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"Does anyone know if there are sites similar to this but geared towards plus size women?" Here's about as good as you'll get | |||
"Does anyone know if there are sites similar to this but geared towards plus size women? Here's about as good as you'll get" Ah ok thank you | |||
"Does anyone know if there are sites similar to this but geared towards plus size women?" There used to be one, can't think of it now tho. | |||
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"Had heard of one before but the general consensus was that it fetishized plus size women which wouldn’t be for me!" No that's not what I want either. Thanks for your reply. | |||
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"We need one !!" Do we though? There’s plenty off all shapes and sizes here. I’ll be honest, someone identifying as a bbw lover or similar is a red flag to me. I’d prefer to be liked for being me, not for my body shape. | |||
"We need one !! Do we though? There’s plenty off all shapes and sizes here. I’ll be honest, someone identifying as a bbw lover or similar is a red flag to me. I’d prefer to be liked for being me, not for my body shape. " I'm with Jaffa on this one, here is grand, prefer someone to like me for me not for my wobbly bits | |||
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"We need one !! Do we though? There’s plenty off all shapes and sizes here. I’ll be honest, someone identifying as a bbw lover or similar is a red flag to me. I’d prefer to be liked for being me, not for my body shape. I'm with Jaffa on this one, here is grand, prefer someone to like me for me not for my wobbly bits"  | |||
"Plus size is a term that grinds my gears tbh. Plus size as apposed to what? It's a fact that most men prefer curvy women so why isn't plus size the standard size and the smaller sizes a minus size? Rant over. Just me overthinking something again " Plus sizes is used for sizes above a 16. Below a 16 is deemed as “straight sizing” and it’s what most shops used to limit their clothes to, and some still do. With regards to “men prefer curvy”, it’s often the case where those curves have to be “in all the right places”. While I can’t speak for all plus size/fat women, most of us have been in situations where a man is happy to fuck us but doesn’t want to be seen in public with us. Fatphobia is real and imo, fetishising plus size women plays into that. | |||
"Plus size is a term that grinds my gears tbh. Plus size as apposed to what? It's a fact that most men prefer curvy women so why isn't plus size the standard size and the smaller sizes a minus size? Rant over. Just me overthinking something again shallow men Plus sizes is used for sizes above a 16. Below a 16 is deemed as “straight sizing” and it’s what most shops used to limit their clothes to, and some still do. With regards to “men prefer curvy”, it’s often the case where those curves have to be “in all the right places”. While I can’t speak for all plus size/fat women, most of us have been in situations where a man is happy to fuck us but doesn’t want to be seen in public with us. Fatphobia is real and imo, fetishising plus size women plays into that. " | |||
"Plus size is a term that grinds my gears tbh. Plus size as apposed to what? It's a fact that most men prefer curvy women so why isn't plus size the standard size and the smaller sizes a minus size? Rant over. Just me overthinking something again Plus sizes is used for sizes above a 16. Below a 16 is deemed as “straight sizing” and it’s what most shops used to limit their clothes to, and some still do. With regards to “men prefer curvy”, it’s often the case where those curves have to be “in all the right places”. While I can’t speak for all plus size/fat women, most of us have been in situations where a man is happy to fuck us but doesn’t want to be seen in public with us. Fatphobia is real and imo, fetishising plus size women plays into that. " Just because society says it's a thing dosnt mean I have to agree with it. Curves in the right places is an interesting statement. So where are the wrong places to have curves? There's a fetish for just about everything and I'm sure there are plenty of plus size ones out there too. It's not an absolute thing I look for but a preference. | |||
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"shallow men have an issue be proud of you be proud of who you stand beside life is about difference life is about who we are not what people think we are and curves are hot " Totally agree | |||
"shallow men have an issue be proud of you be proud of who you stand beside life is about difference life is about who we are not what people think we are and curves are hot " Well said | |||
"shallow men have an issue be proud of you be proud of who you stand beside life is about difference life is about who we are not what people think we are and curves are hot " So well said. I am confident in my skin, curves bumps and all. It took a long time to get here but now I hold my head high and think this is me, take it or leave it! It's so nice to be complimented  | |||
