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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
Newry Down |
When others, especially women, give me a second glance and acknowledge my inherent attractiveness.
For a combination of reasons, when I was much younger I had no personal awareness of my intrinsic attractiveness, especially to females, although I was aware of elderly men who showed an abnormal interest in me!
The latter presented a problem on many occasions, especially at school, where one teacher, now recently deceased, was keen to be alone with me, in order to groom and sexually assault me.
Women of my own age were not openly attracted to me, only older men and women, of my parents' age who on occasions would expose themselves, their genitalia, to me.
So attractiveness has been a perplexing issue and a problem during my life.
This is is probably why I have formerly dressed down in order not to be an attraction to people.
It is not a problem as such, just something I had to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From the lounge
Going to the gym "
 this and just dressing up nice and looking nice with my hair done and a little makeup , this time of the year tan always adds a nice glow.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When others, especially women, give me a second glance and acknowledge my inherent attractiveness.
For a combination of reasons, when I was much younger I had no personal awareness of my intrinsic attractiveness, especially to females, although I was aware of elderly men who showed an abnormal interest in me!
The latter presented a problem on many occasions, especially at school, where one teacher, now recently deceased, was keen to be alone with me, in order to groom and sexually assault me.
Women of my own age were not openly attracted to me, only older men and women, of my parents' age who on occasions would expose themselves, their genitalia, to me.
So attractiveness has been a perplexing issue and a problem during my life.
This is is probably why I have formerly dressed down in order not to be an attraction to people.
It is not a problem as such, just something I had to do."
Jubal1 I'm so sorry that you had to go through all of thar hardship as a child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When others, especially women, give me a second glance and acknowledge my inherent attractiveness.
For a combination of reasons, when I was much younger I had no personal awareness of my intrinsic attractiveness, especially to females, although I was aware of elderly men who showed an abnormal interest in me!
The latter presented a problem on many occasions, especially at school, where one teacher, now recently deceased, was keen to be alone with me, in order to groom and sexually assault me.
Women of my own age were not openly attracted to me, only older men and women, of my parents' age who on occasions would expose themselves, their genitalia, to me.
So attractiveness has been a perplexing issue and a problem during my life.
This is is probably why I have formerly dressed down in order not to be an attraction to people.
It is not a problem as such, just something I had to do."
That was very traumatic Jubal 
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By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago
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"When others, especially women, give me a second glance and acknowledge my inherent attractiveness.
For a combination of reasons, when I was much younger I had no personal awareness of my intrinsic attractiveness, especially to females, although I was aware of elderly men who showed an abnormal interest in me!
The latter presented a problem on many occasions, especially at school, where one teacher, now recently deceased, was keen to be alone with me, in order to groom and sexually assault me.
Women of my own age were not openly attracted to me, only older men and women, of my parents' age who on occasions would expose themselves, their genitalia, to me.
So attractiveness has been a perplexing issue and a problem during my life.
This is is probably why I have formerly dressed down in order not to be an attraction to people.
It is not a problem as such, just something I had to do."
Sorry to hear Jubal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When others, especially women, give me a second glance and acknowledge my inherent attractiveness.
For a combination of reasons, when I was much younger I had no personal awareness of my intrinsic attractiveness, especially to females, although I was aware of elderly men who showed an abnormal interest in me!
The latter presented a problem on many occasions, especially at school, where one teacher, now recently deceased, was keen to be alone with me, in order to groom and sexually assault me.
Women of my own age were not openly attracted to me, only older men and women, of my parents' age who on occasions would expose themselves, their genitalia, to me.
So attractiveness has been a perplexing issue and a problem during my life.
This is is probably why I have formerly dressed down in order not to be an attraction to people.
It is not a problem as such, just something I had to do."
I'm very sorry to hear that.
it's really horrible that you had to go through that. I hope the current generation never have to experience such abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite complex. Some days...absolutely nothing. Others it's hair, make up & nails done, a summer glow and a cute dress. A gaze that lingers a little longer than is decent. A flirty conversation. When E absolutely devours me. But mostly it's confidence...if I'm feeling confident I feel attractive. And weirdly I felt at my most confident last weekend, literally stripped bare. I might have actually looked like fuck all squared but maaaaan I felt like a total goddess and that was purely down to confidence. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
Feeling good in what I’m wearing and walking taller as a result.
If taking another’s perspective into account, there’s nothing that makes me feel sexier/attractive than a guy biting his lip when he looks at me and pulling me in for a kiss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite complex. Some days...absolutely nothing. Others it's hair, make up & nails done, a summer glow and a cute dress. A gaze that lingers a little longer than is decent. A flirty conversation. When E absolutely devours me. But mostly it's confidence...if I'm feeling confident I feel attractive. And weirdly I felt at my most confident last weekend, literally stripped bare. I might have actually looked like fuck all squared but maaaaan I felt like a total goddess and that was purely down to confidence. "
I get this. A lot of mine down is internal factors as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For myself as a male, it's simple things.
A hair cut, a fresh beard trim. A pressed shirt and slacks.
Smelling good nice aftershave. It doesn't have to be over the top or anything like that.
I've just found when I'm at my most confident is when I've done all of the above. I can look in the mirror and before I wonder what other people think I approve of my own appearance.
After that everything else just becomes easy
It probably sounds a little shallow, but for me if you feel good in yourself overall your attractiveness to other people will shine thus making you feel attractive in return.
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By (user no longer on site)
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For myself as a male, it's simple things.
A hair cut, a fresh beard trim. A pressed shirt and slacks.
Smelling good nice aftershave. It doesn't have to be over the top or anything like that.
I've just found when I'm at my most confident is when I've done all of the above. I can look in the mirror and before I wonder what other people think I approve of my own appearance.
After that everything else just becomes easy
It probably sounds a little shallow, but for me if you feel good in yourself overall your attractiveness to other people will shine thus making you feel attractive in return.
C. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For myself as a male, it's simple things.
A hair cut, a fresh beard trim. A pressed shirt and slacks.
Smelling good nice aftershave. It doesn't have to be over the top or anything like that.
I've just found when I'm at my most confident is when I've done all of the above. I can look in the mirror and before I wonder what other people think I approve of my own appearance.
After that everything else just becomes easy
It probably sounds a little shallow, but for me if you feel good in yourself overall your attractiveness to other people will shine thus making you feel attractive in return.
C. "
very true |
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