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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??
We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested  "
Aww ill be in Belfast that weekend  |
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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago
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"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??
We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested "
I would be interested in attending |
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"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??
We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested
Aww ill be in Belfast that weekend "
Even with the date change? Dammit!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve a massive house that’s ideal for parties in discreet location in Armagh, if anyone wants to use it to organise a party in it your more than welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall? |
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?"
Only been to one and a couple turned up who were also first timers.
They stayed for less than an hour, complained that everyone there seemed to be long term friends and that wasn't what they expected and left saying proper parties are supposed to be all strangers.
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?"
Have a cup of coffee instead.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?
Only been to one and a couple turned up who were also first timers.
They stayed for less than an hour, complained that everyone there seemed to be long term friends and that wasn't what they expected and left saying proper parties are supposed to be all strangers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?
Have a cup of coffee instead...."
I'll make sure to bring cakes then if I ever brave one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see I'm curious to try one and enjoy the social sides here, but I know my own self well enough & I'm not one to connect quickly or easily so it'd be a coin toss if it was for me or not.
Not looking to get flashbacks to school days where you 'had' to fancy someone or stick out like a sore thumb |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud |
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"
Once again can only use the one I went to as an example. I didn't know anyone there apart from the woman who invited me but there was no pressure to play at all and everyone was very friendly and relaxed. Half the people there didn't play and were more than happy just to be voyeurs.
I was invited back but the hosts then left fab for personal reasons and I left shortly after and lost contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud
Once again can only use the one I went to as an example. I didn't know anyone there apart from the woman who invited me but there was no pressure to play at all and everyone was very friendly and relaxed. Half the people there didn't play and were more than happy just to be voyeurs.
I was invited back but the hosts then left fab for personal reasons and I left shortly after and lost contact. "
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"
Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off
Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud
Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off
Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too "
Is Karaoke compulsory? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me 
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud
Play is definitely not compulsory at any party I've even been to or that I've heard off
Karaoke in the kitchen can be fun too
Is Karaoke compulsory? "
I only sing in the car.... alone...
And for very good reason |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night."
Makes perfect sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.
Makes perfect sense"
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"Any house partys happening in the Midlands or North of the country, its all got very quiet on here ??
We have a wee social planned in the midlands if interested "
Keep us in mind.. time to shake things up a bit on these cold nights. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.
Makes perfect sense
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I think you are being super brave to even contemplate going to a party alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.
Makes perfect sense
I think you are being super brave to even contemplate going to a party alone "
I'm a curious little one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?"
I ve been at 4 parties and last night is the only time I had some sexy fun, it's not a free for all, was plenty chatting downstairs having few drinks and having a laugh. Any party I've been to no expectation to play. |
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I have hosted a few parties with 2 very good fab friends we have always told our guests that they are under no pressure to do anything they don't want to do if they just want to come have a few drinks meet new people and enjoy the craic that's fine that is the idea behind us hosting parties we just want eople to meet others and enjoy themselves in whatever way they want i just enjoy seeing people enjoy themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I would likely only go that first time if I had a wingman or woman to adult-sit me
That might seem daft as a 40'something year old woman who can alpha the shit out of her real life but the shy is real for me in certain situations.
Even if I was in the company of one's I'd chatted with here, I'd be 1000 times more likely to relax and actually enjoy it with a dependable someone beside me for the night.
Makes perfect sense"
And this is why bog was my wingman at my first party |
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"I've gone to a few house parties and never played and never felt pressured to do so.."
.. indeed you did bog.. jees the countless parties we been at together, and we plyed you with drink etc,, and yet you rejected our advances of total debauchery,, so we totally respect your anticipation of unintentionally advances.. respect bog..
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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"I've gone to a few house parties and never played and never felt pressured to do so.... indeed you did bog.. jees the countless parties we been at together, and we plyed you with drink etc,, and yet you rejected our advances of total debauchery,, so we totally respect your anticipation of unintentionally advances.. respect bog.. "
I just cant get past the shirts ..sorry |
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We would be interested in this activity lol
We have never felt pressured in any suitation if we did we would be outa there quick
Hopefully nobody has been pressured to take part in something they weren't comfortable with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess what I'm asking is, is there an expectation that if you choose to go are you agreeing to play and if you choose not to play on the night will you not get invited back or invited to other parties elsewhere?
Not really expecting an answer tbh, just thinking out loud"
I've been to plenty of party's and not played. There's a big social aspect to them and there's never any pressure to play and if there they aren't the parties to go to. You could just watch or chat to people if you aren't feeling connections with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm definitely feeling encouraged. No nightmare tales yet "
Honestly go with someone you know as your wing person and a party that's been held by a well verified host and you will be fine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Serious question...
What's the house party etiquette for if you turn up solo and when you meet all in the flesh, no one there is quite your cup of tea for sex type fun?
Just go home?
Drink and hold up a wall?"
Totes awkward! You'd need a drink to relax, but then you cant drive away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm definitely feeling encouraged. No nightmare tales yet
Honestly go with someone you know as your wing person and a party that's been held by a well verified host and you will be fine x"
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It is difficult indeed, although does occasionally happen!
I actually received my first invite about a month ago. Was amazed and so excited and anxious as others have said... from being a party virgin.
But even more annoying was I had to work and couldnt get away. Absolutely gutted.
But... it does happen, so stay patient and fingers crossed for you |
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"How does a single male go about getting an invite? Seems difficult "
Best way is to attend the larger socials, meet people face to face with no expectation of fun. The invites will eventually come. Those who are sound, put in the effort to meet people and are patient get the party invites |
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"How does a single male go about getting an invite? Seems difficult "
If people don't know you or know your name then it will be difficult. Get to as many socials as possible. People will then know who you are |
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Hi fandangoflutters, i like yourself haven't been to a party yet and would also be quite nervous about anxious meeting new ppl. If any consolation to your self id attend with you, we can meet earlier that day, grab a coffee / lunch and head on to party then or for pre drinks if u want company as would I lol |
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"Hi fandangoflutters, i like yourself haven't been to a party yet and would also be quite nervous about anxious meeting new ppl. If any consolation to your self id attend with you, we can meet earlier that day, grab a coffee / lunch and head on to party then or for pre drinks if u want company as would I lol "
Very sweet to offer, thank you for that. I have no current plans though |
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By *uietcpl2Couple
over a year ago
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Having arranged a number of small house parties in the past we suggest you keep it to a maximum of 10 to 12 couples. Inviting single males can frequently make a lot of the woman very nervous especially if they have not been to a previous swing party. No one should be under any pressure to play if they do not want to. |
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