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"shallow men have an issue be proud of you be proud of who you stand beside life is about difference life is about who we are not what people think we are and curves are hot So well said. I am confident in my skin, curves bumps and all. It took a long time to get here but now I hold my head high and think this is me, take it or leave it! It's so nice to be complimented "Curves are there to be appreciated | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. " Is dadbod the equivalent of BBW though? Alot of things about the female form is discriminated against. Women put alot of time and effort into how they look and I as a man truly appreciate it but unfortunately goes unnoticed by the majority. Unless they're trying to get into your pants of course. And labels. God I hate labels. Women are women full stop. With all their different body types, hairstyles, boob sizes etc. Women should not be subject to conform to what society expects them to be. As said before, you are all beautiful in different ways and should be proud of that and not have to change to please men ( for the most part anyway) | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. " I listened to a book called "you are not a before picture" and some of the things she discussed was eye opening. One for eg was how women are portrayed in Disney movies all the princesses are thin and beautiful and the nasty step mums etc are fat and ugly, and as we grew up this is shown to us over and over again, look at magazines how celebrities are torn apart for gaining weight both male and female celebrities. For years I've used my weight as a " security blanket" cant get hurt if noone likes me, and nobody likes the fat girl, all the guys go for the skinny girls. Over the years the comments I have overheard, have had said to me I developed the safety blanket of been fat. I'd meet people and they be " oh your friends with..." . My reply yep I'm the fat funny one, always happy always willing to lend a hand etc Even now if you look at the " plus sized ladies" in social media they still are beautiful ladies with hips and bum but their tummies are relatively flat. This isn't a true representation of plus size women but than again why should we be labelled plus size? Or curvy or skinny. I have fat just like I have blonde hair and blue eyes but I am funny, caring, loyal, loving, etc etc Now when I get called fat or get abuse on here I just think off with ya love, this is me and my wobbly bits are just that, I can change it if I want. That behaviour says more about them than it ever will about me. | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. I listened to a book called "you are not a before picture" and some of the things she discussed was eye opening. One for eg was how women are portrayed in Disney movies all the princesses are thin and beautiful and the nasty step mums etc are fat and ugly, and as we grew up this is shown to us over and over again, look at magazines how celebrities are torn apart for gaining weight both male and female celebrities. For years I've used my weight as a " security blanket" cant get hurt if noone likes me, and nobody likes the fat girl, all the guys go for the skinny girls. Over the years the comments I have overheard, have had said to me I developed the safety blanket of been fat. I'd meet people and they be " oh your friends with..." . My reply yep I'm the fat funny one, always happy always willing to lend a hand etc Even now if you look at the " plus sized ladies" in social media they still are beautiful ladies with hips and bum but their tummies are relatively flat. This isn't a true representation of plus size women but than again why should we be labelled plus size? Or curvy or skinny. I have fat just like I have blonde hair and blue eyes but I am funny, caring, loyal, loving, etc etc Now when I get called fat or get abuse on here I just think off with ya love, this is me and my wobbly bits are just that, I can change it if I want. That behaviour says more about them than it ever will about me. " And do you realise now that you will get more positive comments than negative ones? And the negative comments come from complete morons? | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. I listened to a book called "you are not a before picture" and some of the things she discussed was eye opening. One for eg was how women are portrayed in Disney movies all the princesses are thin and beautiful and the nasty step mums etc are fat and ugly, and as we grew up this is shown to us over and over again, look at magazines how celebrities are torn apart for gaining weight both male and female celebrities. For years I've used my weight as a " security blanket" cant get hurt if noone likes me, and nobody likes the fat girl, all the guys go for the skinny girls. Over the years the comments I have overheard, have had said to me I developed the safety blanket of been fat. I'd meet people and they be " oh your friends with..." . My reply yep I'm the fat funny one, always happy always willing to lend a hand etc Even now if you look at the " plus sized ladies" in social media they still are beautiful ladies with hips and bum but their tummies are relatively flat. This isn't a true representation of plus size women but than again why should we be labelled plus size? Or curvy or skinny. I have fat just like I have blonde hair and blue eyes but I am funny, caring, loyal, loving, etc etc Now when I get called fat or get abuse on here I just think off with ya love, this is me and my wobbly bits are just that, I can change it if I want. That behaviour says more about them than it ever will about me. And do you realise now that you will get more positive comments than negative ones? And the negative comments come from complete morons?" Wouldn't expect any positive comments , I was just explaining my view on this. | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. " Dad bod seems to be a normal size body for a man Im a dad but I'm fat...gets me down sometimes and did lose 2 stone at one stage but put it back on ...... It's true the difference in the way fat men and fat women are treated....wonder will it ever change | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. I listened to a book called "you are not a before picture" and some of the things she discussed was eye opening. One for eg was how women are portrayed in Disney movies all the princesses are thin and beautiful and the nasty step mums etc are fat and ugly, and as we grew up this is shown to us over and over again, look at magazines how celebrities are torn apart for gaining weight both male and female celebrities. For years I've used my weight as a " security blanket" cant get hurt if noone likes me, and nobody likes the fat girl, all the guys go for the skinny girls. Over the years the comments I have overheard, have had said to me I developed the safety blanket of been fat. I'd meet people and they be " oh your friends with..." . My reply yep I'm the fat funny one, always happy always willing to lend a hand etc Even now if you look at the " plus sized ladies" in social media they still are beautiful ladies with hips and bum but their tummies are relatively flat. This isn't a true representation of plus size women but than again why should we be labelled plus size? Or curvy or skinny. I have fat just like I have blonde hair and blue eyes but I am funny, caring, loyal, loving, etc etc Now when I get called fat or get abuse on here I just think off with ya love, this is me and my wobbly bits are just that, I can change it if I want. That behaviour says more about them than it ever will about me. And do you realise now that you will get more positive comments than negative ones? And the negative comments come from complete morons? Wouldn't expect any positive comments , I was just explaining my view on this." I mean in general. You generally get alot of compliments in the forum's and I'm sure you get them in private messages too. But there will always be a minority that resort to negative comments when they don't get their way. | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. Dad bod seems to be a normal size body for a man Im a dad but I'm fat...gets me down sometimes and did lose 2 stone at one stage but put it back on ...... It's true the difference in the way fat men and fat women are treated....wonder will it ever change " I'm the same. Get plenty of compliments on my 'dadbod' but I am aware I have a belly and plenty of other flaws that get me down on occasion but this is what I am. Even recently I was told someone one wouldn't be into me because I was overweight. I'm actually spot on for my BMI but it still hurts to hear stuff like that. | |||
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"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. " Interesting, and although it always lingered in my mind, I couldn't quite put my finger on it: Ladies, how many of you find a dadbod / plump / plus size / curvy member of the male population attractive? | |||
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"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. Interesting, and although it always lingered in my mind, I couldn't quite put my finger on it: Ladies, how many of you find a dadbod / plump / plus size / curvy member of the male population attractive? " Is it a case that women see a body type (dad bod) or whatever, if they're not interested they just pass it by without negative comments. Some guys, (I'd imagine and hope very much the minority) feel the need to slate for some reason? Am I just showing my absolute naivety to the world of fab. I know outside of fab people love to judge anyone or anything that doesn't fit to there way of living. | |||
"Does anyone know if there are sites similar to this but geared towards plus size women?" There aren't any... and if there were then they would be full of men fetishising it. | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. Interesting, and although it always lingered in my mind, I couldn't quite put my finger on it: Ladies, how many of you find a dadbod / plump / plus size / curvy member of the male population attractive? Is it a case that women see a body type (dad bod) or whatever, if they're not interested they just pass it by without negative comments. Some guys, (I'd imagine and hope very much the minority) feel the need to slate for some reason? Am I just showing my absolute naivety to the world of fab. I know outside of fab people love to judge anyone or anything that doesn't fit to there way of living. " Hopefully it's just the minority of guys on here that give the negative comments usually after they have been messaged and politely turned down. There's the odd one that than just randoms with nasty comments | |||
"We need one !! Do we though? There’s plenty off all shapes and sizes here. I’ll be honest, someone identifying as a bbw lover or similar is a red flag to me. I’d prefer to be liked for being me, not for my body shape. " It all starts in the mind, chemistry and stimulation | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. Interesting, and although it always lingered in my mind, I couldn't quite put my finger on it: Ladies, how many of you find a dadbod / plump / plus size / curvy member of the male population attractive? Is it a case that women see a body type (dad bod) or whatever, if they're not interested they just pass it by without negative comments. Some guys, (I'd imagine and hope very much the minority) feel the need to slate for some reason? Am I just showing my absolute naivety to the world of fab. I know outside of fab people love to judge anyone or anything that doesn't fit to there way of living. Hopefully it's just the minority of guys on here that give the negative comments usually after they have been messaged and politely turned down. There's the odd one that than just randoms with nasty comments " Unfortunately it's not just "guys" that give the negative or nasty comments. Couples and ladies. Block button in constant use lately.  | |||
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"No body should be shamed for their body type. But at the same time calling people shallow because they prefer one body type over another is ridiculous. We all have preferences. If I say I love women with curves no body calls me shallow. If I say I love women who toned and athletic then bingo shallow alert. They are all physical preferences. It's signal virtuing at its best. They are usually people that call women with curves "real women" not even noticing the irony of their statement." People who call women with curves “real women” are covered in red flags! The sooner people learn to not comment on other peoples bodies, no matter what shape that body is, the better. I’m fairly lucky that I haven’t gotten any abuse here over the shape of my body, in the recent past anyway. Those that do make those kinds of comments are usually insecure dopes not worth another thought unless it’s to feel pity for them. | |||
