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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles  |
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"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles "
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too"
Oh aye. Silence can add to the moment if it's a "better be quiet or we will be caught" moment  |
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"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too"
I can confirm. I talk to myself all the time while wanking.
If I'm wearing odd gloves to mimic a threesome I do different voices as well. It's the only way!  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I am more of a moaner 
That ceiling needs painting or those windows could do with a wash 
And the electricity bill.. Ffs, did you see it.. "
See it I am here trying to sell body parts to pay it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too
I can confirm. I talk to myself all the time while wanking.
If I'm wearing odd gloves to mimic a threesome I do different voices as well. It's the only way! "
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"I am more of a moaner
That ceiling needs painting or those windows could do with a wash
And the electricity bill.. Ffs, did you see it..
See it I am here trying to sell body parts to pay it "
Aye, and at your age that's not easy |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I am more of a moaner
That ceiling needs painting or those windows could do with a wash
And the electricity bill.. Ffs, did you see it..
See it I am here trying to sell body parts to pay it
Aye, and at your age that's not easy "
Proof they are still working though |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"I am more of a moaner
That ceiling needs painting or those windows could do with a wash
And the electricity bill.. Ffs, did you see it..
See it I am here trying to sell body parts to pay it
Aye, and at your age that's not easy
Proof they are still working though "
As long as they aren't removed body parts and just selling your own for use we won't report ya! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I am more of a moaner
That ceiling needs painting or those windows could do with a wash
And the electricity bill.. Ffs, did you see it..
See it I am here trying to sell body parts to pay it
Aye, and at your age that's not easy
Proof they are still working though
As long as they aren't removed body parts and just selling your own for use we won't report ya!"
What ya talking Bout removed its the whole package or nothing
Do you know what it cost to run the freezer to store em in |
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"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too
I can confirm. I talk to myself all the time while wanking.
If I'm wearing odd gloves to mimic a threesome I do different voices as well. It's the only way! "
I just spat my tea out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting post OP.
I had a chat with a lady friend of mine about this recently as I can be quite a noisy lover and just dont enjoy sex as much if i try to be quiet - it puts me in my head rather than purely physical.
In the moment if there is no one to hear me but other full-of-lust sex fiends I dont give a hoot about noise. 
My friend feels self-conscious about being noisy because of 'not wanting to sound like a porn movie' and overthinking what to say and how she sounds.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only recently found my voice when it comes to sex and it's liberating, and if I'm with a guy and he's vocal I find it hot as hell and my go to porn is the ones where the guys make noise mmmmm |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"Interesting post OP.
I had a chat with a lady friend of mine about this recently as I can be quite a noisy lover and just dont enjoy sex as much if i try to be quiet - it puts me in my head rather than purely physical.
In the moment if there is no one to hear me but other full-of-lust sex fiends I dont give a hoot about noise.
My friend feels self-conscious about being noisy because of 'not wanting to sound like a porn movie' and overthinking what to say and how she sounds.
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I have to say. It was conditioning to begin with from the younger age but over time it would have become worries over self-consciousness but as I allowed myself to explore my vocal ability. It has increased my ability to orgasm as well as some of them being down right the best orgasms ever.
Something has to be said for the aural pleasure fucking all our senses rather than just physical. |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"I've only recently found my voice when it comes to sex and it's liberating, and if I'm with a guy and he's vocal I find it hot as hell and my go to porn is the ones where the guys make noise mmmmm"
Completely agree! Congrats on finding your voice because no doubt the sex has just amplified itself 
If that's your kinda porn you should let me know what you think of my videos |
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Personally I cum kinda quietly and release the energy through spasms.
On the other hand, I love to talk dirty stuff to her to induce a better response. If she talks even better.
I love it when she releases vocally, however I find there is a good measure for everything, so screaming her head off would be diverting, to say so the least. |
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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago
Galway |
For women anyway, there’s apparently a link between the vocal chords and the vagina. Being vocal can increase the intensity of your orgasm. It definitely does for me!
