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By *ensualandslow321 OP Man over a year ago

Tullamore

I have often read about the avalanche of messages new females to Fab receive. What advice would you give ?

My advice is to hide your profile for a month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Use your filters

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By *s LollyWoman over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Use Filters it's simples really and for anyone whinging about getting to many messages obviously wants them or they would filter the fuck outa their profile

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Don't take advice from random people on the internet.

Have a bit of common sense.

You do you.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Look for a man named Michael McCarthy.

Meet him.

Drop the hand.

Assume the position.

Leave fab as you've now peaked and it doesn't get any better than this.

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By *huCullainMan over a year ago

Rathowen

"Look for a man named Michael McCarthy.

Meet him.

Drop the hand.

Assume the position.

Leave fab as you've now peaked and it doesn't get any better than this.

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By *itemeagainMan over a year ago

Wexford

For the love of God woman ... give a dog a bone

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By *ungry CatCouple over a year ago

Belfast

"Use Filters it's simples really and for anyone whinging about getting to many messages obviously wants them or they would filter the fuck outa their profile

100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Use Filters it's simples really and for anyone whinging about getting to many messages obviously wants them or they would filter the fuck outa their profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Advice - use your common sense, same as you presumably would offline.

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By *onderingpurposeMan over a year ago

Belfast

Ah this is why I never get replies. It must be those damn filters and not me

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By *itty369Woman over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

Enjoy the flattery but don't let it change you, it's nice to be nice. X

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Use Filters it's simples really and for anyone whinging about getting to many messages obviously wants them or they would filter the fuck outa their profile

That pretty much sums it up

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By *itemeagainMan over a year ago

Wexford

"Enjoy the flattery but don't let it change you, it's nice to be nice. X "

This is the most useful and honest piece of advice yet .

Its also encouraging and pleasing to hear . Loads of clapping emojis

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By *ilderMan over a year ago

dublin

Walk on the Wild(er) side

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By *itty369Woman over a year ago

Munster somewhere sometime

"Enjoy the flattery but don't let it change you, it's nice to be nice. X

This is the most useful and honest piece of advice yet .

Its also encouraging and pleasing to hear . Loads of clapping emojis

Ah thank you but I found even myself getting cold in my replies to people until I had a chat with myself now I try and treat people how I'd like to be treated as much as possible. That's not to say that I don't just delete messages when I can see someone has clearly not taken the time to read my profile. But other them that it's a fun place not a place to be judged or be made feel second class. X

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By *itemeagainMan over a year ago

Wexford

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By *osBeautifuksCouple over a year ago

Dublin (sometimes London)

"Look for a man named Michael McCarthy.

Meet him.

Drop the hand.

Assume the position.

Leave fab as you've now peaked and it doesn't get any better than this.

Where was that advice when we were starting out!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Use your filters

Use your filters

Best advice

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Look for a man named Michael McCarthy.

Meet him.

Drop the hand.

Assume the position.

Leave fab as you've now peaked and it doesn't get any better than this.

Where was that advice when we were starting out!!

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By *alwayVixenWoman over a year ago

Galway

Filters, as people have mentioned, but also think about what you want from the site and keep an eye on the forums. Some of my best meets have been because someone caught my eye here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Use your filters

Use your filters

This filters are your best friend and the block button.

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By *eijaWoman over a year ago

City Centre

Put every filter on possible (still wish there was one for unverified/only photo verified profiles)

Answer the ones you want/possibly interested in. If you answer profiles you aren't interested in you will be hounded.

Don't be afraid to use the block button for the persistent ones.

Don't lower your standards for anyone and just be yourself.