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"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" " Sorry it was late and I was super horny | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" " Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? | |||
"I often consider why plus size guys aren't discussed in such a negative and derogatory fashion by society. Why bbw is a thing, even a fetish for some. Is the size equivalent of curvy is the dad bod? Do women feel we have to label ourselves to be accepted in society... I am also guilty of this so its like being pre emptive before someone comments urg you're fat. Sizeism is an issue but skewed massively to the female gender. Interesting, and although it always lingered in my mind, I couldn't quite put my finger on it: Ladies, how many of you find a dadbod / plump / plus size / curvy member of the male population attractive? Is it a case that women see a body type (dad bod) or whatever, if they're not interested they just pass it by without negative comments. Some guys, (I'd imagine and hope very much the minority) feel the need to slate for some reason? Am I just showing my absolute naivety to the world of fab. I know outside of fab people love to judge anyone or anything that doesn't fit to there way of living. Hopefully it's just the minority of guys on here that give the negative comments usually after they have been messaged and politely turned down. There's the odd one that than just randoms with nasty comments Unfortunately it's not just "guys" that give the negative or nasty comments. Couples and ladies. Block button in constant use lately. "And up until now I thought my low self esteem only the constant rejection to fear  | |||
" People who call women with curves “real women” are covered in red flags! The sooner people learn to not comment on other peoples bodies, no matter what shape that body is, the better. I’m fairly lucky that I haven’t gotten any abuse here over the shape of my body, in the recent past anyway. Those that do make those kinds of comments are usually insecure dopes not worth another thought unless it’s to feel pity for them. " So even if someone told you they find your pics lovely, salacious, lovely, tasty, lickable, scrumptious, you'd still object to those type of comments? I mean, look, yeah, if someone is after right out offending you with nasty comments, yeah sure, to hell with them. But if someone is trying to pay you a compliment, in a moment of pure lust driven verbal moment, cause they'd ride that lady in the pics in your profile until your wheel fell off and the chassis cracked... Can you really blame them? I dunno... I learned a long time ago to shrug off insults and accusations cause it really leads you nowhere... | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear?" Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing? | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing?" To an extent I would say yes | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing?" Oh there definitely is. We are seen as pity fucks by some. | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing? Oh there definitely is. We are seen as pity fucks by some. " I pity you. But for a whole different set of reasons | |||
" People who call women with curves “real women” are covered in red flags! The sooner people learn to not comment on other peoples bodies, no matter what shape that body is, the better. I’m fairly lucky that I haven’t gotten any abuse here over the shape of my body, in the recent past anyway. Those that do make those kinds of comments are usually insecure dopes not worth another thought unless it’s to feel pity for them. So even if someone told you they find your pics lovely, salacious, lovely, tasty, lickable, scrumptious, you'd still object to those type of comments? I mean, look, yeah, if someone is after right out offending you with nasty comments, yeah sure, to hell with them. But if someone is trying to pay you a compliment, in a moment of pure lust driven verbal moment, cause they'd ride that lady in the pics in your profile until your wheel fell off and the chassis cracked... Can you really blame them? I dunno... I learned a long time ago to shrug off insults and accusations cause it really leads you nowhere... " There’s a difference between someone complimenting a picture of you and commenting on your body. For instance, I’ve had people compliment weight loss when in reality I had been sick and would’ve chosen not to lose weight over feeling like a pile of garbage. I said as much to them and some peoples response was well at least you lost some weight. Fatphobia is so rampant that losing weight even if it’s due to illness is seen as a positive thing. The mind boggles really. | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing? Oh there definitely is. We are seen as pity fucks by some. " I've felt that way a lot.. | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing? Oh there definitely is. We are seen as pity fucks by some. I pity you. But for a whole different set of reasons" The feeling is mutual pumpkin  | |||
