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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you could add or change one thing on fab what would it be,
Mine would be :
Tagging people in your photos and vids
Commenting on photos and vids
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That would make here more like Facebook.  |
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By *oudicaWoman
over a year ago
Kilkenny |
In the “Search Events” section I wish there was an option to select all counties on a specific date, rather than having to select each county one by one to see what’s on. It’s a small country and who knows where I’d travel to if I could see all the events together….  |
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"In the “Search Events” section I wish there was an option to select all counties on a specific date, rather than having to select each county one by one to see what’s on. It’s a small country and who knows where I’d travel to if I could see all the events together…. "
This...and also more filters in the advanced search. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When searching it would be great to select the kinks your into and only show people who match and into the same things
Dom , sub , cuckolding, missionary, what ever else lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'd be great to have a +1 button on comments here in the forum if you agree with the sentiment."
+1 for this. Especially when people agree with a 20 paragraph long post |
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"Paid members only allowed…..would reduce a lot of time wasters and people creating a new faceless profile every few days! It’s not a lot of cash to pay up and it’s shows commitment."
A lady friend of mine used to be on a site that charged over €100 per month for men. She said she had as many negative issues on it as on here as there was a sense of entitlement among many of the men who felt that since they had paid that no lady should refuse them. She had a few meets on it but left after a few months due to that. |
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"Paid members only allowed…..would reduce a lot of time wasters and people creating a new faceless profile every few days! It’s not a lot of cash to pay up and it’s shows commitment.
A lady friend of mine used to be on a site that charged over €100 per month for men. She said she had as many negative issues on it as on here as there was a sense of entitlement among many of the men who felt that since they had paid that no lady should refuse them. She had a few meets on it but left after a few months due to that. "
I do agree though,you should not be allowed to message, view pictures or use the forum without a fee being paid.
Won't stop all the weirdos who set up multiple accounts, but would help reduce them significantly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men can only send 3 messages every 24hrs"
So we need to reduce the level of conversation further?
Skip all the intro and shite just an eircode and a dick pic |
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"Men can only send 3 messages every 24hrs
So we need to reduce the level of conversation further?
Skip all the intro and shite just an eircode and a dick pic"
This one gets my vote..
.. the second one that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the “Search Events” section I wish there was an option to select all counties on a specific date, rather than having to select each county one by one to see what’s on. It’s a small country and who knows where I’d travel to if I could see all the events together…. "
yeah I second that  kilkenny is small but surrounded by 5 other counties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being able to quickly find all women and couples who fancy short bald somewhat neurotic bi guys "
I'll send my list.
I'm not sure about the bi part but sure everyone lies about that anyway |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these"
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters? "
I understood it to mean there should be no such thing as joining for free |
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Yeah definitely paid subscribers only for genuine swingers....
Profiles a bit more info ...ie what the person is into straight up like the interests are but more about the person aswell...like prefar single people r married or couples..
That height they prefar maybe ?? and if they looking a fwbs or more just random leg over lol
Though most wouldn't be honest I suppose but would help narrow people down a little
Cj x |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters? I understood it to mean there should be no such thing as joining for free"
Yes that's exactly what I meant.
A site for genuine swingers only. Not pic collectors/fake profiles and time wasters (which there are many)
B x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters? I understood it to mean there should be no such thing as joining for free
Yes that's exactly what I meant.
A site for genuine swingers only. Not pic collectors/fake profiles and time wasters (which there are many)
B x"
Can we get a spin off site though? |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters? I understood it to mean there should be no such thing as joining for free
Yes that's exactly what I meant.
A site for genuine swingers only. Not pic collectors/fake profiles and time wasters (which there are many)
B x
Can we get a spin off site though?"
I think even if there was the option to join for free for a week then you had to pay and join after that...might work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A block for non meet verified profiles
Either that or paid members only ..would out a lot of time wasters
B x
I second both of these
Isn't there's already a message filter/block of non site supporters? I understood it to mean there should be no such thing as joining for free
Yes that's exactly what I meant.
A site for genuine swingers only. Not pic collectors/fake profiles and time wasters (which there are many)
B x
Can we get a spin off site though?
