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What triggers you ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we're talking about fab....
Women being categorised - plus size, BBW etc.
The self righteous bs of those that do wrong but have a reason to blame someone or something else.
'Fab Straight' guys posting in forums about how manly they are and messaging you telling you the want the ass fk'd off them. 
Everyday life - I'll summarise - People, the weather, work, cost of living, driving, my body type, my sexual orientation, politics and the list goes on
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Excessive bad language.
Ahhhh fuck. Sorry couldn’t help myself "
Lol I said excessive and not through a screen it's more in person. Last time I counted how many times a person said it while he was talking a few sentences lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The little boys on here, seem to talk all the talk but usually are just full of crap.
People who think they are so much better than others - no one is better than anyone here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The little boys on here, seem to talk all the talk but usually are just full of crap.
People who think they are so much better than others - no one is better than anyone here "
Exactly xx it's nice to see you other platinumhotwife, hope all is good with you xx. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People throwing rubbish on the ground or especially out a car window
People that look down on others
People  "
“People that look down on others”
Plenty of that goes on here within the “Clique”  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really."
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.
Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness |
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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago
the right side of the river |
People who demand everyone respect and tolerate their thing, be that sexuality, food choices, lifestyle, or whatever it happens to be. For example, a vegetarian not tolerant of someone eating meat or a vegan not tolerant of a vegetarian eating eggs or a raw vegan not tolerant of a vegan cooking spuds, just live and let live, no one really cares. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.
Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness"
Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately. |
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By *indenMan
over a year ago
Naas which is South West of Dublin |
"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.
Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness
Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately. "
I would say exposed as opposed to grown. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
On here people asking info on others and those arseholes who share it even when it's wrong.
Apart from that on here I don't invest enough energy to care what others do really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.
Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness
Transphobia has grown a lot in recent months all over the world not just here unfortunately.
I would say exposed as opposed to grown."
I'd agree  |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
"On here I think it's fairly obvious that transphobia, trans intolerance and wilful trans ignorance trigger me. It's the case irl too.
Also body shaming, shitty attitudes towards abortion rights, victim blaming and general cuntishness"
All of the above for me too. |
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"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.
Don't buy it
It is a challenge at this stage."
Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.
Don't buy it
It is a challenge at this stage.
Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place "
Defeating those two little words and opening it without having to call the packet a flurry of curse words. Don't get me started on Venetian Blinds. They are my true nemesis. |
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"Packaging with 'peel here' on the corner.
Don't buy it
It is a challenge at this stage.
Which part - not getting triggered, not getting triggered by not being able to open the packaging or not buying it in the first place
Defeating those two little words and opening it without having to call the packet a flurry of curse words. Don't get me started on Venetian Blinds. They are my true nemesis. "
Get rid of the Venetians...Marsians keep you warmer anyway
The flurry of curse words on occasion is such a release, look at the positive  |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
somewhere |
Actually packs of cheese or ham slices that have the peel here on one corner but the product packed from the opposite end that you have to touch all the slices to peel one other really piss me off.....calm down calm down |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People that clear out their lungs and noses and spit it on the footpath! It especially boils my blood when they do it as someone is walking towards them!!!! Aaarrrggghhhhhh
T x |
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"Bullying really triggers me.
Ignorance in general is a trigger.
This seems to be rife here  "
The catty comments when someone posts something they think is silly or don't agree with. Give me strength |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social media posts that are false, usually targeted at trans people, vaccination info, pro choice etc. The goal is always the same, stoke an argument, get a few clicks. It's definitely a coordinated effort across platforms and profiles, you see the same shit copied and pasted on various forums/ threads. There's a guy living near me who gets a few bob to hang those Repent posters around the town, posters about the vaccine harming footballers and kids. It really is bizarre to me that any group would be so harmful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually packs of cheese or ham slices that have the peel here on one corner but the product packed from the opposite end that you have to touch all the slices to peel one other really piss me off.....calm down calm down "
I feel you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On fab? Nothing, we've been on this site on and off over the years, so we've seen and heard it all.
