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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was going on a first meet up tonight until I was asked if I'd go bare back.
I wouldn't, so that was the end of that.
Third time in a couple of months.
Sorry now, but if I don't know ya well, I'll have to wear a helmet.
Twenty years ago I would have no bother, but now I'm wiser and more fussy.
Quoting from here "don't be silly, wrap your willy"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it. |
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"Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it. "
So many ways for STI’s to be transmitted not just through penetrative sex.
I agree , regular tasting is the only way. |
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"Was going on a first meet up tonight until I was asked if I'd go bare back.
I wouldn't, so that was the end of that.
Third time in a couple of months.
Sorry now, but if I don't know ya well, I'll have to wear a helmet.
Twenty years ago I would have no bother, but now I'm wiser and more fussy.
Quoting from here "don't be silly, wrap your willy"
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"Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it.
So many ways for STI’s to be transmitted not just through penetrative sex.
I agree , regular tasting is the only way."
By jeasus tasting might get you in trouble too  |
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"Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it.
So many ways for STI’s to be transmitted not just through penetrative sex.
I agree , regular tasting is the only way.
By jeasus tasting might get you in trouble too "
Is it like milk? Does it taste sour if it goes off?  |
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"Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it.
So many ways for STI’s to be transmitted not just through penetrative sex.
I agree , regular tasting is the only way.
By jeasus tasting might get you in trouble too
Is it like milk? Does it taste sour if it goes off? "
 apologies TESTING!! |
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"Each to their own. Plenty of diseases that can be transmitted even while using a condom or sharing toys, not washing between multiple partners, oral/rimming without protection. More important is regular testing - I suspect quite a few fabbers assume using a condom for intercourse means there's no need for it.
So many ways for STI’s to be transmitted not just through penetrative sex.
I agree , regular tasting is the only way.
By jeasus tasting might get you in trouble too
Is it like milk? Does it taste sour if it goes off?
apologies TESTING!!"
We would always be of the opinion that both is the only way. Safe sex and regular tests.  |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
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Whilst there is some risk with oral sex it’s just really impractical to use condoms and an erection is not a requirement . Penetrative sex however is a straightforward vehicle for wearing a condom and making the likelihood of regular tests coming back negative higher |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst there is some risk with oral sex it’s just really impractical to use condoms and an erection is not a requirement . Penetrative sex however is a straightforward vehicle for wearing a condom and making the likelihood of regular tests coming back negative higher "
Agreed. Always safe sex with someone new and regular testing. |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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It's a personal decision, but although bareback is more intense, it is risky with a new partner.
If a degree of trust can be established, coupled with regular testing, and honesty about the results, bareback is possible in limited circumstances.
Myself and my former partner used to frequently meet an attractive couple whom we believed we could eventually trust, and vice versa.
We were tested regularly, we shared the results and there was never any problem; the only time we chose to use condoms was when we DP'd; my former was afraid of getting a bacterial infection in her 'front' as she described it. |
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