I think even if there was the option to join for free for a week then you had to pay and join after that...might work "
No thanks.
I'd like a free site where I can just waste peoples time.
If you take away this free site where I just waste peoples time that is
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
Legal threats about the use of photos would be automatically deleted.
Any mention of Sydney Uni would also be delwted.
Cut and paste would be impossible.
New posts to a thread would only contain first three words of the original thread.
Double pentration preferences could be differentiated into the three principal types:DP, DVP or DAP.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1. When viewing a profile with message history, tapping the message on the profile brings you to the message history with that profile.
2. Do away with the stupid button on right hand side on mobile app to delete a message, lost numerous messages by just holding the phone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would like to see voice notes become a feature. Would be nice to find out what somebody sounds like
I know what you sound like  "
You can record a video clip with sound |
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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago
Meath / Dublin / Birmingham |
One that only dawned on me this morning - a dark mode for browsing. The all-white background on the site can still come across very bright when viewed in a dark room on the phone's lowest brightness setting. |
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"One that only dawned on me this morning - a dark mode for browsing. The all-white background on the site can still come across very bright when viewed in a dark room on the phone's lowest brightness setting."
Does your browser not have a dark mode/night mode? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Rare does a day pass without me thinking of building a new Fab.. the site owners here clearly don't invest in Fab and yet here we all are.. it does "just work", in a late 90s website sorta way  "
Build it and they will cum  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Rare does a day pass without me thinking of building a new Fab.. the site owners here clearly don't invest in Fab and yet here we all are.. it does "just work", in a late 90s website sorta way "
We could be on bebo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Getting profiles barred permanently. There's one thread on here that's a fun bus run from someone in wexford, an obvious scam.. We're all here for fun and to a lesser extent games "board games" to be precise. To many fake profiles jamming up the site claiming to couples and get verified "falsely"!!! |
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"A ban on any non sex, swinger or site related threads on the forum, with forum thread topics submitted for approval to admin prior to appearing public."
So no small talk at all, just straight into it? I like it Ted! 
Brace yourselves ladies! |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
Cork |
"A ban on any non sex, swinger or site related threads on the forum, with forum thread topics submitted for approval to admin prior to appearing public.
So no small talk at all, just straight into it? I like it Ted!
Brace yourselves ladies! "
Reclaim the swinger site’s forum for swinging!
Surely the banal chat about latest Game of Thrones episode is taking place somewhere else anyway where talk of swinging isn’t overly welcomed. |
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"A ban on any non sex, swinger or site related threads on the forum, with forum thread topics submitted for approval to admin prior to appearing public.
So no small talk at all, just straight into it? I like it Ted!
Brace yourselves ladies!
Reclaim the swinger site’s forum for swinging!
Surely the banal chat about latest Game of Thrones episode is taking place somewhere else anyway where talk of swinging isn’t overly welcomed."
Regimented forums where general chit chat isn't allowed, and where people have to stay strictly on topic can be extremely dull and rarely last long as a result in my experience. A mix like this place seems ideal to me. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"A ban on any non sex, swinger or site related threads on the forum, with forum thread topics submitted for approval to admin prior to appearing public.
So no small talk at all, just straight into it? I like it Ted!
Brace yourselves ladies!
Reclaim the swinger site’s forum for swinging!
Surely the banal chat about latest Game of Thrones episode is taking place somewhere else anyway where talk of swinging isn’t overly welcomed."
Why not start a thread and take it from there if it works |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A ban on any non sex, swinger or site related threads on the forum, with forum thread topics submitted for approval to admin prior to appearing public."
Can see where you're coming from but the forums have been like that for as long as I remember and I've been using this site well over ten years
Jay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....  "
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile"
Can they verify themselves |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile
Can they verify themselves "
Im sure they can... |
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here.... "
I know one extremely well verified woman with at least one other single woman profile and a single man profile also. |
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- mandatory photo verification
- paid-only accounts
- Private group chat facility (no need for other messaging apps then)
- "Events" section for Ireland where events profiles only can post.
- Special 'Events' profiles where you need prior approval to set up.