In life? Well! Driving out of my estate on an incline to the main road which is on another hill, (it's Cork folks!), and no matter what time of day or night there is always someone driving incredibly slowly past me before I get out. It's annoying as I drive a slow moving van myself and it takes ages to get on to the main road. It's infuriating! 7am someone goes past, 10am, 5pm, stupid o'clock am and someone trundles past. I'd love to be able to get on to that road just once without having to bloody wait
It's the only exit in an estate with 500 houses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually packs of cheese or ham slices that have the peel here on one corner but the product packed from the opposite end that you have to touch all the slices to peel one other really piss me off.....calm down calm down "
Don't start me about the easy open and resealable packs that you have to rip to shreds to get open. Why don't they just put them in zip lock bags. It's where it ends up anyway.
And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me |
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And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me "
Ever heard of a freezer? And homemade burgers are so much more yummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me
Ever heard of a freezer? And homemade burgers are so much more yummy "
Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck. |
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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago
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And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me
Ever heard of a freezer? And homemade burgers are so much more yummy
Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck. "
Or buy the premade burgers plus buns from the chill cabinet |
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At the ripe age of 24 going on 25 things are starting to "trigger" me less. Two faced people piss me off. The smiley oh hey im such a nice person that is simultaneously stabbing you in the back then playing innocent when you cop it. A lot of secondary school antics that are beyond pathetic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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And why can we buy 6 burber buns in a pack but burgers only come in 4's. It's a conspiracy to drive people insane. I know because my imaginary friend in the CIA told me
Ever heard of a freezer? And homemade burgers are so much more yummy
Ah ye. Now that I'm out on my own I don't use much frozen stuff. But the 6/4 ratio is a head wreck.
Or buy the premade burgers plus buns from the chill cabinet "
Duuuuude!!! The microwave rubbish? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
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this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing. |
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To add my entry: 40 yoyo expensive warhammer model you can't even assemble properly without Tony Stark kind of workshop, and yet the proxy model can be printed off for like 2 yoyos, and looks better! |
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing. "
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Believe me, having tried and tried and tried the many suggested different ways of dealing with trumas and triggers, I found that the only two ways which work for my brain are: 'Forget and Forgive', and 'Ignore and walk away from the Kunt(s)'.
. . I promise you, they work like magic.
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Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.
.
Believe me, having tried and tried and tried the many suggested different ways of dealing with trumas and triggers, I found that the only two ways which work for my brain are: 'Forget and Forgive', and 'Ignore and walk away from the Kunt(s)'.
. . I promise you, they work like magic.
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Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea "
Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ? |
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.
.
Believe me, having tried and tried and tried the many suggested different ways of dealing with trumas and triggers, I found that the only two ways which work for my brain are: 'Forget and Forgive', and 'Ignore and walk away from the Kunt(s)'.
. . I promise you, they work like magic.
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Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea
Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ?"
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I hear you, some acts are too difficult to forgive, but I promise you forgiveness is what liberates you and sets you free.
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Yeah, a particular type of cruises that sails from Greece were mentioned on the last Limerick M&G Kik group chat and popped a comment about them Just after those lovely bike pictures, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing.
Life is too short to waste on triggers or on anything upsetting really.
This is true but triggering happens subconsciously sometimes. Especially if the trigger is a reminder of a traumatic event.
this happens to me often enough but it's learning how to deal with them in the right way is the thing.
.
Believe me, having tried and tried and tried the many suggested different ways of dealing with trumas and triggers, I found that the only two ways which work for my brain are: 'Forget and Forgive', and 'Ignore and walk away from the Kunt(s)'.
. . I promise you, they work like magic.
.
Oh by the way, are you still looking into those Greek cruises ? If so, please drop me a line. I've an idea
Some things just can't be forgiven and must be dealt with accordingly though. Yes I walk away alot don't need negativity in my life . Greek cruises, did i say that if so when ?
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I hear you, some acts are too difficult to forgive, but I promise you forgiveness is what liberates you and sets you free.
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Yeah, a particular type of cruises that sails from Greece were mentioned on the last Limerick M&G Kik group chat and popped a comment about them Just after those lovely bike pictures, lol."
I would want to watch what am saying in those private groups so wouldn't I, no further comments here. |
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