my opinion) if the missus is a hotwife - there's this extra turn on |
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"This thread is a major dilemma for all the forum white knights… the couples want sex, the single women want a connection… they’re all too confused to comment - for once!"
Couple spend the whole day talking..single people need someone to talk too. |
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Well, I took my Mrs dogging the other weekend, didn't get a chance to socialise if we wanted to. By the time she had reversed the car into a space, everyone else had fucked off home! |
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"This thread is a major dilemma for all the forum white knights… the couples want sex, the single women want a connection… they’re all too confused to comment - for once!
Couple spend the whole day talking..single people need someone to talk too."
Not all couples
But yeah, totally.. loneliness is a real issue with a lot of folks. It can certainly be crushingly difficult.. I can totally understand that. K sometimes says says I won't stay single long if she dies  |
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By *I TwoCouple
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We have loads of friends for social interaction, our sex together is fantastic and an almost daily event but we love playing with other couples and love talking about it while making love.
Sex with others, making love to each other. She will generally orgasm I really don't care if I do or I don't because I know I will as soon as we are alone.
That's why we love gran Canaria and the randomness of meeting all sorts of different people and experience all sorts of sexual scenes.
Of course there has to be an attraction, but for us that's almost always physical although we have walked away from a few couples that managed to bore the tits off us before we could get undressed lol. |
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