- Non-approval of poor quality pics would improve the site overall.
- Ability to filter out those you have previously replied to (out of politeness) without needing to block them.
- For MF profiles, default M and F identification for the age/height/orientation/smoker status panels. Sometimes you can't tell who is the 4ft 8" and who is the 6ft 4" part of a couple
I'll think of more |
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Thought of another one ....
Change that misleading auto comment "Not looking for single guys" to what it actually means, such as "Single guys blocked from messaging, but we may still be looking for you, so maybe try more effective ways to get our attention like improving your profile, posting decent pictures, being nice on the Forums, attending socials and generally not being a dickhead" (or something like that). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile"
See that I don't mind, it's the single profiles having more than one single profile or using multiple profiles . It's fun though when they answer themselves on the wrong profile |
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile
See that I don't mind, it's the single profiles having more than one single profile or using multiple profiles . It's fun though when they answer themselves on the wrong profile "
It's funny when you've been chatting to them for a while and they accidentally continue the conversation from one of their other profiles after a few glasses of Jamesons. It answers so many questions. |
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"A lot less effort required to send a voice note. And you could send them on the go rather than worring about angles, lighting and hiding the holy pictures in the background  "
Bad enough reading about moist panties and mmmmmmm without actually having to listen to it  |
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"I would like to see voice notes become a feature. Would be nice to find out what somebody sounds like
I know what you sound like "
Sure ya probably hear me whispering in your ear when your sleeping at this rate Lolly |
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"I would like to see voice notes become a feature. Would be nice to find out what somebody sounds like
I know what you sound like
You can record a video clip with sound "
A lot less effort required to send a voice note. And you could send them on the go rather than worring about angles, lighting and hiding the holy pictures in the background |
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"A lot less effort required to send a voice note. And you could send them on the go rather than worring about angles, lighting and hiding the holy pictures in the background
Bad enough reading about moist panties and mmmmmmm without actually having to listen to it "
Each to their own is what i say!
Its only a suggestion |
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile
See that I don't mind, it's the single profiles having more than one single profile or using multiple profiles . It's fun though when they answer themselves on the wrong profile "
I must be right thick not to have noticed this |
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile
See that I don't mind, it's the single profiles having more than one single profile or using multiple profiles . It's fun though when they answer themselves on the wrong profile
I must be right thick not to have noticed this "
There have been multiple examples. Some realise immediately and delete their comment and then repost under a different profile.
The funniest ones have been when they are trolling and start incendiary threads. They argue against their main profile but sometimes forget to switch profiles and end up having an argument with themselves. |
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"Do away with multiple accounts. No one should be allowed more then one account
This i know someone who has
at least 3/4 accounts here....
There several people who have multiple. Know one couple who have a couples profile single profiles for both of them and then their "business" profile
See that I don't mind, it's the single profiles having more than one single profile or using multiple profiles . It's fun though when they answer themselves on the wrong profile
I must be right thick not to have noticed this
There have been multiple examples. Some realise immediately and delete their comment and then repost under a different profile.
The funniest ones have been when they are trolling and start incendiary threads. They argue against their main profile but sometimes forget to switch profiles and end up having an argument with themselves. "
I should be more observant |
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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago
Based in Kerry, work in Cork. |
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The funniest ones have been when they are trolling and start incendiary threads. They argue against their main profile but sometimes forget to switch profiles and end up having an argument with themselves. "
Any examples? They would be fun to read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are so annoyed now with fake profiles that have multiple verifications and turn out to be fake over and over again that we are going to start listing profiles to stay clear of.. Updating our profile to state that if no recent verification if a couple that both have met as recent as 2 months.. They are blocked. And named.. We are so sick of this a real turn off from meeting.. So much more to say but if we rant more we'd probably just delete our account. Barry and liz. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The funniest ones have been when they are trolling and start incendiary threads. They argue against their main profile but sometimes forget to switch profiles and end up having an argument with themselves.
Any examples? They would be fun to read "
Kinda want to see that myself |
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The funniest ones have been when they are trolling and start incendiary threads. They argue against their main profile but sometimes forget to switch profiles and end up having an argument with themselves.