" People who call women with curves “real women” are covered in red flags! The sooner people learn to not comment on other peoples bodies, no matter what shape that body is, the better. I’m fairly lucky that I haven’t gotten any abuse here over the shape of my body, in the recent past anyway. Those that do make those kinds of comments are usually insecure dopes not worth another thought unless it’s to feel pity for them. So even if someone told you they find your pics lovely, salacious, lovely, tasty, lickable, scrumptious, you'd still object to those type of comments? I mean, look, yeah, if someone is after right out offending you with nasty comments, yeah sure, to hell with them. But if someone is trying to pay you a compliment, in a moment of pure lust driven verbal moment, cause they'd ride that lady in the pics in your profile until your wheel fell off and the chassis cracked... Can you really blame them? I dunno... I learned a long time ago to shrug off insults and accusations cause it really leads you nowhere... There’s a difference between someone complimenting a picture of you and commenting on your body. For instance, I’ve had people compliment weight loss when in reality I had been sick and would’ve chosen not to lose weight over feeling like a pile of garbage. I said as much to them and some peoples response was well at least you lost some weight. Fatphobia is so rampant that losing weight even if it’s due to illness is seen as a positive thing. The mind boggles really. " Ah look, people don't know the personal circumstances, so one can't really judge. On the other hand, myself being overweight and it finally starting to bother me, I'd always compliment and affirmatively respond to anyone loosing weight. I do get concerned when some people go on the opposite side of the spectrum and go anorexic, that actually catches my eye. Even the old, your height in cm minus 100 is your ideal weight... Eeeh.. Dunno, maybe have 10, 20 on top of that, just in case you need it. So, in summary, for me it's more of a medical indication rather then anything else. As for haters, haters be haters, if it's not cause someone riding you has something to hold on to, then it's because your nail polish is not organic, or you don't use cats piss as yer perfume | |||
"We got a lovely message from a guy looking for meet mrsf because he had "never fucked a fat girl" Ah yea there’s a cohort of men who have a fantasy of fucking a fat woman but wouldn’t acknowledge your existence in a public place…delightful behaviour. I wonder is it cause we’re squishy…are they trying to relive some teenage memory of jumping a teddy bear? Is there a misconception that the fatter you are the easier you will be? The whole gratitude thing? Oh there definitely is. We are seen as pity fucks by some. I pity you. But for a whole different set of reasons The feeling is mutual pumpkin "This. It's at the stage I no longer believe anyone is really genuine anymore. | |||
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" People who call women with curves “real women” are covered in red flags! The sooner people learn to not comment on other peoples bodies, no matter what shape that body is, the better. I’m fairly lucky that I haven’t gotten any abuse here over the shape of my body, in the recent past anyway. Those that do make those kinds of comments are usually insecure dopes not worth another thought unless it’s to feel pity for them. So even if someone told you they find your pics lovely, salacious, lovely, tasty, lickable, scrumptious, you'd still object to those type of comments? I mean, look, yeah, if someone is after right out offending you with nasty comments, yeah sure, to hell with them. But if someone is trying to pay you a compliment, in a moment of pure lust driven verbal moment, cause they'd ride that lady in the pics in your profile until your wheel fell off and the chassis cracked... Can you really blame them? I dunno... I learned a long time ago to shrug off insults and accusations cause it really leads you nowhere... There’s a difference between someone complimenting a picture of you and commenting on your body. For instance, I’ve had people compliment weight loss when in reality I had been sick and would’ve chosen not to lose weight over feeling like a pile of garbage. I said as much to them and some peoples response was well at least you lost some weight. Fatphobia is so rampant that losing weight even if it’s due to illness is seen as a positive thing. The mind boggles really. Ah look, people don't know the personal circumstances, so one can't really judge. On the other hand, myself being overweight and it finally starting to bother me, I'd always compliment and affirmatively respond to anyone loosing weight. I do get concerned when some people go on the opposite side of the spectrum and go anorexic, that actually catches my eye. Even the old, your height in cm minus 100 is your ideal weight... Eeeh.. Dunno, maybe have 10, 20 on top of that, just in case you need it. So, in summary, for me it's more of a medical indication rather then anything else. As for haters, haters be haters, if it's not cause someone riding you has something to hold on to, then it's because your nail polish is not organic, or you don't use cats piss as yer perfume " The fact that no one knows the personal circumstances is the very reason why weight loss or gain should never be commented on! | |||
" The fact that no one knows the personal circumstances is the very reason why weight loss or gain should never be commented on!" No arguments here! | |||
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"I always find it funny when guys message and expect an instant meet for fun and you politely turn them down then get the response of was only joking anyway your too fat to fuck or who would fuck you anyway etc.. However if I had met and sucked your cock their would have been no issue " exactly this. Does my head in. I'd almost use that as a test but that wouldn't be fair on the decent men. | |||
"Plus size is a term that grinds my gears tbh. Plus size as apposed to what? It's a fact that most men prefer curvy women so why isn't plus size the standard size and the smaller sizes a minus size? Rant over. Just me overthinking something again " That's a very interesting take on things...thanks | |||