Check out @vaginarehabdoctor on insta. She talks about this kinda stuff! |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"For women anyway, there’s apparently a link between the vocal chords and the vagina. Being vocal can increase the intensity of your orgasm. It definitely does for me!
Check out @vaginarehabdoctor on insta. She talks about this kinda stuff!"
Quite possible the same link is there for the penis because I'd say the times I've allowed myself to moan and groan, be vocally in the moment has done the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For years upon years i maintained trying to remain as quiet as possible when orgasming.
Within the last few years i, ashamed to admit, have discovered allowing myself to be vocal and to breathe as heavily as i feel the need to actually helps me orgasm better.
Anyone else discover this or other conditioning that impacted their orgasms or other relative enjoyment of sex? I've also come to realise majority of women love to hear a vocal male, which is why I like to have video/audio content on my profiles
It seems be a better and stronger release if your vocal. But there's times silence is golden too
I can confirm. I talk to myself all the time while wanking.
If I'm wearing odd gloves to mimic a threesome I do different voices as well. It's the only way! "
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Breath, Move your body , make sounds. Its the best way to allow more pleasure to flow around your body.
Imagine how a cat shows its feeling pleasure.. Purring, moving its body,.. Obvious signs of pleasure.
Sometimes, we humans can be as rigid as planks, even during orgasm.
Its how we have been conditioned to be sexual from an early age. |
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By *irWhiskey OP Man
over a year ago
The water of life |
"Breath, Move your body , make sounds. Its the best way to allow more pleasure to flow around your body.
Imagine how a cat shows its feeling pleasure.. Purring, moving its body,.. Obvious signs of pleasure.
Sometimes, we humans can be as rigid as planks, even during orgasm.
Its how we have been conditioned to be sexual from an early age. "
Completely. Thank you for adding to the discussion. Plus your name just makes me think how wonderful it would be to have someone teach me tantric experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Breath, Move your body , make sounds. Its the best way to allow more pleasure to flow around your body.
Imagine how a cat shows its feeling pleasure.. Purring, moving its body,.. Obvious signs of pleasure.
Sometimes, we humans can be as rigid as planks, even during orgasm.
Its how we have been conditioned to be sexual from an early age. "
Ive been known to hum lol 
and when someone hum's on me during oral it is sensational |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Breath, Move your body , make sounds. Its the best way to allow more pleasure to flow around your body.
Imagine how a cat shows its feeling pleasure.. Purring, moving its body,.. Obvious signs of pleasure.
Sometimes, we humans can be as rigid as planks, even during orgasm.
Its how we have been conditioned to be sexual from an early age.
Ive been known to hum lol
and when someone hum's on me during oral it is sensational "
Absolutely. Just at the tip or in her case the clit. Amazing results  |
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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago
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"Breath, Move your body , make sounds. Its the best way to allow more pleasure to flow around your body.
Imagine how a cat shows its feeling pleasure.. Purring, moving its body,.. Obvious signs of pleasure.
Sometimes, we humans can be as rigid as planks, even during orgasm.
Its how we have been conditioned to be sexual from an early age. "
I've been conditioned to be quite. But I think we need to embrace the noise. It's beautiful after all. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I haven't been conditioned to make noise or to be quiet. I go with the flow and sometimes I'm quiet other times I'm not. I can't say making noise has made sex any more or any less enjoyable for me it's usually been pretty damn good.
I don't mind if a guy is quiet either I think it can be quite sexy and horny to learn to read his body and see the other signs that show he is enjoying himself,like sudden intakes of breath or his breathing changing and becoming more rapid,his body tensing and quivering under your touch.
A guy who moans can also be quite sexy as well though especially when it's that deep gutteral moan and you just know they are close to cumming.
But I must admit I have been put off by guys making too much noise in the past especially when it was one guy in particular who made the strangest noise when he came. It became really off putting after a while. |
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