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Why did you join Fabswingers?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
We all have our reasons for joining this site. Mine was that I wanted to explore a few more sides to sex with people on my wavelength.
I read a lot of profiles that tend to have a list of what they don't want.
Who's going to follow up and remind us all why they picked swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recommended it as I hadn't been with anyone in a long time and I don't want a relationship.
Now I'm here because I have made some amazing friends, I've learnt to love my body ( still a work in progress) and it seems I have a kinky side |
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By *MCOUPLECouple
over a year ago
North Coast |
To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild. "
I really doubt the level of hair you are sporting is a turn off, it's not exactly a 70s bush. The fact that the female is straight is a big issue in our experience. |
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I had a selfish reason . To develop my knowledge around Tantra massage. Along the way I've met loads of interesting people, and got to know some very well. (and used a lot of coconut oil). Im naturally curious about people and their sexuality, and every woman I've met is different in her desires, how she likes to be aroused, touched, and receive pleasure. |
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By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago
Limerick, Clare, Tipperary |
Of course that I joined to find my ideal partner to spend the rest of my life with...she must be smart, rich, pretty, great figure always in good mood, great in bed, she must have lots of sexy friends, great cook and so on...
Soooo, not!
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"Of course that I joined to find my ideal partner to spend the rest of my life with...she must be smart, rich, pretty, great figure always in good mood, great in bed, she must have lots of sexy friends, great cook and so on...
Soooo, not!
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Glad to see smart came before rich  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This joint was recommended by a female as the other site we were on was a bit quite , am not a swinger as such but there are people here that are " with it " and are here for what others want, and they Rock !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially just to meet women for sex after a break up. now I'm more interested in trying new stuff like skinny dipping in North Kerry with a sexy lunatic to work up the deep horn. |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
I thought it would be a more straightforward, than the swiping apps, as a way to meet women for sex, but I've found the apps to be better.
I think it's partly down to mutually matching with people. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
To interact with articulate individuals who probably share my disdain for traditional monogamous relationships and want to explore their sexuality, in a secure discreet environment.
I was on another site for a while and it was awful; a lady on this site, in a chatroom, mentioned fab and I have been here since then.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was looking for a fabulous swimmers group but Google autocorrected me here.
For the first week everyone seemed to be wet and squirting at each other so I assumed it was the right place.
I've been underwater ever since.
Please send help......  |
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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago
galway |
To have my first mmf. Friends of mine had experienced a few of them and from that moment, I always wanted to have one. Now, I want more 
To have my first bi experience even if its a ffm. I have kissed some ladies but never a full sex with one. Still on my bucket list 
And importantly,to make new friends. Life is to short and want to start broadening my horizons. |
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"To have my first mmf. Friends of mine had experienced a few of them and from that moment, I always wanted to have one. Now, I want more
To have my first bi experience even if its a ffm. I have kissed some ladies but never a full sex with one. Still on my bucket list
And importantly,to make new friends. Life is to short and want to start broadening my horizons. "
Now thats a reply! Good on you girl x |
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By *ark321Man
over a year ago
letterkenny, donegal/sligo/galway |
We used to swing quite a bit years ago, but few years back my wife had a medical condition meaning she can no longer have sex without it being extremely painful for her, so basically put an end to our sexlife. After few years of trying and waiting to see an old friend of ours recommended it to us, so she told me to have a look about and see what's out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild. "
I can relate to the hair issue,I don't know why it is an issue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I joined here to open up my fantasy of being with another couples or single’s I have a good sex drive and want to share that with other sexy people but as a single man on here it’s very hard to get with other people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi I joined here to open up my fantasy of being with another couples or single’s I have a good sex drive and want to share that with other sexy people but as a single man on here it’s very hard to get with other people "
I hear ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I rejoined the other Irish, I believe now redundant website, after a short break, I messaged some friends, the ones I could still find, and they told me everyone was on here now. That was 2014, I think, a couple of reincarnations later and here I am, still thoroughly enjoying myself within the lifestyle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Broaden our sexual horizons.
Experience things within the lifestyle vanilla people only dream about. Share each other and eachothers fantasies and lastly because we're perverts but the good kind   |
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"To annoy people on here...
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Your pictures don't suggest that you can be annoying at all. Oh!!!you would be surprised...  "
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I prefer to put things to the test rather than blindly believing everything said.  |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
Was curiosity and wasn't sure what I wanted out of it but I've some some great friends here Which I didn't expect to happen and got the odd poke here and there...a FWB would be great but if that doesn't happen I'm still delighted to make new friends as I love the social side of here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got let down on a Tinder date and a friend from a certain fetish site said I should join. I initially joined as I was curious to have a MFM but then I got more involved in the social side when a certain gracious beautiful Fabber took me under her wings. |
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"To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild.
