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Do ladies ever make the first move?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do yes. Preferably if I get that reciprocating vibe that the man likes me too.usually start with the hair playing and lip biting and smiling- Especially when at a social, I’ll approach the men if I feel my teasing is working  |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
I always send a first message,usually through here on the forum page if something about them catches my eye, let it be there comment,status update or pictures ill look at there profile see what there looking for and pick something from there and message them mabey send a wink also see what happens then.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Women make the first move here all the time they just don't make threads about it when someone doesn't answer them! As Lolly said if someone catches my eyes with a status update or a really interesting profile etc I'll make the first move. The last few men I met I sent first message. If us ladies want something we aren't shy about getting it! |
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Yes, we do! Otherwise I wouldn't now be part of a couple  . And like someone said already, it's all sorts that makes me make first contact - from forum posts (someone has to put these chaps into their place  ) to status updates to an attractive, enticing profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my younger/single days 90% of the women I have been with initiated the first move. Still happens regularly now if I’m out with male company. With the standard of looks being quite high too may I add.
Completely different on Fab the ratio of men to women here inflates womens egos it skews their attitude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Women make the first move here all the time they just don't make threads about it when someone doesn't answer them! As Lolly said if someone catches my eyes with a status update or a really interesting profile etc I'll make the first move. The last few men I met I sent first message. If us ladies want something we aren't shy about getting it!"
I can definitely vouch for the last part !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, we do! Otherwise I wouldn't now be part of a couple . And like someone said already, it's all sorts that makes me make first contact - from forum posts (someone has to put these chaps into their place ) to status updates to an attractive, enticing profile..."
Ditto.
The forum is a great pick up spot (pmsl)
I like being able to see how someone behaves in general as well so I never bother looking at who's near or searching for men that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely they do, the good thing too is that there's usually content and substance to the message, imagine that! "
I think ladies here don't take the scatter gun approach. We tend to send less messages but put a bit of effort into them as well. |
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"Absolutely they do, the good thing too is that there's usually content and substance to the message, imagine that!
I think ladies here don't take the scatter gun approach. We tend to send less messages but put a bit of effort into them as well. "
I think you've summed it up perfectly! |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
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"In my short experience on Fab so far I have had a couple of first messages from ladies.
Damn Right ye have me included 
I believe you also send pictures  "
Haha yeah on occasion ive been known to accidentally on purpose send nudes my apologies to anyone who eye's they graced |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In my short experience on Fab so far I have had a couple of first messages from ladies.
Damn Right ye have me included
I believe you also send pictures
Haha yeah on occasion ive been known to accidentally on purpose send nudes my apologies to anyone who eye's they graced "
Accident…..yeah right |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"In my short experience on Fab so far I have had a couple of first messages from ladies.
Damn Right ye have me included
I believe you also send pictures
Haha yeah on occasion ive been known to accidentally on purpose send nudes my apologies to anyone who eye's they graced
Accident…..yeah right "
Did say accidentally on purpose |
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"In my short experience on Fab so far I have had a couple of first messages from ladies.
Damn Right ye have me included
I believe you also send pictures
Haha yeah on occasion ive been known to accidentally on purpose send nudes my apologies to anyone who eye's they graced "
I feel used now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've received a few first messages from ladies. But I generally go by the way they are in the forum's. If they're good craic and interesting I might send a message if within what they are looking for. |
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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago
The pub then supermacs ... |
"In my short experience on Fab so far I have had a couple of first messages from ladies.
Damn Right ye have me included
I believe you also send pictures
Haha yeah on occasion ive been known to accidentally on purpose send nudes my apologies to anyone who eye's they graced
I feel used now "
Now we both know that pic was accidental or was it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've received a few first messages from ladies. But I generally go by the way they are in the forum's. If they're good craic and interesting I might send a message if within what they are looking for."
Actually I have been receiving a lot more messages from ladies than I ever did before. It's very flattering and who doesn't fancy a woman with confidence |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
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Most of the single woman we have met made the first move.
I (K) have no problem approaching another woman in a club, but don't message them that often as I imagine we would get lost among the other 1000 messages they received that day  |
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In my experience, it's very rare to ever have the lady initiate the conversation, 70% of messages never merit a response, and the 30% seem to fizzle out, this could totally be on me and reading up in the forums has already had me reflecting, but I do wish I knew where I was going wrong and how to stand out to merit a first message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have. If I see a profile I like I'll message and tell them exactly what I think or like about it or them. Most have replied even if it's just to say thanks. |
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I've realized the forums are a great way to make passing connections and I feel ladies feel more comfortable about messaging first if they see you are fun, witty and inticing.. long may it continue  |
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