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Am I the @$$ for not posting face pic
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if anyone else has done this or want to share experiences.... I have decided that I will be uploading a face pic on here but for friends only to view "had issues with having a face pic public somewhere else", and was wondering am I being inconsiderate in not trusting folk on here "I've chatted to so many lovely people on here" or does it matter that I don't post a public face pic? Not even sure if I am making sense but open to hearing opinions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've never put a face pic up for the simple reason I like my privacy and as another person said I only send face pics to people I've been chatting to for a while and I feel comfortable one of my pics were stolen a few days ago so your right to be concerned and you've already said one of yours was posted somewhere elce so that should give you your answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't have a face pic anywhere on the site and have no issues with anyone who doesn't share them either.
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Same here, it's clearly stated on our profile, anyone who has an issue with that is quite welcome to avoid us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really |
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"Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really "
Gosh you sound just like my ex.. He said there doesn't even need to be a sexual attraction, just a human dildo.. Of course the face matters! & the personality!
Ridiculous idea... One reason why he's an ex.. |
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Wouldn’t send a face pic, but wouldn’t meet without a social/coffee first anymore either, but be prepared to hit a lot of brick walls if you don’t send them freely. As above posted, do what’s right for you. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
My face PIC is my most valuable and unique piece of intellectual property that I guard jealously; 50% of the world's human population have a body that is similar to mine; nobody, apart from my doppelganger, has a face identical to mine! |
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"Wouldn’t send a face pic, but wouldn’t meet without a social/coffee first anymore either, but be prepared to hit a lot of brick walls if you don’t send them freely. As above posted, do what’s right for you. "
I've never hit a single brick wall in all my time here because of facepics. It's never been a problem. |
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Personally wouldn't recommend public face pics. We don't have public face pics and we have had people message us trying to tell me they recognize me from my pictures and am I this person or that person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s entirely up to the individual. There will always be a risk of your face pic being shared etc. At the end of the day though it really is nobody’s else’s business what you do. You ain’t doing anything illegal and they ain’t paying your bills ! |
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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago
The bog |
"Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really "
So ur basically saying Ur a any hole is a goal person..good to Know..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really
Gosh you sound just like my ex.. He said there doesn't even need to be a sexual attraction, just a human dildo.. Of course the face matters! & the personality!
Ridiculous idea... One reason why he's an ex.. "
I'm not your ex so that doesn't apply to me, I think you are taking what I said out of context, a face means very little, we all have 2 eyes a nose and a mouth so why then are some people very insistant on seeing a face pic, body physique and personality are far more important to me from a swinging perspective, face comes last. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really
So ur basically saying Ur a any hole is a goal person..good to Know.. "
No I'm not |
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By *on655Man
over a year ago
Bronte |
I have my face up simply because I have nothing to hide, I’m here to enjoy myself. Your profile is in a way an advertisement of yourself so look at it this way. If you want to increase your chances of a meet and think a face picture will do that then have a think on whether it bothers you that someone you may know will see it (there are other factors aswell).
If it’s something your not ready to share publicly yet then keep it friends only. At the end of the day it’s your profile. Do as you wish |
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"I don't have a face pic anywhere on the site and have no issues with anyone who doesn't share them either.
Same here, it's clearly stated on our profile, anyone who has an issue with that is quite welcome to avoid us. "
Same for us ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really think we need to stop worrying what we should or shouldn't do on our profiles just because it doesn't suit other people.
I don't have face pics on my profile, if I'm chatting and am interested in meeting I'll swap face pics. I also think unfortunately there is still that attitude of oh your female your on a swing site your easy and you'll shag anything whereas for a guy it go you you stud.
Also it's quite creepy getting messages from blank profiles saying oh I recognise you, see you in the shop earlier.
But as I seem to be saying a lot on here, you do you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never upload face pics here, most people only ask for a face pic out of pure nosiness nothing more, it's swinging it's all about the body a face means nothing really "
For you maybe that's what swinging is. You will surely realise though that others won't share that view on it. I need to be attracted to the face too. I want the whole package. Face, body & personality in combination determine whether I fuck someone.
OP only do what you feel comfortable with. Everyone's level of comfort regarding face pics will differ don't feel you should compromise |
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I don't understand the hang up.with face pics on this site..personally never will share a face pic but thats down to experience.
If you want to upload a pic just be aware that they are alot of time wasters on here, pic collecting and reusing people pics..
As per another poster, if you feel comfortable to send one after several chats ..then by all means but don't think everyone on this site is as honest or genuine as you are..if your willing to have your picture on the Internet then not an issue |
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On the flip side, being overtly public with face pics also limits who you meet.. that's been the case in our experience:
Some people who otherwise may have been interested in us frown upon our level of visibility and/or our request for face pics upfront and incorrectly assume we won't respect their privacy/discretion. So they choose to not engage with us- that's absolutely expected and would never think any lesser of anyone for not sharing face pics.
Many people levy judgement in the forums and passively on their profiles about this divisive topic.. don't worry what people think and do what you're safe and comfortable with.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with *not* sharing face pics here- don't let anyone dictate to you how to conduct yourself OP
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It’s really down to what you are comfortable with and sticking to it.
We are open with friends and family about what we do, so having our faces on here doesn’t bother us. However we fully respect other privacy and private life and never ever discuss who we meet with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t post them because I don’t want to put people off straight away, but I will send one if I’m comfortable enough to put them off later…  "
that's exactly how I see it with mine hahaha |
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"I don’t post them because I don’t want to put people off straight away, but I will send one if I’m comfortable enough to put them off later… "
Lolll.. to be fair.. it's your enormous length we would be more wary of!  |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"I don’t post them because I don’t want to put people off straight away, but I will send one if I’m comfortable enough to put them off later…
Lolll.. to be fair.. it's your enormous length we would be more wary of! "
You should see my nose…..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly it happened to a guy i worked with. By people he worked with. Besides myself , you couldn't have found a more honest and trustworthy guy.
Twats did it for a giggle because he dared to be different. That hurts.
Beyond that, they can effoff if they try to shame us. Tis a legal minefield, not in their favour  |
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"I don't have a face pic anywhere on the site and have no issues with anyone who doesn't share them either.
Same here, it's clearly stated on our profile, anyone who has an issue with that is quite welcome to avoid us.
Same for us !"
I guess I will have to try and imagine how pretty you are
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Only put the face picture if you can afford being recognised. For some jobs, having naked pictures on a swinger's site might be scandalous. If there is no corresponding face, then there is a plausible deniability.
Personally, I think that is nobody's concern what a teacher or a policeman does in their free time. |
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