I really doubt the level of hair you are sporting is a turn off, it's not exactly a 70s bush. The fact that the female is straight is a big issue in our experience. "
And only allowing site supporters to mail... like its a guarantee of good contacts... We not site supporters... but our experience is the catfish/fake profilers are mostly site supporters as it puts fab in a dilemma! Ban them and lose revenue... and we all know fab is more about money than it is about giving a good honest service where it rids itself of fakes!! If there was no fakes, there would be no fab is the real fact... Great profile, but many can't wink or mail you..! |
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Got banned from SH, so fab was the new kid on the block... so I joined! Must be 20 years ago now, chatroom was so so basic, no cams obviously and we didn't have smart phones! Been a great ride, swinging is now mainstream... so sadly there is many dreamers and time wasters... but with time you get wiser too! It's been a long ride, but a fantastic time! On the downward slope now as many profiles cut the age at 50.. so while we feel 30 (wishful thinking I know at times) we mostly have to dream! It's also great being on a site where most are having a fantastic time... So jealous of the 18 year olds getting straight into it... a plus of technology I guess...
Have fun xx |
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By *offusCouple
over a year ago
cork |
We joined when we heard about fab at cupids club in Manchester uk. Hopefully to find out what the swinging situation was in Ireland and to find if any genuine clubs where closer to home so not having to travel over to uk every time. So far no clubs that we have seen but organized party’s which look like fun. we will be looking to come along to if left lol as a couple  on a date we can get away from home and family life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined during covid lockdown from sexual frustration. Have had a laugh with a few nice people who have messaged me but I always have better luck in real life, don't think I'm very good at online interactions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally ?? fed up and getting nothing so joined fab and had a few good moments harder to meet nowadays everyone life is so so buzy lol ?? "
It can be hit and miss here |
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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago
moira |
I was just out of a marriage with no sex or intimacy for 9 years and huge personal changes that affected my view of what sex meant to me.
I didn't want a relationship before knowing what sex meant to me again and a chance meeting with a woman I met off one of the vanilla dating sites put me on here about 5 years ago.
It's not what I thought it would be, but it's actually turned out better then what I first expected. |
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Was recommended by a former friend.
At first I was hoping to meet some people for fun but since then I've realized I couldn't have some people on fab in my life for 5 minutes. But then there's the people who brighten up my day and are great to chat to.
So at this point I'm just on fab to chat with friends and have the craic in the forum's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I joined while i was in relationship to perv around. Now I'm single so full time here. Cant really use potential of this website because struggling to get first official verification |
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"I joined while i was in relationship to perv around. Now I'm single so full time here. Cant really use potential of this website because struggling to get first official verification "
You don't need varifications to use most of the site. |
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We were looking for another couple/third party to play with... Never knew fab existed untill some guy we were chatting to through a gumtree ad or something told us about it.
Crazy how uneducated we were about the scene then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild. "
BMCOUPLE.i lo9ked at the photod & it's not like you are sporting a full bush...as for your profile it provides the required info...ur photos are gr8 ... but there is huge choice & we can't all be everyone's cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe I believed in the concept of Free Sex.. Dial a Ride... I quickly discovered it wasn't that.
But I did discover a community of fun people...peoe I would never have normally met or been friends with...so whatever about reasons for joining..
The people, the friendships & the fun are the reasons for not leaving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After being with one man for 20 years and it falling apart I wanted a sexual awakening and see what I was missing ,fab lived up to its name !
Now when I use fab the profile gets updated to what I’m looking for and I’ve made some amazing friends from fab glad I signed up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well,I'm a self confessed bachelor,, have done the long committed relationship, and don't think ill do so again. So I'm not relationship material but do enjoy sex and intimacy.Thats it really. |
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"To broaden our sexual horizons but unfortunately there hasn’t been a great outcome to this as people don’t read our profile or are we think turned off buy pubic hair. The latter is important to us as it’s one of Mr’s Kinks and drives him wild. "
Stunning pics ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well,I'm a self confessed bachelor,, have done the long committed relationship, and don't think ill do so again. So I'm not relationship material but do enjoy sex and intimacy.Thats it really. "
The bachelor life isn't all that bad.
Do you have a license for that trouser snake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well,I'm a self confessed bachelor,, have done the long committed relationship, and don't think ill do so again. So I'm not relationship material but do enjoy sex and intimacy.Thats it really.
The bachelor life isn't all that bad.
Do you have a license for that trouser snake? "
tis licenced and insured |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well,I'm a self confessed bachelor,, have done the long committed relationship, and don't think ill do so again. So I'm not relationship material but do enjoy sex and intimacy.Thats it really.
The bachelor life isn't all that bad.
Do you have a license for that trouser snake? tis licenced and insured "
I wouldn't want to meet that down a dark alley |
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To find friends or couples with benefits and/or friends we could just talk about this stuff to and it not be weird lol
Kinda assumed this site wouldn't have young single people tbh, assumed they would be on tinder or bumble or something else |
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