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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get why people looking to meet couples would want to see both partners.
But then it's their profile to do with as they want.
Plenty couples out there have both people in majority of their pictures just interact with them instead. |
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I don't understand it either.
Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?
Or is it camera shyness from the male half?
Would be interested to hear from couples who do this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter "
Same with us. As it tends to be me on the profile more than the mister |
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"I don't understand it either.
Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?
Or is it camera shyness from the male half?
Would be interested to hear from couples who do this "
Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter "
Same. We would send a message asking to see a pic of male half. If that is ignored we go as far as block those profiles even if they are well known. Like I wouldn't not waiste ours or their time if there is no attraction towards the mister of the couple for me.
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Totally agree, miss tattoo 
"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"
Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.
Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point  |
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"Totally agree, miss tattoo
"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"
Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.
Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point "
This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree, miss tattoo
"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"
Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.
Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point
This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice "
Ah come on now dad bod is totally a thing these days  |
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"Totally agree, miss tattoo
"ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at"
Ah now I'd agree with you but that's subjective, e.g. Mrs. is far more attracted to men.
Leaving the male half out of a profile seems like an unnecessary barrier if he's going to be included in a meet.. he's going to be seen at some point
This is true and i certainly agree with the point of your post.. its just when uploading photos, given a choice between my gut or her fabulous boobs, its an easy choice
Ah come on now dad bod is totally a thing these days "
Hahaha i guess we'll just have to take more photos this evening and embrace the belly 
Any excuse really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter
Same. We would send a message asking to see a pic of male half. If that is ignored we go as far as block those profiles even if they are well known. Like I wouldn't not waiste ours or their time if there is no attraction towards the mister of the couple for me.
Miss_tattoo "
Exactly, it's as if the woman is the bait and a straight female half is just supposed to take whatever pitches up |
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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago
Youghal |
Our current target market is single guys and for the most part they aren't interested in seeing Mr
We generally only meet couples at parties where most of the guests already know us. If we are chatting to a couple we've not met before we share plenty of pics. |
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"I don't understand it either.
Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?
Or is it camera shyness from the male half?
Would be interested to hear from couples who do this
Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at "
Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.
While I’m a very handsome guy , we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.
However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard |
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I get that as a single bi female looking couples and group fun would be nice to see more pics of both the lady and the man! If I get asked to meet which is rarely I'd need to at least see a few pics of them both to termine if the meet will go ahead...hate wasting peoples time too! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't understand it either.
Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?
Or is it camera shyness from the male half?
Would be interested to hear from couples who do this
Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at
Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.
While I’m a very handsome guy , we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.
However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard "
In cases like yourselves yeah I get why no or few pics of males. It's the couples that want to meet both that annoy us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its ignorance when a couples profile is presented like this with no male pics.
...heard all the excuses over the years. He doesn't like his pic taken bla bla he's shy bla bla but great at play he's a great cock pic....really ..run quick good luck with that
Its a couples profile not just the female one . It's a complete turn off for potential play and defineatly a party invite ....why would you want to chat and spend time or invite and interact with half of a profile while the other half is a ghost.
It's simple dynamics really
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"I think its ignorance when a couples profile is presented like this with no male pics.
...heard all the excuses over the years. He doesn't like his pic taken bla bla he's shy bla bla but great at play he's a great cock pic....really ..run quick good luck with that
Its a couples profile not just the female one . It's a complete turn off for potential play and defineatly a party invite ....why would you want to chat and spend time or invite and interact with half of a profile while the other half is a ghost.
It's simple dynamics really
Happy fabbing "
Yep this |
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"I don't understand it either.
Perhaps some think men are objectively less attractive/photogenic than women?
Or is it camera shyness from the male half?
Would be interested to hear from couples who do this
Im in our photos, and our friends only photos have some of just me.. but Ann is the 'selling point' if that makes sense.. ladies are just infinitely more fun to look at
Agreed. Also feel that there are more options in terms of lingerie, outfits, and tone.
While I’m a very handsome guy , we are only looking for a friend for Scarlett so our photos are focused on her because what I look like is irrelevant in the scenario.
However, do agree with the OPs point that if you are shopping for full swap/all in play then everyone needs to be on the billboard
In cases like yourselves yeah I get why no or few pics of males. It's the couples that want to meet both that annoy us "
Absolutely get why it would be annoying in an all in scenario. If we get back into couple play the. We probably wouldn’t even entertain a message unless both partners were well represented on the profile. Kinda sounds like it is the couple equivalent of a silhouette profile picture.