Any examples? They would be fun to read "
I didn't take notes but there was one that went on during the night and only half a dozen people commented. It was all out war between 3 of the posters and was closed the next morning because of the content. The joy of being an early riser I read back through it and the person being picked on by the other two suddenly copped on that they were the same person because they were replying and quoting and dissecting their own comments without any input from him. He left them to it |
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I looked at the who's near page one day and of the nine profiles shown, 6 were of the same people. They have that number of different profiles as couples and God knows how many more as singles. All of the profiles featured different names and somewhat different ages. All were using the exact same pics though. It was only noticeable because it's unusual to see six couples all within half a mile of me on who's near. |
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"If you could add or change one thing on fab what would it be,
Mine would be :
Tagging people in your photos and vids
Commenting on photos and vids
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Yeah,that's actually good idea. be strict on how many profiles you can have |
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Delete dormant profiles - if a visible profile has not logged on for 2 weeks, a warning message to your email gives you 3 days to keep it active.
No photo verification within 48 hours, no access to the site, delete profile as above.
Separate icons for photo veri, cam veri and social/meet veri.
More search criteria compatible to what a particular profile is looking for, like height, sexuality, body shape, attached etc...
A section/button for what it is you're looking for, like sexting/camming only, casual hook-ups, FB, FWB, socials, parties, clubs and swinging scene.
Profiles which state "not meeting" or are sexting/camming only should be highlighted somehow so that those who are looking for socials and meets don't waste their time clicking into them!!!
Folders for sorting messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have an option to prevent your profile being "hotlisted", so that people can't stalk you anonymously
Starting to feel guilty now  "
To be fair, it's not like you hide it |
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"If you block someone, it would be great if all of their content was removed from your fab experience.
Forum posts , updates etc "
This is badly needed to block out the daily mad status updates some people put up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you block someone, it would be great if all of their content was removed from your fab experience.
Forum posts , updates etc
This is badly needed to block out the daily mad status updates some people put up. "
If you have someone blocked how are you seeing their status updates? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you block someone, it would be great if all of their content was removed from your fab experience.
Forum posts , updates etc
This is badly needed to block out the daily mad status updates some people put up.
If you have someone blocked how are you seeing their status updates?"
I'm also pretty sure that you don't see someone in status updates if you've blocked them (or they've blocked you)
But it's surely not that difficult to co-exist here with people one doesn't like - just ignore them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you block someone, it would be great if all of their content was removed from your fab experience.
Forum posts , updates etc
This is badly needed to block out the daily mad status updates some people put up.
If you have someone blocked how are you seeing their status updates?
I'm also pretty sure that you don't see someone in status updates if you've blocked them (or they've blocked you)
But it's surely not that difficult to co-exist here with people one doesn't like - just ignore them"
The only way I know you see a status update from someone you've blocked is if you see them online. Or in your block list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just come through a 20160 minutes probation period where I could not post on the forums but could send messages to people directly.
The best way to interact with people when joining a site like this is to interact via the forms instead of sending tons of mails, clogging up women and couples mailboxes even more.
Switch the probation period restrictions around, allow full access to the forums straight away but you can't send a new message to anyone for the probation period unless an established messages you first which you can reply to.
Increases the use of the forum and chat room, reduces a shit load of mails and if people are trolling they will have to do it in public which will likely be picked up by more people and called out.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
There is nothing really I would change.Maybe not making photo veried a way to bypass the Veri filter,but that's not that big a deal.
I use filters,I don't tend to interact with people I don't like,I couldn't give a rat's arse what others do on their profiles or in fact what they do if it doesn't affect me then they can do whatever and whoever they want .
I concentrate more on my own journey with those I like than worry or invest any time about what others are doing. And I find the site works fine for me. |
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No more photoless profiles. Don't get me wrong, I don't have, or expect to receive face pics from anyone. There is nothing worse then reading a profile or receiving a message from a profile with zero pics, public or private stating messages without a face pic will be ignored. A rule that all new profiles have at least a profile pic. Can be no faces, fully clothed if they wish just verified via the usual fab username on a piece of paper. Would out a lot of tine wasters i think. |
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