Separately, hot profile btw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr.Fantasy is in one or two private pics. But our dynamic is we are not meeting couples/females.
Single men only in a "hotwife" situation. Obviously if we were to explore a MFM situation and they wanted to see him then no problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Eh, at this point we just ignore couple profiles which don't have any public pics of the male, another filter
Same. We would send a message asking to see a pic of male half. If that is ignored we go as far as block those profiles even if they are well known. Like I wouldn't not waiste ours or their time if there is no attraction towards the mister of the couple for me.
Miss_tattoo
Exactly, it's as if the woman is the bait and a straight female half is just supposed to take whatever pitches up"
100% I (the female half) think it's rude AF so it's another useful filter |
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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago
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This is a huge frustration for us. Our Mr might get all excited with a message from a couple with loads of hot photos of her, while it’s a disgruntled “meh” from our Mrs due to conspicuous absence of any pics of him on the profile.
Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either. |
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"yoiuve a very balanced profile…suppose many couples could learn from it and emulate."
Ta as do you xx
We just feel fortunate that we can be as open as we are but wouldn't expect the same from anyone else, e.g. public face pics. Our forthrightness and "rules"/preferences certainly put some folks off though! |
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"This is a huge frustration for us. Our Mr might get all excited with a message from a couple with loads of hot photos of her, while it’s a disgruntled “meh” from our Mrs due to conspicuous absence of any pics of him on the profile.
Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either."
The Mrs here wouldn't give the profile a second look if there is no male pics! She's a bit direct that way. In her head it's a female dominant couple, where the male is literally just been brought along for the ride, an instant turn-off! |
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"I think it may often be the other way around! As in, male half is posting the pics he likes because "women are objectively hotter than men", etc. "
funny how different people look at it in different ways! |
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I think everyone should be allowed to post what ever they want, not having both parties in public pics isnt a deal breaker for us. In our friends pics we do have a lot more variety of both of us but i suppose im better behind the camera as a photographer and filmaker i tend to like taking pics more than being in them |
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We try to have pictures of both. Hope we have got the mixture right. Open to suggestions on this. Agree with many of the posters comments. Both parties need to get a feel for the potential play partners. |
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"This is a huge frustration for us. Our Mr might get all excited with a message from a couple with loads of hot photos of her, while it’s a disgruntled “meh” from our Mrs due to conspicuous absence of any pics of him on the profile.
Full body pics of her in multiple poses and just different angles of his erect penis doesn’t cut it either."
Yep that is very frustrating.
If there is no pic of Mr and above all no pic other than his cock then we just pass.
I think if you’re looking for another couple not having pictures of the male half is disrespectful. To me it means you don’t really care about my opinion . Or it shows a dynamic we prefer to stay away from.
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Our theory on this, most couples profiles, it is generally the male that does a lot of the online stuff so target the male and hope for the best.
This doesn’t make sense though??
If we get a message from a couple first question Sara asks... is there a pic of the male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As F running a couple profile where discussing everything with Mr ( I know it’s rare) but we try share both us we move our pics around from friends to public we ain’t here for attention on hot pics which seems like what fab is wank material, a girl will grab the attention or Mr cock by males (he’s not bi) all depends what your looking for it’s hard when looking for couples to meet together get hounded by males always if wanted single meets we would open our single profiles |
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"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples. "
Totally agree
Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.
What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?
Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.
Totally agree
Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.
What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?
Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say' "
It suggests nothing to me except they have taken separate pics,as is the case with us (we do have a couple of us together in friends only). |
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By *OCONO5Couple
over a year ago
Sensual Center |
"Pleeeease include both people if you're presenting as a couple and are seeking women or other couples.
Totally agree
Here's another suggestion ... please include at least one picture of you as a couple.
What can it suggest when profiles have pics of the male and also pics of the female but no pics of them together?
Note I say 'suggest' and not 'say'
It suggests nothing to me except they have taken separate pics,as is the case with us (we do have a couple of us together in friends only). "
Agree |
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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago
City Centre |
I made a thread on this before. It is a major gripe for me.
Whilst everyone has their reasons for not showing the male half of the couple which I fully understand...I personally wouldn't look twice at a couple profile where there are no pics of the male part.
As a couple it's important we see both parts of the couple. Neither of us want to 'take one for the team'
From personal experience as a former single female it was the same there was no way I would have met a couple without seeing both parts of the couple.
So boys don't be shy get posting!!
B xx |
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